Thinking is not a bad thing unless it hinders action

I have witnessed a friend who bought a book on Dangdang online, bought 5 books or bought 6 books for a long time and could not make up his mind. Her head analyzes the pros and cons of each book in a detailed way, refining to "If I bought this book, what are the benefits, what is the regret", and when I have finished speaking, I will spread my hand and ask me: "I bought it." Don't buy it?"

Sometimes I appreciate people who do things a little. It’s enough to think about 50% of the time every day, and the rest is left for action. Such people will not lose a lot because of their intelligence.

In fact, as far as my observations are concerned, there are very few people who don’t go to the top of the brain, but instead they roll around in their minds for a hundred times. They analyze all kinds of pros and cons, and can’t wait to tangled until one second before leaving. I am looking forward to a god who can say "just do it, I will give you life to ensure that there is no problem", and then people who are willing to start, abound.

However, after living for so many years, I have not found that "there is no guarantee in life"?

"Thinking before you go", how long do you have to think?

To be frank, we are taught to be a planner and to take a step-by-step three-step thinking mode. It is really a double-edged sword. The indoctrinated "everything must be thought twice and then proceed" "speak carefully," and the "degree" is actually difficult to grasp.

Therefore, in the process of growing up, everyone encountered this period of "growth and painful period". It is difficult for us to grasp the sense of proportion in the creed of learning. Therefore, the intense collision between the school and the reality has brought pain in all aspects. When the confused state of affairs hits an ambitious desire, the pain is naturally more unbearable.

We are helpless to find that when you take the exam, you can remember the formula and solve the problem. You can take a similar score. As long as you work hard, you can get a good university and have a good future.

However, when we really entered the society, all the brainwashers in front of us, as well as guarantors, were all gone. Even the always harsh parents are soft. Without the life goals of the college entrance examination, we seem to be good as long as we have a job and can survive.

At this time, people who are dissatisfied with the status quo and willing to love and fight in the character will inevitably start chaos. Where is my next goal? Will I have results when I work hard? I want to try a few seemingly similar roads, but I can only go one. Who can guarantee that I will not regret it?

Then there is an endless analysis of the pros and cons of racking your brains and scratching your scalp. Over time, I suspect that people's mindset and behavioral memory will control you. Before doing big things, you must experience the muddy struggle of "before thinking" and Self-torture.

In the past, most of my discomfort and fear came from the worry about the unknown ending after the choice. I will always be like a spring hand who regrets "chess" and is hated on the mahjong table. I can't wait to repent and repent. I always hope that I can make the most correct choices. There must be no mistakes. This is far beyond the scope of perfectionism.

This not only puts pressure on the people around me, but also tortures myself more. It is a pity that many years later, I found that if there is a right or wrong theory, I should choose the wrong place or choose the wrong one. The regrettable place can also be filled with a piece of paper. I did not achieve it because of my cautious and nervous nature. Everything is perfect and happy.

On the contrary, many seeds that might not be able to emit buds were abandoned after I thought about it. Due to uncertainty, there was no sowing.

When I stayed at home for ten days and couldn't think clearly, I should go to any company to internship and try. When I was fascinated, I wanted to jump off the building. But when I finally chose one, and ran to the third day of work, I happened to meet a knowledgeable colleague. He talked to me after noon, and denied my other choices - more than me. The results of the day are much easier.

Sometimes, you don't know which one you have accumulated, and at which opportunity you will fight for the advantage of bearing fate; you don't even know which kind of fish you will fish when you spread the net. Maybe when you really came to the beach, you saw a group of people fishing for fish, and suddenly suddenly realized that you didn't want to fish.

Moreover, in order to really solve the problem, you have to let the problem be exposed first, rather than staying in the idea forever.

Yes, there are some things that need to be shot first and then aim.