Learn to change yourself and embrace a better life

Doing things can't just rely on one's own feelings, and doing things can't just rely on one's own feelings. Sometimes my perception is wrong, things are not as simple as imagining, and appearance is always easy to confuse people. Rational doing things will not be repeated, and rational things will not cause big mistakes, and rational work will not make you regret it. Remember: Everything can't be too impulsive! You can't just follow the feelings, think more without regret.

1. The mediocrity is defeated, and the person can be defeated.

The two kinds of people in the world must be fiasco, one is a lazy person, and the other is a proud person. The former wants to do anything else in "Tomorrow", and the result is always nothing; the latter can't look down on everyone in the world, think that they are the smartest, often attract the dissatisfaction and resentment of others, so they are often smashed, cursed, and finally malicious. It is swallowed up.

2, do not have to please others

It is impossible and unnecessary to please everyone. To please everyone, is to offend everyone. Deliberately pleasing others will only make others disgusted. Being close to others is natural, and the "speculative" mentality needs to change. If you have time to please, it is better to do things in a down-to-earth manner. It is always unreliable to please others.

3, good mood is created by yourself

We are often unable to change the opinions of others. It is only ourselves that can change. Bad life does not lie in the sins of others, but in our moods. The golden key to making life better is not in the hands of others, giving up our resentment and sigh, and a good life is at your fingertips. We want to live a good life subjectively, but we do not have a good life objectively. The reason is that we always want to wait for others to improve our lives. Don't expect to change others and be the masters of life.

4, do what you should do with your heart

Life is so short, how can you waste it? The wise philosopher once said: "Someone on the street is jealous of me. I don't even come back. I don't want to know this boring person!" We don't want to hurt people, nor be criticized by others, or follow My own wishes, first learn the skills and then speak. Especially when you are a teenager, you should go all out to learn the skills, don't be distracted.

5. Don't always go with yourself.

Learning to appreciate yourself is equal to having the golden key to happiness. Appreciating yourself is not a self-respect, admiring yourself is not my own, admiring that I am not self-indulgent, admiring myself is not a self-sufficiency - I give myself some self-confidence, I give myself a little pleasure, I give myself a smile, why no life Happy? ! Always have to give yourself a holiday and learn to look for a happy mood.

6, do not chase the worldly honor

Looking for something that is recognized by others for the rest of your life will always lose your happiness and happiness. Vulgar comments will annihilate one's personality, and worldly guidance will make you feel overwhelmed. For the money, the money will make the six parents unrecognized, and the right to power will make them daring, and the name will make them take advantage of it. In the real chase, I will become a piece of debris flying in the wind, and the secular I have become unrecognizable.

7, extremely undesirable

Some people often lead to mental disorders because of excessive anxiety; some people are indifferent to everything because they are insensitive. The former is often looking for reason and suffering, and is dying because of cleverness. The root of stupidity lies in repentance. The latter does not know what remorse is, and lives all day long. There is no difference between living and dying.

8, everyone has their own way of living

My own pain is clear, my own grievances are clear, and I feel happy about myself. Perhaps the hell in your own eyes is the paradise in the eyes of others; perhaps the paradise in your own eyes is the hell in the eyes of others. Life is such a comic. Don't always suspect that the spring is in others, the key is to adjust your mentality.

9, like yourself to embrace life

Blind arrogance and self-respect is a life of pride and ignorance. It is a life of negative pessimism. Knowing yourself is more difficult than knowing others, and it is not easy to like yourself than to like others. Have a healthy and appropriate self-esteem, and be particularly strong in the face of setbacks. Don't lose yourself for the temptation of the outside world, and don't deny yourself for a momentary setback. Always evaluate yourself objectively and calmly, and always appreciate yourself with optimism and pertinence. If you don’t even love yourself, can you still love others? Like yourself!

10, there is a curse in the blessing, a blessing in the blessing

Mo was stunned by the gains and losses of the moment, and was fascinated by the temporary victory. You must be prepared for danger in times of peace, and you should not be proud of yourself. Intoxicating victory means stopping for a pause and enchanting victory means losing vigilance. The road to life will never be relaxed, and victory is only a small road sign. To achieve the final victory, just work hard, work hard, and work harder. I am confused by the moment, who laughs the latest, who laughs happiest.

11, the important thing is to live a full life

To be good every day is the greatest happiness. Happiness comes from feeling good every day. I am always worried about the risks of tomorrow. I can’t erase the shadow of yesterday. How can life be like today? The total comparison is more than those that are incomparable. If you can’t realize what you can’t achieve, how can today’s soul be quiet? Anything that is unrealistic is the source of pain. The biggest killer of life is sorrow and anxiety. The pain stems from not being full, and life will not be cranky.

