Only the inner sunshine can warm others

Some people are used to showing bad emotions and sadness. The subconscious is to get comfort and sympathy, but in fact most people just take a joke. Only the inner sunshine can warm others, and only you are good enough to get the care of others.

If it is uncomfortable, I won’t say it again.

Everyone will have a bad time. A long time ago, I liked not to talk to anyone, and then I found myself very autistic, plus a little negative; later I will ask some people for comfort, but suddenly found that it seems In that case, if someone else comforts one or two times, it is painful and uncomfortable to digest.

So now, I have opened two Weibo accounts, so when I feel uncomfortable, I don’t want to tell others, I don’t want others to see you jokes, or I am sorry for you, I will update them. When someone needs support, encouragement, and praise, it is released on the so-called large size.

Maybe someone will think that this is very abnormal, or is it necessary?

However, there are always some things that are difficult to tell others. It is difficult for others to understand, even if they are empathy, they can't change the same feelings. I would say:

If I am uncomfortable, I don't want to tell you.

That's because I don't think you can comfort me. Even if I let go of it for a short time, I will still fall into endless entanglement after a while. Not as good as my own momentary epiphany.

Some things, it takes a period of time to settle, and then with the opportunity to coincide with the epiphany, everything will suddenly become clear.

Therefore, I will also say that if you encounter such a thing, if you are uncomfortable, please don't tell me. Because I really don't know how to comfort you.

Of course, we will also have to listen to others with no purpose, or when we have endless spit.

Listening to others has no purpose to say, maybe, you just want to distract your heart, then you can no longer fall into the infinite loop of your own thinking, and then you will hear the rumors of one or two sentences from others' words, and take it as a warning.

And when we only want to say it, we want to vent our indefinitely, our depressed mood, and spit out the sadness that we can throw out, it will be much better.

Now, when you realize that people are independent and no one can always accompany them, tell yourself, then no one will say it. I am gradually stronger, and the adjustment mechanism is getting better and better, so I should be able to support myself.

I am working hard, you can too.