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It doesn’t really mean that you study well.


This summer, go to the movies with friends. More than forty minutes from the opening of the movie, I was sitting bored in the waiting room to play with my mobile phone. At this time, a small couple came to me next to me. It seems that they should have just graduated from college and have already joined the work.

At first they didn't cause me too much attention until I was upset by their voices. At that time, the girl sat on the boy's lap, licking to eat ice cream, to buy water, and then two people went to buy a bottle of mineral water.

I thought they would stop there, but they didn't expect to play more and more, and their voices were all in the waiting room.

It doesn’t really mean that you study well.

The next story is told by a friend at the university. The people in her dormitory are very frugal. From the beginning of school, they have developed a habit of picking up the drinking bottles and unused paper boxes, and finally selling them to the people who collect the waste. The money sold is used as a fee. .

When they were nearing the summer vacation, their dormitory had already taken a waste of the balcony and contacted the person who collected the waste. She and the two roommates put together the waste and carried it for sale. The person who collects the waste is a grandmother, with white hair, simple clothes, and bowed back. When I see it, I know that life is very difficult.

The grandmother told them about the price, but her two roommates were not tempted to make the grandmother raise the price.

It was noon at the time, when the sun was the most poisonous, the grandmother had already sweated a lot on her forehead. Afterwards, she told me that her two roommates had a very bad attitude toward the grandmother, but for a few cents, it was a bit too much.

There is also an English teacher in the second year of high school, a five-and-three-thick man. Once he lectured, talked about excitement, and suddenly asked a girl G who was not very good, who is your best friend in the class. She said it was Z. The English teacher actually said that Z is so good, how can she treat you as a good friend?

At that time, the whole class was silent. Z happened to be my same table. I clearly heard Z say, Teacher, you are wrong. Afterwards, G and Z still had a good time every day, but G never called him a teacher again.

Parents educate us and be polite to others, but just being polite does not mean good education. Treating a courteous office worker to a colleague may scream at the waiter in the dining hall; teachers who educate the students, loyalty, and filial piety may also punch and scream at the students in the classroom.

Sometimes, we have never been aware of the words and deeds that we have already exposed, and we have already exposed our education to the fullest.

Some people say that if you want to improve your education, you should read more. However, must education be related to reading? Those who read a thousand novels may not say "thank you" to the waiters who serve in the restaurant; from the time of Shang Guoxiao, we may not have to recite the "Three Character Classics". Raising a high person.

A foreign friend once said to me: You have read a lot of books and experienced all kinds of life in the book, but which one is your own life? I think that education is also the same thing.

We saw in the book how the ancients performed their decent manners and talked about civilization. We may not go to learn the ancients. But if we go to the street to send a leaflet in person, the next time we meet someone else to give us a flyer, we will not be as rude as we used to.

There is a question on the Internet: What do strangers make you feel deeply? Someone replied: Once, in the MRT, the milk was overturned and spilled on others, and it was not. But the man next to me took out a paper towel and wiped the milk off my body. I smiled and said that I didn't mind, I didn't have a reprimand, and I quickly got off. I suddenly want to understand that a person can only be treated softly if he is treated gently.

People always reflect on one experience and then mature step by step. If you have tasted the taste of being stolen, you choose not to steal other people's things. If you have tasted the bad words of your friends, you will never choose to swear by bad words. If you find that swearing is very low, you should choose to use civilized language when you communicate with others. When the company's newcomers are bullied by the company's old people, they choose not to bully the newcomers when they become the company's old people. If they have been treated with tenderness, they will choose to be gentle and treat others later...

Your experience gives you reflection, after reflection, your choice determines who you become, and what kind of person decides what kind of education you have. Simple reading does not necessarily bring you high education, because the theory is ultimately linked to the actual, which is why some people still read a lot of books and still swearing.

Reading a million books is good, but it must be taken into account. Diverse experiences can make you understand different life, and your heart becomes compassionate. You don't need to deliberately express your own behavior. Your usual words and deeds are the business cards that reflect your education.

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