When you were young, what do you think of "this person has a promising future"?

I have met many good friends, I have a talented and beautiful appearance, I have always been the first, and my family is unfathomable. But from then on, I feel that my friends who must have achievements in the future are ordinary, but There are ordinary but extraordinary qualities, telling their stories, and also recording their young memories.

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High school friend Y, rural girl, thin, often doing farm work and very dark, looks ordinary. The family is poor and remote. When you are in the middle of the country, you have to ride an hour-long bicycle to the town to go to school. The family is poor, the house is shabby, there is no money to repair, and it will leak when it rains.

She is hardworking and extremely hardworking. Being optimistic, cheerful, kind, helpful, busy, and everyone likes her very much. In terms of academic performance, her talent is not a good product. Although she has worked hard and achieved excellent results, she is not always the top. Since I was a child, I decided to study medicine and I want to be an excellent doctor.

If this is the case, I can only say that she is similar to other excellent rural children. Why did I feel that she must have a different response in the future, because then I found her an unusual trait - continuous high efficiency and high intensity jobs. At first, I found out that she had barely seen her spend time, but she completed the teacher assignment work early.

Our class is a key science class. It is very difficult for the teacher to arrange the topic. I secretly pay attention to her. I found that during the 10 minutes of class break, she dropped the pen and quickly completed the homework assigned by the teacher. It seems that it is not difficult. However, in fact, the high school curriculum is so close, and the 40-minute class is continuously and carefully listened to, such as physics, mathematics, English, etc., people are already very tired, and 10 minutes of break between classes is a rare free time, we are all chatting outside. Rest, if you use your brain to do difficult calculations or memories, it is very hard.

She also has a very focused class. She often asks her questions. She usually answers, and reminds me by the way that this topic was actually mentioned in the class during the last semester. Every time she takes the exam, she often finishes the problem early. After class, she went to work to help her family, until the evening, and then went back to school to study.

And most importantly, I found that she did anything, messed up activities, cleaned up, let her help with private affairs, anything, no matter how difficult and hard it was, she could complete the task very efficiently and quickly, right after Just like flying fast, the rhythm is totally different from ours. I thought at the time, I wanted to open a company, send half of her shares, and let her be the general manager.

In the college entrance examination, she played a small disorder. She did not take the ideal medical school of Zhongda University, but the material major of Zhongda University. At that time, I felt so a pity, but it was a pity that it was not Y. Unfortunately, China lost a great future. Doctors.

At the time of college, her horrible continuous high-efficiency and high-intensity work traits were brought to the extreme. The entire university has been working part-time to make money. It has not spent a penny at home. It sends money every month to help the family. The computer phone is easy to buy and wear. Take first-class scholarships, participate in the Universiade, the main force of the Badminton team, the main team of the volleyball team, the women's football team leader, the vice president of the student union, the undergraduate team to use the team competition, student union activities, part-time opportunities to travel to more than 20 cities across the country, the city to study The classmates warmly received her, and the classmates went to the outing to watch the movie and sang K.

Once I asked her how to do so many things, she simply said her day's arrangements: get up at 6 o'clock every day, 6:30 training, 8 o'clock to take breakfast, 8:30, 12 o'clock, 12 o'clock Half-break, no class after 14 o'clock, sometimes games, sometimes student activities, nothing to go shopping, watching movies, 6 o'clock to do tutor or other part-time job, 22 o'clock dormitory review to 23:30 to sleep. Every day.

The graduate student at the University of China has followed a professor of the most advanced materials in the country, with the material project of the Shenba device. Yan Yi, the dean of the hospital gave her the key to the entire experimental building, responsible for the management arrangement of the entire experimental building, managing the project of the brothers and sisters, I think this dean, so smart. The director of the China Rocket Center personally went to the institute to check the aerospace project under the tutor's responsibility, telling Y, you will read a doctor with your tutor, complete the project, and then work at my rocket center! Y later told me that it is a pity that I can't go to the Rocket Center because the family is too poor. After finishing the study, I will go out to work and earn more money to help my family, so that my parents don't have to be so tired and live a better life.

After graduating from March, Y flew to Australia to study for a Ph.D. because the school provided a monthly living allowance of RMB 15,000. Never heard that she planned to go abroad, asked her when she had passed the IELTS, and answered: I had a hard review for a month before graduation. The wages I found before were not high. Australian schools offered better living expenses. They paid a month to review and passed IELTS. Hey, graduated from photography, and didn’t play well with the students.