12, the foundation of pleasure is on oneself

The average person always pinpoints the joy of life on the outside world and attaches to the secular identity. Everything that values ​​status, property, and treatment, reputation, etc., if you lose these, it is a heavy blow, often you will not want to live, and the foundation of happiness and happiness will also be destroyed. If you live like this, happiness is quite far away from us. Why let others evaluate their happiness and grasp yourself.

13, feeling happiness is happiness

Many people are deliberately pursuing so-called happiness; although some have been obtained, the cost is enormous. Many philosophers say that happiness is a feeling, just like "Buddha" is in your heart. The feeling of happiness decreases with satisfaction, and is closely related to people's state of mind and mentality. The philosophers said: The harder it gets, the deeper it is, the happiness, and the hardships. A person always feels happiness and is his greatest sorrow. Happiness is a feeling, not contented, never happy, contented people are always happy!

14, others' enzance should be kept in mind

People with short-sighted eyes are always "forgive and guilty". When they are in crisis, they ask for help, and they don't show up after the event. When you ask for help, you will be swearing. This kind of person is the most despised. "Forgiveness and ignorance" makes friends sad, "forgiveness and humility" is the performance of quick success. "Forgiveness and ignorance" only benefits from a moment, but will never lose faith in people. Never cross the river to dismantle the bridge. Crossing the river and breaking the bridge will break your own back road.

15. There is room for everything.

Everyone will encounter a completely different "three kinds of people" in their life journey. The first is a person who can understand, appreciate, and value himself; the second is a person who misinterprets, slanders, or even rejects himself; the third person is a person who has nothing to do with himself and has nothing to do with it. The first kind of person has the grace of knowing himself, and he should be honored as a teacher and a friend. The second person causes deep harm to himself and needs to be moved away from wisdom, not troubles and care. For the third person, treat each other with courtesy and peaceful coexistence. Understand different people, treat them differently, gather things together, and divide people into groups.

16. Don’t do it to others

It is a painful thing to impose your own subjective will on others. To impose their own will with their own majesty, others are only oral and dissatisfied, and they will revolt in the long run. To impose their own will with their own stubbornness, others are only silent or anger, but they may turn against each other for a long time. To review whether your words and deeds are in harmony with the society can you really get the approval of others. People cannot be consistent, don't take me as the center.

17, smug, not frustrated, frustrated

Be very cautious when you are in good times, otherwise you will be very happy. When life is proud, it is easy to forget the shape. If you forget the shape, you don't know what your surname is, so evil thoughts and bad deeds will break into the gap. In the face of adversity, you must be patient, otherwise it will be easy to die early. When life is frustrated, it is easy to lose its state. If you are out of disappointment, you don't know your future, so negative and desperate will break into the gap. Laugh at the tide of life and keep your heart.

18, life should be happy

Appropriate entertainment can regulate emotions, and endless joy can be easily transferred. The object is reversed, and the number is poor. "Where the most happy, it is a sick place." "Chess can be free, easy to anger -" blindly carnival is a superficial life, in exchange for painful remorse. It’s the life of Daguan. The joy of life is not limited to entertainment, it involves all aspects of life. Joy and sorrow are associated, and joy will make joy and companion.

19, it is not advisable to endure

Tolerance alone means loss of principle; blindness to tolerance means no personality; blindness to tolerance means weakness and deception; blind tolerance means the danger of stepping forward; simply forbearance means going into a dead end. Sometimes it's better to stand up and fight better. It's a strategy that fools often use. It's time to endure it and encourages its arrogance. When you shoot, you will be shot, and it will be a last resort! It is not a good thing to be a head-on attacker.

20, more rational behavior, less smug

Doing things can't just rely on one's own feelings, and doing things can't just rely on one's own feelings. Sometimes my perception is wrong, things are not as simple as imagining, and appearance is always easy to confuse people. Rational doing things will not be repeated, and rational things will not cause big mistakes, and rational work will not make you regret it. Remember: Everything can't be too impulsive! You can't just follow the feelings, think more without regret.

The two kinds of people in the world must be fiasco, one is a lazy person, and the other is a proud person. The former wants to do anything else in "Tomorrow", and the result is always nothing; the latter can't look down on everyone in the world, think that they are the smartest, often attract the dissatisfaction and resentment of others, so they are often smashed, cursed, and finally malicious. It is swallowed up.