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When you own Bole


We have read Han Yu’s article "Ma Shuo". The general idea is this: if there is Bole, there will be a thousand horses. If there is no Bole, the well-qualified Maxima will become a regular horse. If you die, no one knows that it is a horse that can travel thousands of miles.

Perhaps everyone believes in it, must have Bole appear, see their potential, and try their best to cultivate, their talents can be carried forward. Many unsuccessful people often think that they are the only ones who have never had a chance to win. They are not lucky, they have not encountered Bole, and their genius has been buried.

Bole has no doubt about the success of a person. But every Bole is not playing the role of "all the way to support, always dependent", he may have accompanied the winners, but must finally let go, the most important obstacles are still spanned by the winners themselves.

When life encounters Bole, it helps to succeed; and Bole can't be met, no Bole, are we destined to be losers?

Not long ago, a reporter asked the badminton player Xiong Guobao who won the world championship: "You can win the world championship, which teacher is most grateful for?" Mune, he thought, and said frankly: "If you really want to thank, What I should most appreciate is myself."

It turned out that he was only a "green leaf" when he was selected for the national team. The coach chose him not to cultivate him, but to be a sparring partner. He did not complain, nor slacked. He appreciated his skills and believed that he would succeed one day. In those years, in order to enhance physical fitness, in the winter of minus ten degrees, he still went to the morning at 5 in the morning.

That year, he took the opportunity to participate in the World Series. Everyone thought that he was going to be a "sacrifice". No one cares if he will win. Unexpectedly, he actually won the battle all the way, even won the coach's most promising teammates, won the world championship, became famous.

No coach appreciates himself, he appreciates himself; no coach cultivates himself, he cultivates himself. When the opportunity was high, he seized the opportunity and succeeded. If he was entangled in the role of "green leaves", complaining that the coach "has no eyes" and self-exile, then when the opportunity comes down, he will be caught off guard and eventually become a "sacrifice".

No one who succeeds is a fight that requires the teachers of Zhuge to do their best. Successful people are actually their own Bole. If the winner is a Maxima, then the one who wants to run faster, 99% is in his own hands, and the direction is also manipulated by himself. On the road of life, if we don't encounter Bole, we must be brave enough to be our own "Bole".

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