What can we do in our twenties?

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One morning, I went home from the 24-hour gym and saw a guy in a suit holding a pile of files sitting on the side of the road and burst into tears. It looks very handsome, but it is the age of two or three years of graduation. You can see from his eyes the unique eyes that are broken for the future. I don't know what happened to him, just silently handed him a paper towel and then went on the road.

I just remembered my former self. One person took two big boxes that were sinking more than me. I took the last penny on the bus. There is no electricity in the phone, there is no money in the card, and there are still seven kilometers from the residence. Walking along the box, the wheels went halfway, I could only stop and drag. While singing "He said that this pain in the storm", I gave myself blood and looked at the long road.

Sometimes I feel that Beijing is so big, but I still can't tolerate the dreams of many people. Why are we drifting? Probably just to be able to return home, probably just to prove himself, prove that he can take root in another city, and no longer drift.

Recently, I have seen too many people for the project. There is a buddy in eighty years, drifting north. Floating in the beginning of my life, drinking a sudden burst of my head, yelled: I have already 36.

I asked him, do you like Beijing? He shook his head and said that he couldn't talk about it. He just got used to it. He just relied on it and relied on the so-called free air. You can see countless people, they have their own faces, you don't know what stories they have, but you won't criticize anything. We don't have to be forced to kiss each other, we can still recite the so-called dreams.

Sometimes I wonder, why do we choose a big city?

Finally, one day I understand, admit it, this is for your own ambition, you want to live a different life, you just want to be fierce, you just want to toss, you just want to tell yourself that young is nothing. So you fall, so you are frustrated, so your values ​​are in conflict, and the rest is supporting you: still young, not reconciled.

In our twenties, our young age is probably our only capital.

2

Can efforts really achieve everything?

I really want to tell you, yes.

But sometimes the facts are so cruel, you just can't do it.

There are pyramids in this world, and at the top of every industry, almost everyone who stands in nature is suitable for people in this industry. In the words of our line, this is called God to reward you for eating.

So you are unfair, and sometimes you comfort yourself. The world may still be fair. When you grow up, you finally admit that the world is unfair. Someone can pay 80 points to get 150 points; and you have to pay 200 points to get 150 points. Just like you do a geometric problem in your student days, someone can solve the answer at a glance, and you have circled a big circle, only to find that you just did not expect to draw a median line on the map.

You are finally suddenly open, others have already gone ahead.

The same effort, others are happy people, and you only have yourself. So many people ask me, why should we work hard?

Why work hard? The wonderful thing is that most people who ask this question have not really tried to get it. I have seen many people who say that they want to write a book, but they can't even sit in front of the computer for three hours. I have heard many people to do projects, but they don't want to do some in-depth understanding beforehand; I have met many people. I have to give a speech in two days, but I have not even done a good job with PPT. Then they complained, and then they complained that in the end they were complaining about what they didn't even know.

The wonderful thing is that after exhausting all efforts, people can always reach a certain position in a field. It is only this position that is satisfactory to the parties, only they know it. Efforts can't achieve everything, it can only tell you where you can go as far as possible.

But life is not the same thing? There is always a life node, and after you have spent it, you will find that life has suddenly improved. Maybe this is your time to run, but more is that you finally opened the door to yourself.

Many people didn't even come to the door, and you came. You can finally say to yourself, yes, I can live in a city, and I am sure that I will not starve to death no matter where I go.

This is the meaning of the effort, the rest, handed over to time.

3

My good friend is called a talented person. A girl gets up early every day and gets rid of it every day. She still wears herself to look good and does not let anyone see her exhaustion. Yesterday her acute gastroenteritis, a person bite his teeth and went to the hospital, did not let anyone know. It just happened that I went to her house and saw the medicine she was eating.

I said that, so smart, I have had this problem. Cai Ya smiled at me and said, Hello patient, long live the patient.

Walking in the world, everyone with a wound, like a fighter, smashing the thorns, and then giving his heart a armor, from then on, until the real encounter that person completely surrender.

In fact, while you envy others, you may wish to look at yourself. Is there someone else who always says that your life is so good? See your photos are very moist. However, no one knows that you are busy until three o'clock in the middle of the night to sleep, and that you have to get up early the next morning. Someone saw that your puffy eyes were asking you what happened. You thought that you had found a savior and wanted to talk about it. After a few words, you became speechless.

But at least, you are not alone in the cable. One day, we will always meet each other, smile and encourage each other, and then go on their own.

You are not the only weird person in this city. Because I am too.

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I have met some people who are also going to work nine to five, sometimes working overtime, but they can make life very interesting. They have their own hobbies and are not afraid of being alone; they have their own life circles and often meet; they have their own insistence, even if no one cares. I admire everyone who can have fun in a calm life. There is no life without doing anything, and some are life attitudes with nothing to do. If you are poor in your heart, you will have the same life in 10,000 places.

In my twenties, we can't talk about how much material we can have. We don't even have so many friends. Not many people are willing to accompany you to drink and cry, then listen to you. It’s good to be good, even if there are not many friends, they are all true friends.

When you are in your early twenties, please put yourself in your early twenties. You have no reason or ability to have the experience and wealth that a forty-year-old person has. You have nothing but the youth at hand, but you have a handful of things on hand and can decide who you are. Decide if you are a person who can have fun in a dull life, decide whether you are a friend and really treat someone, and decide if you are a person who can feel peace of mind for someone you love.

As time goes by, we will eventually become rich or pale because of our efforts or degeneration. Don't wait until you finally meet someone you like, only to find yourself so pale.

In your twenties, you have nothing, but you still have a future.

In our twenties, we are all anxious, we are all running, we are afraid of going the wrong way.

This is our 20s, bitter, struggling, but also lucky; simple, idealized, but also understand some truth; stumble, sly, sometimes nose and face, but still not intend to give up.