For the people to live, there is no way to grasp the scale and stick to the bottom line.

People eat food for the day, the Chinese have a history of cooking food for thousands of years, and there is a lot of attention to the control of the cooking time, the amount of time and the amount of ingredients. The fire is hot, the fire is small, the salt is heavy, the taste is less, and so on. The cooking food is just a good thing. It not only tastes the taste of various ingredients, but also seeks a taste in various ingredients. The balance point, which in turn forms a unique taste. It is also true for people to do things. It is just right to get the best balance between various factors, and then maximize the benefits.

For example, Laozi’s “Tao Jing” is a cloud, “If you cure a big country, you can cook it.” It is said that in the Xia and Shang dynasties, a man named Yi Yin saw that Tang was a virtue of the monarch, and he proposed his own idea of ​​governing the country. Once, Yi Yin saw the soup asking about the food and said: "It is not too salty or too light to cook. It is necessary to adjust the ingredients. The rule of the country is like cooking. It can neither be too hasty nor slack, only just right. In order to get things done." Shang Tang listened, very inspired, and immediately I Yin was "A Heng". Under the management of Shang Tang and Yi Yin, the power of Shang Tang began to grow and eventually replaced the Xia Dynasty. As everyone knows, the principle of governing the country and living in the world is often the same. Although the truth of governing the country is grand and complex, it can also be applied to the specific behavior of our people. We can find a cure for us. ".

We all know that life is an embarrassing process, always looking for a "just right" balance between various factors. If the person is too mature, the heart will be too heavy, the city is too deep, old-fashioned, sophisticated, conscientious and introverted, hidden, unpredictable, difficult to get along with. If the person is too simple and simple, it will be like a clear spring, pure and so that people can see the bottom at a glance, it is also difficult to become a big device. So in the miles of life, people continue to pursue the balance of those "just right". If some people are not too old, they learn to be so smooth and sleek, and they are old-fashioned; some people still look young and full of childishness even if they live to 78 or 10; some people are not too deep, but they have practiced. "Mature", like a "river of the rivers and lakes"; some people have weathered the wind and frost, experienced rough, and will not become more flamboyant, bowed down, still heads high, and spirited!

From this we can see that for everyone, how to do "just right" in words and deeds, this is a compulsory course of life! Whoever ignores it will fail, and vice versa will be able to cast a successful life. On the road of our growth or at any moment in our lives, we need to constantly correct our words and deeds and thoughts so that they can perform properly on different occasions, different backgrounds and different ages. Only in this way can we obtain other social The recognition of the members, and then accumulate more social resources for their own growth and progress, and finally lay a solid foundation for their own success, cooking a delicious "small fresh" in life.

In the process of cooking fresh, different chefs may choose different ingredients and different cooking methods depending on the experience of the fire. The same dish can present a variety of flavors. If you have to choose the most delicious from the many "small fresh", then it is often "just right" for all cooking techniques, ingredients and programs. In the same way, in the face of human beings, in the face of many factors such as money, fame and fortune, and social interpersonal relationships, how to find the equilibrium point between them, just right? Then we need each of us to firmly adhere to the moral laws of our hearts, to constrain our words and deeds with social rules, and to coordinate the relationship between each other under the guidance of the universal values ​​of society, so that we can justify our own conscience and society. Others are just right, they are just right for their own life, and then they cook the "small fresh" for themselves, just right to grasp the "fire" and "prescription" of life.

There is no unchanging method of communication in the world, but there is a bottom line of life that persists. "Exactly good" is not an unscrupulous means, the interests of chasing names and profits are all, but the guardian of down-to-earth and quiet work. From here, “cooking small fresh” is not only a form of communication, but also a life-long, and it will be a delicious dish of life.