People who care about you, never want to be too smart to you

Grandma never went out to remember to bring keys and wallets, which has become a big "allusion" for the whole family to tease her.

The key is that even if she brought it, it is only symbolic. She never worried about how much change in the wallet, and buying enough is not enough. Because every time I go out, I have a grandfather, buy snacks, go to the supermarket, go to the park, my grandmother is only responsible for the scenery.

Once, Grandpa asked her: "How much deposit do you have at home? Do you still remember?" Grandma still smiled and shook her head.

Grandma likes to read books and read newspapers. One big hobby is watching beautiful women. All the photos of the beauty she had seen in the newspaper, she always took a small scissors and carefully cut it along the side, sandwiched in her notebook, and looked at it when she was idle, and her name was "aesthetic". Every day, Grandpa will open the newspaper box on time in the afternoon and put the freshly baked newspaper in the back room for the grandmother to see first. Until recently, my grandfather was sick and was hospitalized. Before leaving, he handed his grandmother a handwritten note with a neatly written message: "Go out and remember to take the key, remember to take the newspaper." Grandma was stunned, but the original box was close at hand. I have never taken the newspaper.

In fact, Grandma has always been the embodiment of beauty and wisdom. When she taught in her early years, the class she took was always the first in the school. She has taught four subjects of language, mathematics, calligraphy, and fine arts at the same time. The teaching plans are meticulous and they are full of energy. But when they arrive home, Grandma seems to have changed personally.

Grandma likes to wear a watch. She said that she would wear a bright crystal on her back and look happy. Going out for a walk or buying a dish, she always wears a watch for the first time and then thinks about what coat to wear. Every time she arrives at home, her first move is to go to the back room to take off the watch, and then put on the home clothes and slippers.

Once I couldn't help but wonder: "Grandma's priority for your watch is high."

"Get used to it. When you get home, you will relax." Grandma smiled.

Yeah, the home is where she can put down all the guards, and she doesn’t have to wait for the order like a watch. There is a grandfather in the family, she has a familiar environment, and she does not need to wear a watch to remind herself.

Grandma is concerned about Grandpa, but she never says anything. Because I care, I will rely on it, consciously put away my so-called savvy, and give a heart to the person in a down-to-earth manner.

It is said that the women in love are all stupid, but what about men? In fact, no one is stupid, because they care, so they are not willing to be too smart about people they like. They would rather put their hard side outside and put all their guards in front of you.

This made me think of my husband.

When I first met the faint feeling that he had a crush on me, we were still working in the same building. Once I got a cold and my throat was inflamed. He secretly bought a throat piece, but he was too embarrassed to go downstairs and give it to me. So I sent a WeChat test every few minutes and asked me if I was uncomfortable.

“Do you drink more water?”

"What are you doing now? Let me help you."

"Is it still hurting?"

"I want to have lunch for a while, I will call you for it."

Looking at this series of seemingly ordinary little concerns, I couldn't help but laugh at the end of the phone.

Another time when I was shopping, my fingers were accidentally scratched. After he knew it, he immediately arrived at the MRT by the MRT, saying that he was going to send me a band-aid. When I let go of the phone and saw him running away from the distance, I felt so funny and surprised. There is a supermarket in my shopping mall. Isn’t it easy to buy a band-aid? But he came around, which made it difficult for me to connect him with the rigorous and gentle people at work. That time, my heart was moved warmly.

I am a foodie, and I don’t leave my mobile phone every day. When I brush my microblog to brush up some enticing food pictures, I will automatically call him. In fact, in my mind, after Aite, this task has been completed. But he will silently classify the collection, silly thinking that I have to eat these foods recently, so I have the conditions to learn by myself, and I will search for which restaurant has this dish without any conditions.

"Actually, I just think that watching pictures should be delicious. Don't be too serious." I once ridiculed him.

"But if you, I, I show that you really want to eat, then you should let them eat." He said innocently.

Looking at his clumsy look, I feel like I have already eaten these foods.

In fact, no one is stupid in this world. Everyone has their own flash and excitement, but why do you always have no resistance when you meet someone?

Because you care, so you can't do it, you can't and don't want to use it for others.

And because of your existence, you can evoke all the innocence in his heart.

As a woman, we certainly need to be strong and self-reliant, but even if you are strong and then stand on your own feet, in the eyes of those who love you, you need to be taken care of at all times and be held in your palm. This is not up to you, but you have to know how to cherish it.