Insights on life

In fact, the sky simply cannot fall down.


When I was 10 years old, I played with my partner. He climbed onto the wall and I took a mirror and looked at him below. His eyes were stabbed by glare and suddenly fell off the wall. His leg was broken and he entered the hospital. I was terrified, thinking that he would become disabled in his life. The first time I was so embarrassed, I even thought, is the police going to take me away and go to jail.

In the evening, I was still at the edge of the village and didn't dare to go home. I am afraid that when I get home, my mother will beat me, and what will happen tomorrow, I don’t know. At that time, I thought that the sky was going to collapse, the partner became a disability, and I was guilty for the rest of my life. When Yunyun flies, tired birds return home, there is a huge fear in my heart, as if the whole person is going to be swallowed up by something. I bite my teeth and go home. The mother beat me a few times with the soles, then brought snacks, fruit, and took me to the partner's house to pay for the crime. Soon after, the partner was completely fine, and the legs were not affected at all, and they jumped back and forth. The sky did not fall, and my days returned to calm.

When I was 20 years old, I was still re-reading for one year. I feel that I am the biggest loser in the world. My life is over, and I can't see any light anymore. When no one was at home, I spread all the books to the ground, sitting in the middle of the book, facing the books I had read in the window of ten years, and burst into tears. I thought that the sky is going to collapse, and people like me are still talking about the future? For a few days, I didn't say a word like a puppet. One morning, my father said to me: "The sun is coming out again, the sky can't fall down! Go read another year!" Later, I went to college as I wished, and I feel that life is beginning to dawn.

At the age of 30, my husband’s personality was in the running-in phase, and quarreling became a routine. That time we had a big quarrel, he yelled at me: "It’s a big deal!" I looked at him with amazement and said, "But? You mean divorce! OK! Just leave!" He is not to be outdone: "Do you think I am afraid of divorce!?" I was angry and left home. Walking quietly on the street, although people around are talking and laughing, but in my eyes everything is empty. My sky seems to have collapsed, and the days will not be able to pass. The painful taste in my heart fell into the sea, and the tears rushed down. I thought that my marriage went to the end. Later, the husband found me and took the initiative to admit the mistake. We no longer mentioned the word "divorce". We are as good as ever and life is back to normal.

I have experienced countless similar things for decades. At that time, I thought that the sky would fall, and life could not continue. But there is no flame mountain that can't go through, everything will be a thing of the past. Those who were frustrated at the time, like the Hongbo giants, were about to engulf people. In the past years, the prosperous and prosperous, the deep pain will be indifferent. After reading these experiences for many years, I put the big things that once collapsed into the long river of life and found that it was just a few small waves.

Perhaps, at this moment, you are experiencing the great event of "the sky is falling down", thinking that it is a time of life and death. However, the sky will not fall down, life will continue, everything will become a thing of the past, and your forward steps will be flattered and re-entered.

In fact, the sky simply cannot collapse.

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