I am going to be ambitious.

"Please, please tell me what to do?! I want to see when someone is saying that comfort is a blessing, there should be too much ambition. When I think that when I am stable, some people say that young people who are not fighting are silly X, I am in the end. What should I do?"

I was a little bit nervous when I got this call, because I clearly remembered that the lemon seemed to tell me that she decided to go to Beijing and said that she was actually a very thoughtful person. I wish her success. With.

I hesitated for a moment. I didn't know how to calm her emotions. I had to listen to her crying and crying. The long-distance call lasted for more than half an hour, and I realized her crux.

After the girl came to Beijing, she worked in an internet startup company. The salary was good, that is, there were fewer people, and she encountered the stage of tackling the next round of financing. She had to be a person alone. Colleagues have been complaining all day long, but she is like a duck in such a fast-paced lifestyle.

In her words: "I feel that I particularly like this feeling of fullness, and I want to be more arrogant." She found a long-lost pleasure in such work, wanting to learn more things. Do more work.

It was her full-fledged working condition that left her colleagues with a "not very good attitude of being aggressive and ambitious."

At first, she was still unaware that the surrounding atmosphere was getting more and more nervous. One day, one of her colleagues said that she had to take time off. The two-day workload could not be completed. When she was arranged by the boss to help, she was already tight. The string was broken - the colleague who was on leave was suddenly angry and said that she didn't have to help, she didn't ask for leave.

Although the girl felt inexplicable, she did not say much. Later, during the lunch break, she entered the bathroom, but accidentally heard that the colleague was discussing her with several other colleagues, which were not very good evaluations.

The one who poked her heart most was a colleague who said, "Don't look at her young age, the ambition is too big! I can't wait for us to die. She is all alone! I am not afraid to kill myself!"

She gave a voice to me with some grievances: "I didn't do anything! I usually try my best to get along with them... Why are you said to be ambitious..."

I heard the girl crying and numb the scalp, so I quickly opened the subject and said: "But why are you uncomfortable because you are said to be ambition?"

She seems to be a little confused and asks me what I mean.

Ok, I mean:

Why can't you be ambitious and ambitious?

Why does ambition become a taunting word?

Why do young people have a bit of ambition to be jokes?

Why do most people take pride in life as a day after day?

It’s fundamental, because we are the ones who grew up listening to the story of Kong Rong’s pear.

Since childhood, adults have told us that "do not fight, do not grab", the child who knows how to be modest is a good boy. Because we are striving for the realm of "not indifferent to clear", only those who do not talk about fame and fortune can be called elegant people. We believe that the arrival of capital is accompanied by a manifestation of maliciousness. We believe that the success of material is bloody, we are afraid of showing desire, so we are silent, but silently hate when someone expresses desire.

We shun the ambitions, but we are afraid of others.

Is ambition really a shameful thing?

I don't think so.

The discussion on "good cities or small cities is good" in the past few days is very hot. It is roughly about why young people prefer Beishangguang instead of going home.

I think about it. I think a big part of the reason is that one of the big cities like Beishangguang attracts young people because it is more inclusive and more diverse. Because of the vastness of the metropolis, it allows young people to be themselves. What you want to do, the dreams it holds, and the ambitions.

Ambition is not terrible, it just means that we expect to achieve higher standards and complete higher challenges. It is not even special.

In other words, ambition is the most fertile soil for cultivating dreams. If you stay in a comfortable and safe place, the ability to realize your dreams is tantamount to idiots and dreams. The dream is only a fantasy.

Facebook founder Zuckerberg, a world-renowned young man. On the FB homepage, in the Favoritequotation column, he wrote this sentence: "Fortunefavorsthebold.", the Chinese translation is "Fortune always cares for the brave", this sentence comes from the ancient Roman epic Aeneid, which is about the ambitious Trojan Warrior. Nias opened the territory and established the story of the empire. You see, ambition is a prerequisite for success, both past and present.

I have written an article before, "I just like ease, is it damn?" ", tells the story of a friend of mine.

So many readers and friends came to me and asked me what I wanted to say when I was struggling for a while.

I just want to say that you are doing your choice and being responsible for your choice. I don't agree with your young age, but I swear to defend your right to choose freely.

Moreover, it is also an ambition to want to make life better. Isn't it?

"I especially look down on you young people. When you are 20 or 30 years old, you are forced to say that it is really faint. Is it true? You go to the countryside, the educated youth is there, the famine is over, you can't experience it. But I am happy and happy today, I have nothing to do with a few dozen cards, go to bed early and get up early, do you think that the heart is quiet and cool? The old monk said that the mountain is the mountain, but did you experience that the mountain is not a mountain? Just go, go to the sea of ​​knives and mountains, do not join the WTO, think that he was born, thinking that he is a living Buddha Nirvana? My plainness is a bitter, your plain faint is lazy, is afraid, is covetous, is not afraid to see the world Earth dog!"

Zhang Jiajia used the aunt's mouth to say the spicy advice. I wish you the ambitious and peace of mind with this girl's question.

I have always been sincere to the world, grateful to me to see the eyes of the world, I am curious about every encounter and separation, curious about the secrets of the mountain Daze, curious in the end of the sunrise, curious tea and coffee, wine and wine glasses, curious sea Stars, curious stories and sounds.

I greedily want to see all the beauty in the world and experience all the good things in my life.

Life is only a few tens of thousands of days in the world, the world is vast, the future is still long, and the life-long run can not be measured. Why can't we be ambitious and geographically strong?

You have to be ambitious, have dreams, and then shine.