When you graduate, can you pick up the glass without regret?

Originally thought that the first meeting with Yang Dao would be very pleasant, and in fact, I was wrong.

Yang Dao is a counselor after I entered university.

The first class meeting after enrollment was also the first meeting with Yang Dao, but it seemed that the atmosphere was extremely dignified. I thought that when Yang began to come to the meeting, he would introduce himself very harmoniously. In fact, Yang’s guide went straight to the stage. There was no such thing as “compassionate”: “Don’t think that you can indulge yourself when you step into college now! Think that you are admitted to the university and show off the capital! How can you go to college? How do you depend on how you have been in the university! Don’t think that graduation is still early, four years of college is fleeting! When you When you are graduating from a dinner party, ask yourself if you can afford the glass in your hand!" This sentence is like a slap in the face, and I can't help but hit the face of every classmate. Now I think of it, the pain and hotness at that time. Still floating on the face.

At this moment, my school is over and I am graduating. Every classmate, including the present, was ruthlessly abandoned by the school's "mother body" in the wilderness. Many times, helplessness, loneliness, and confusion are difficult to sleep with the long night. Those unsuspecting struggles, those silent crying depressions in my heart, filled with wine, we frolic and noisy, after a few glasses of wine, tears fell.

Think of the time of college, hurt and happiness and coexist, maybe this is youth. After entering the university, everyone seems to be released by the full sentence. The university is full of impulses to explore and practice. Society, fitness, music, and love all go into life. In many cases, we forget All kinds of embarrassing, expecting to spend time, killing the years, even more stupid, we will feel that this is the university, this is the life we ​​should have.

Xiao G is my classmate. Every time I go to class, he will always be late for a while. Until today, I still remember that she was dragging her tired body and wilting spirit into the classroom. Even if she brought a book, she would just throw it everywhere. I fell asleep and went to sleep. Even if the teacher asked me to ask questions, she still couldn’t move, so I couldn’t understand it. What kind of power is it that allows him to face his studies in this way and live up to this day-to-day youth? Is he really so tired of learning?

Later, I found the answer from her WeChat circle of friends. The reason why Xiao G can't afford to be spiritual is because of a popular episode at that time and the Korean star who made the thousands of girls "mad". What surprised me even more is that her friend circle has been I was telling my own "hard work": "I saw three o'clock at night, my head hurts!", "The finale is finally over, it is not easy to insist until now!", "Why haven't you updated yet! So hurry!" "...and so on. I don't understand why a person can go through all the time because of the pursuit of drama, and even put a label on his own hard work and perseverance. For a long time, I really don't understand.

And my other small classmate D chose another life style. In addition to the school's learning expertise, Xiao D started a customer service at a sales company outside the school's introduction. Compared with the small G, the small D is like a chicken blood every day, running in the morning, class during the day, evening. Between the customers and the graduation, Xiao D relied on his many years of internship experience and professional knowledge. Soon, a famous technology company met him and signed a long-term work contract with him. As other classmates lost their work and work, he had already run in front of the game, leaving only a busy and determined figure. Today, Xiao G is still swaying in various talent markets and job fairs. Perhaps it was her "hard work" and "tiredness" that made her today. Her laughter has changed from the indulgence of the past to the current concealment. Her eyes also lost their light, and they rushed in the noisy crowd, never seeing the front and finding the direction.

We are going to the future, not waiting for the future to come to us. In the university, we used the high tuition fees to prop up the square in our classroom, and buried them in the corners of the crowd that were ignored by the best years of youth. I know that people who are not easy to live have stretched their necks to meet their knowledge, and people who know the future are trying to lift their toes and look out. No one will predict what will happen in the future. After ten years, do we remember the bitterness, sorrow, pain and pain of today? Fortunately, along the way, we gradually saw ourselves, and gradually saw the situation at the foot, and with the footsteps, not only sweat, but also tears.

I vaguely remember that after the meal, no one in the group had leisure and fun in the class. For a time, like dead, this was never seen before at any time. After seeing Xiao D in the same class, he said in the group: "We can still come to class afterwards. We can also listen to Director Wang when he is joking in class, and listen to Mr. Ye’s saying that he used to be "glory" in the past!" The enthusiasm for speaking inside has once again ignited. When everyone comforts, they cherish each other and move each other. However, after graduation, we rushed to each other. We are busy with work, love, and getting married. How many people can really come back to class? Even if there is a chance to come to the class, in the class, we can only huddle in the corner, facing the face of mutual indifference and indifference, the comforts of those who have gathered together in a class have long since disappeared.

"We in the university, there are hanging and rebuilding, and after graduation, only eliminated." When I heard this sentence, an indescribable feeling came to my heart. The university embraces us with its wide-mindedness and shelters us with warm arms. People who are outside the system will be high-minded when they see our outstanding and excellent. When they are profligate, they will still think that we are still young and have not yet graduated. We have reason and capital to spend the day. But the real graduation is coming. Everyone is panicked. We don't have the shelter of the university. There are no pleasant laughs, pleasant tears, pleasant love and lovelorn.

Everything comes so fast, so I can't catch it.

At the time of graduation, can you pick up the glass without regret? For the answer, like the people in the wine, or awake, or drunk, no matter how hard you have struggled, you will be hitting your face in the near future.