25 kinds of comfort in life: know how to comfort yourself, live a free and easy life

The first comfort: the most important thing is today's heart

Why bother to lose the present mood for painful remorse, why not for the inexplicable worries. The past is gone forever, no matter how regretful it is to no avail. The future is still beyond reach, and then how worried It will be empty and sad. Today, the heart, the present and the present, but it is real, but also feels good. Of course, the past experience should be summarized, the future risks must be prevented, this is wisdom.

Yesterday has passed, and tomorrow has not come, today is true.

The second comfort: my heartache can only be self-healing

Why bother to lose the present mood for painful remorse. Occasionally complaining about venting is also necessary, but endless complaints only add to the troubles, can only show others their incompetence, complaining is a fatal negative attitude, once When your own complaints become bad habits, life will be dark, and not only will you have a good mood, but others will be unlucky.

Complaints are not good, and optimism is the most important thing.

The third comfort: good mood is created by myself

We often can't change the opinions of others. It is only ourselves that can change. The bad life is not the sin of others, but the bad mood of ours. The golden key to make life better is not in the hands of others, give up our Resentment and sigh, a good life is at your fingertips. We want to live a good life subjectively, but we do not have a good life objectively. The reason is that we always want to wait for others to improve our lives.

Don't expect to change others and be the masters of life.

The fourth comfort: doing what you should do with your heart

Life is so short, who is thinking about wasting? A philosopher with wisdom once said: Someone on the street yells at me, I don’t even come back, I don’t want to know this boring person! "We don't want to hurt People, don't be criticized by others, or follow their own wishes, first learn the skills and then talk about it.

Especially when you are a teenager, you should go all out to learn the skills, don't be distracted.

The fifth comfort: don't always go with yourself.

Learning to appreciate yourself is equal to having the golden key to happiness. Appreciating yourself is not a self-respect. Appreciating yourself is not the only one. I appreciate that I am not self-indulgent. I appreciate myself and I am not self-sufficient. I give myself some information and give myself A little happy, I smiled at myself, why is there no happiness in life?

I often have to give myself a holiday and learn to look for a happy mood.

Sixth comfort: don't chase the worldly honor

Looking for things that are recognized by others for the rest of your life, you will always lose your own happy cartoons and happiness. The vulgar comments will burn out your own personality, and the secular guidance will make you feel overwhelmed. For the money, the money will make your six parents unrecognized. The right to power will make you daring, and the name will make you take advantage of it. The real one, in the deliberate pursuit, will become a piece of debris flying in the wind, the secular I have become unrecognizable.

Got a kitsch, lost the truth, to strengthen confidence, to have self.

Seventh comfort: Extremely undesirable

Some people often cause their own mental disorder to be chopsticks because of excessive anxiety. Some people are indifferent to everything because they are insensitive. The former is often looking for reason and suffering, because it is too weak to be overwhelmed. The root of stupidity is that everything regrets. Afterwards, I don’t know what to regret, I lived in the same day, and there is no difference between living and dying.

Going extreme is always a failure, looking for the wisdom of life.

The eighth comfort: don't care too much about other people's evaluations

No one painting is not evaluated by others. No one is not being discussed by others. If you are silent, some people will blame "the city is too deep"; if you are good at talkative, some people will blame it; if you praise others, someone I will blame others for their ulterior motives. If they criticize in good faith, some people will be more thunderous and think that they are nosy.

Looking at other people's faces, I still live, I have self, and I am not afraid of myself.

The ninth comfort: the more evil the evil, the deeper the pain

Why can't you live calmly? The key is not to drive away the demons in the porcelain series in time. Because of the evil thoughts, you will not restrain yourself sensibly, and often will make resentful stupid things. Because the dust of the soul is not cleaned in time, the will The weak will fall into the deep pool from time to time. Because of the fascination, the blindness will blind the eyes, and the wrong way is not known.

If you have evil in your heart, you will feel uneasy and go to evil thoughts.

Tenth comfort: Be careful not to live too tired

Often people sigh, live really tired. Tired, is the pressure of the spirit; tired, is the burden of the heart of the gift information. Tired and not tired is always relative, if you are not tired, you must learn to relax, life You are in the possession of Zhang Youchi. The heart is tired, causing people to stay in a sub-health state for a long time; if you are tired, you will feel unsettled.

Don't be too tired, learn to free yourself.

The eleventh comfort: everyone has their own way of living

My own pain is clear, my own grievances understand, my own happiness, my feelings, perhaps the hell in my eyes, but the paradise in the eyes of others, perhaps the paradise in my eyes, but the hell in the eyes of others, life is like this Funny, don't always suspect that the spring is in others, the key is that the adjustment of your mentality is the most important thing in your life, not to compare.

Twelfth comfort: a slave who does not desire

People always sigh "moths and fires", people always ridicule "fish hooks", people are always American jokes are jokes "self-trapping mud." But if you think about it carefully, around our lives, this desire Is there still a tragedy? The heart is not enough to swallow the elephant. The person who indulges his soul will eventually lose his true freedom! Always be wary of bad desires.

Thirteenth comfort: to live easily and happy

If you don't blindly compare with others, you will be leisurely. If you don't set your life goals too high, you will be happy. If you don't deliberately pursue perfection, you will stay away from pain. If you are alive, you will be relaxed and relaxed.