So far, she and her husband are still reading Bo, how the future is still unknown, but she is studying in the southern hemisphere, subletting the house to undergraduate students, working, catching crabs, growing vegetables, returning to the rural home to send money to cover the new cement. The house is busy, and the world’s academic conferences are accompanied by travel.

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A friend with a mediocre qualification, the small country will make friends, chubby, ordinary appearance, no sports talent, learning talent. Hours are poor, after the parents have done business, the family is superior, the people are loyal, confident and courageous, doing everything is very diligent, but the qualifications are general, the results have been average.

After the development, the relatives who looked down on their homes were flattering. Later, in the middle of the country, business was defeated, and relatives played the characteristics of Chinese-style relatives and fell into the rocks. All the assets in the family were sold, and the parents went out to work and pay debts. They went to study in their hometowns without any relatives.

There are air-conditioned luxury homes in the home, moving into the summer without a fan, winter without hot water bathing in the simple school dormitory, did not complain to anyone, still optimistic, confident still, try to pick up girls, study hard, play hard. After the college entrance examination failed, only the college entrance examination, and make persistent efforts to repeat the battle, only one book, a kindergarten teacher professional, education kindergarten children. Call and ask me: "Or, I will come again?" I said, maybe you are not reading the material, graduate early and work early!

When I was in college, I was still optimistic, still confident, trying to pick up girls, study hard, and play hard. At this time, the parents paid off their debts and purchased a small house in the suburbs of Guangzhou, and returned to a well-off life. After graduating for 5 years, he has started the BMW 5 Series and lived happily with his wife and daughter.

Very early, he planned to go to work outside the enterprise without considering academic ability. He voted for Sony Apple Procter & Gamble and many foreign companies. Because the academic qualifications were too bad, they didn't succeed, but they did not give up the spirit and made a boss appreciate it. Help him. It is recommended to a foreign company with a strict and high elimination rate, a US listed company, and a leading commercial real estate company in China. Just 3 months of trial, less than 10% of the people who can stay.

The company is in contact with the world's top big companies, customers are extraordinary people, relying on the indifferent winds and waves, the business wisdom left by parents, good treatment of people, from childhood to foreign companies, lay a good foundation in foreign languages, diligent attitude, A good reputation among all customers, and a successful foothold in the company. Four years later, he became the head of the department, and his graduates are from Tsinghua University, Zhongda University, and the University of Liverpool.

It is not accidental or luck that a foreign teacher of three kindergarten teachers with a professional salary of over one million.

I am in Guangdong, the county students go home, the rural students live in the school, a dozen people and a dormitory, the dormitory is very simple. The wires are old and can't be loaded with fans. At night, they sleep at 30 degrees. There is no hot water in winter, all people wash cold water, and when they go to class in the afternoon, they live in school, first make a push to stand up, then take a shower, and when they are cold, they will sing and sing. Whenever the bath time, the dormitory songs come and go, other conditions can be imagined.

Before w, the home was superior, the mansion was fully air-conditioned and heated. At the beginning of the 1990s, karaoke was popular. I saw the only room in the house that sang K. I was young and ignorant, and actually asked him, you live in a dormitory of more than a dozen people, so hard, summer is so hot, fans are not, are you used to it? w said, it was too hot, bought a small battery fan to blow, everyone chatted very happy at night, tired and fell asleep, others received, I have no habits. No loss, no complaints, light and cheerful.

When I saw it in an hour, his family and him suffered from cold eyes when they were poor. After they developed, they were not snobbish and treated with lenientness. After the failure, they suffered humiliation and their relatives deviated, but they did not blame others. Instead, they endured hardship, optimism and hard work. w I have seen people warm and cold, and parents have lost valuable experience of success and failure. This kind of person who is indomitable in the world, no matter what he does, will not be bad.

Now that his life has just been happy, God has made a joke to him. His hard-working father died of serious illness at a young age and soon passed away. He didn't talk much about his father's early death. Only recently, we drove to the suburbs to eat together. On the way back, he turned to look at the car and played tired and sleepy 2 year old daughter. He said, I am very grateful to my daughter, she can It was a lucky time to come to the world early and accompany my father for the last few months. Tears in tears. In the face of life and death, we are calm and calm, facing life suffering, not blaming, but gratitude.

I think that people like this will make him more and more frustrated, no matter what the hardships that God gave him.