Leave a room for "hope" to turn around

Life is alive, there is more than one road, and there is more than one hope. When we struggle for "hope", we must know how to leave a little space for "hope", leave a room for turning around, and don't put a bet on life or life on a "hope". Otherwise, once hope is shattered, some For those who are too persistent, there is no retreat and they will push their lives to a dead end. We live in the world, every step is to touch the "hope", "hope" is the desire and goal we work for, but it is not necessarily a single adherence and determination.

The world is impermanent, life is impermanent, no one thing will always belong to us, and no "hope" can predict in advance whether it will be completed. Running on the road of red dust, not to wait for the pie to fall in the sky, the real taste of life and taste, can be described as a true life. A "hope" is shattered, and it does not mean that life is shattered; a "hope" is shattered, and it does not mean that life is really nowhere to go.

I have seen such a story in the book: a man named Arthur, engaged in real estate development, has a happy family, has a car with a lovely child, and a gentle and beautiful wife, this life makes many people envious . But I don't know from that day, Arthur fell in love with the stock and became obsessed with it. His friends and wife said that the stock risk is too big to be too invested. He stubbornly said: I have made a lot of money, and I have no risk in measuring. After a while, the stock has been falling. He not only lost the money he earned, but also took hundreds of thousands of deposits. The wife thought that he could regain his life in a down-to-earth manner, but Arthur was still thinking about putting back the lost money. Finally, he sold the car and the house and owed more than one million foreign debts. He couldn't face the wife and children and the people who went to the door to collect debts. In repentance and despair, he left a suicide note to his wife and disappeared from the world. .

In reality, in order to make yourself more lively, people are full of enthusiasm for all kinds of desires, and they are tossing over the earth. Some people even don't hesitate to go all out, overdraw their energy and life, stubbornly go all the way to black, but forget to stop and see if the "hope" of the rush is suitable for themselves? Is it a feasible way? On the road of life, regardless of career or life, schooling, etc., sometimes it is necessary to persist and persist, but persistence and persistence are not the same as stubbornness. When "hope" is already a dead end, it is stubborn. Dagu Zhishui was not able to enter the house and rescued Limin in the midst of deep water. His persistence was perseverance. Some students put their future on the college entrance examination. Once the college entrance examination falls, it will make life go to extremes. This is not persistence but stubbornness. Isn't the "hope" of life only the road to college entrance examination? Why not leave a little space for "hope" and let yourself have a room to turn around and see the future that leads to flowers, and there are still many roads and hopes? Dante said: "Go your own way, let people talk about it"; it is to let you go the way that suits you, instead of hitting the south wall and not looking back.

The road of life is full of hardships and bumps. It allows us to face and finish with strength. It is because we have countless beautiful "hopes" in our hearts. No matter which "hope" on the road, you must be prepared to withstand disappointment and failure, and accept all kinds of gifts given to life by God. If you succeed, you will not be proud. If you fail, you will not be discouraged and will continue to move forward. The wise man chooses good deeds and knows how to give up properly. In fact, everyone wants to live a happy life and think about the days when they are full of food and clothing. This is normal. However, if a stubborn one ran to the end, he would lose sight of it.

There are always too many unsatisfactory things in life. Not every "hope" can be realized as desired. Not every "hope" is suitable for you. Therefore, when "hope" is dying, you should face it with a calm and calm attitude, and look at the gains and losses in life in a light way; behind the sorrow and despair is not the collapse of the sky, but a renewed force, the road of life. The pits are the temper and test of our will. Please remember the words people often say: "Don't be afraid of death, still afraid of being alive!" If there is no twists and turns in life, how can you prove that you are a tough and unyielding person! I remember in my text: The strong man of life is not standing in the shining light, but the person who keeps moving forward with tears on sorrow and suffering.

In this world of prosperous and full of desires, stop properly and give the mind a chance to breathe. See if the "hope" that you are chasing is suitable for you? Does it work? Happiness and happiness are not on the way to chase all kinds of desires, but in your own heart. Maintain a kind of indifferent, open-minded and optimistic attitude towards life, and calmly and calmly accept the rise and fall of life, in order to have a poetic life. Confucius’s apprentice Yan Hui said: “If you eat, drink, and not change your music”, you can live your own happiness and affection in a simple and simple life. This is a rare realm of life.

Life is alive, life is short, on the road of pursuing "hope", you must keep a clear head in the unpredictable desires, no matter what choices you make, don't turn your attachment into stubbornness, and properly turn a "turn" into a wish. There is room for yourself to have more room for buffering to meet more hopes; this is a realm of treating yourself and cherishing life and life. It is also a kind of wisdom that can face the hardships of destiny.