If you live too tired, you will be miserable and contented!

The fourteenth comfort: I like to embrace life

Blind arrogance and self-respect is a life of pride and ignorance. It is a life of negative pessimism. Knowing yourself is more difficult than knowing others, and it is not easy to like yourself than to like others. Have a healthy and appropriate self-esteem, and be particularly strong in the face of setbacks. Don't lose yourself for the temptation of the outside world, don't deny yourself for a momentary setback, always evaluate yourself objectively and calmly, and always admire yourself with optimism.

The fifteenth comfort: see the world with good eyes

There is no fish in the water, and there is no friend in the people. There is no shortage of CROSS points in others. Then everyone becomes a bad person and can't get along with each other. Seeing the world with evil eyes, the world is nowhere to be broken; Looking at the world with good eyes, the world always has a lovely place. If you look at the strengths of others, you will become more and more lovely.

Sixteenth comfort: don't have to please others

It is impossible and unnecessary to please everyone. To please everyone is to offend everyone. Deliberately to please others will only make others feel disgusted. It is natural to be close to others, the speculative mentality needs to change, and there is time to please. Doing things in a down-to-earth manner, pleading with others is always unreliable, and your own efforts are real.

If you just want to please others, you will lose yourself and it will be important to enrich yourself.

Seventeenth comfort: if the wood has become a boat, it will go with the flow.

Raw rice has already cooked ripe rice, and then regrets the previous behavior. There is no benefit at all. The only sensible way is to properly handle the latter things, don’t make things worse, and the water tin can’t be recovered. The wood that has been carved into a boat cannot be restored to its original state. Knowing these simple principles, it can calmly deal with the remaining problems. There is no benefit to remorse, don't make things worse.

The eighteenth comfort: the material is poor and does not stumble

Material poverty is not terrible, but terrible is psychological poverty. Poverty is often linked to the calendar. People are often poor and short-sighted, mentally poor, rich will become poor, psychologically rich, and poor can be turned into wealthy. Poor material and ignorance will quickly destroy a person's body, self-confidence and self-improvement. Although the material is temporarily poor, good days will come soon.

People are not short-sighted and self-improvement.

The nineteenth comfort: blessings in the blessings

Mo is stunned by the gains and losses of a moment, blindly immersed in the temporary victory, he must be prepared for danger in times of peace, do not arrogance, triumphant, intoxicated victory, means stop to rest, intoxicated victory, means losing vigilance, life will never be jealous Struggle, victory is just a small road sign. To achieve the final victory, only work hard, work hard, and work harder.

I am confused by the moment, who laughs the latest, who laughs happiest.

Twentieth comfort: the important thing is to live a full life

To be good every day is the greatest happiness. Happiness comes from feeling good every day. I always worry about the risk of tomorrow. I can’t erase the shadow of yesterday. How can life be like today? The total comparison is more than those that cannot be compared. Realize, how can today's mood be quiet? Any unrealistic thing is the source of pain. The biggest killer of life is sorrow and anxiety.

The pain stems from not being full, and life will not be cranky.

The twenty-first comfort: life should be happy

Appropriate entertainment can regulate emotions, and endless joy can be easily transferred. The extremes of the object are reversed, and the number is poor. "There is a lot of things in the happy place." "Chess can be freed, and it is easy to move."... A drumy carnival is a superficial life, often in exchange for Painful remorse. Enthusiasticity is the life of Daguan, and the joy of life is not limited to entertainment, it involves all aspects of life.

Joy and sorrow are associated, and joy will be accompanied by joy.

Twenty-second comfort: maybe a happier life

When you are in the middle of work, you feel that it is a wall, is it necessary to change the environment? When you are extremely unhappy in your marriage, you always feel hail, do you have the courage to break through the siege? When you are used to being obedient, Will you stand up and say "no"? People who are confident and self-reliant are good at adjusting their living conditions.

Don't live too much, comfortable is a happy elf.

Twenty-third comfort: may wish to temporarily leave the trouble

Life is too short, why should you always live unhappy? It is normal to have troubles, and it is not normal to have troubles. If you are in a bad mood, you may wish to watch a movie. You may wish to listen to a piece of music. You may wish to sing a song. You may wish to make a call. You may wish to enjoy the sun...

Let the troubles go to hell, first happy.

Twenty-four comforts: the foundation of pleasure is on oneself

The average person always pinpoints the joy of life on the outside affairs, attaches to the secular identity, and attaches importance to status, property, and treatment, reputation, etc. Once he loses these, it is a heavy blow, often it is painful to live. The foundation of happiness and happiness is also destroyed. If you really live like this, then happiness is away from us and we want to be far away. Why should we let others evaluate their happiness and grasp ourselves?

Twenty-fifth comfort: feeling happiness is happiness...

Many are deliberately pursuing so-called happiness; although some have been obtained, the cost is enormous, and many philosophers say that happiness is a feeling. The feeling of happiness decreases with satisfaction, and is closely related to people's state of mind and mentality. The philosophers said: The harder it gets, the deeper it is, the happiness, and the hardships. A person always feels happiness and is his greatest sorrow.

Happiness is a feeling, not content, never happy.