More inspirational than counterattacking life, it is frustrated and not deformed.

I believe that most people, like me, have read a lot of inspirational words about the Jedi counterattack and the difficult situation in the book or in the circle of friends.

For example, the middle-aged woman suffered a derailment from her husband, so she planned a self-growth life drama with humiliation and burden, only to take off the apron and appear to be stunning, and then smiled and took a divorce agreement.

For example, the office Xiaobai was repeatedly isolated and led by colleagues, so the electric shock generally awakened all the struggle cells in the body to learn to recharge the hard work, and finally successfully attacked one day, becoming the perfect benchmark for a new generation of youth.

For example, the fat girl of 180 pounds has been watched by the male god for a while after she has been preparing for the tire for many years, but she still can’t help but the goddess inadvertently smiles back, so she decides to die and then live, finally at a certain One day, I twisted my little waist and returned. In the expression of the male god’s horror, I whispered my lips and lost a sentence. "Sorry, I no longer love you."

These stories sound inspiring and intense, and the frustrated person can automatically complete the role substitution in an instant, as if they have grown up with a protagonist's aura. With the coming of tomorrow, there is a rush of passion and a thriving hope.

But the next day, when you open your eyes, you will find that life is still the same, the number of bank cards has not increased, the atmosphere of the office is still so strange, the person you love, in any case, does not love you. .

No matter how passionate and passionate you were the night before, when the sun rises again and everything is restored, you still can't become the radiant Superman.

There is a law in the world called Pareto's Law, commonly known as the 28th Law. This law has been widely used in various fields such as the workplace and successful studies, and I believe that in the avenue of life, the 28th law will always exist. For example, if you read all the stories of the 20% of the warriors who have successfully attacked the world, you still have a 80% chance of living a bad life.

The facts are cruel. Many times we have to admit our ordinary, admit our ordinary, and admit that our life is not good.

The story is always just a story. In our world, only ourselves are the protagonists. Those true and false counter-attack stories can warm your heart for a night, but they can't warm this life.

Therefore, I never believe in counterattacks easily, nor do I think that I really have the kind of earth-shaking ability. When encountering a rough, I believe that the greatest protection I can give myself is to keep myself from deforming.

People say that the greatest virtue of life is nothing but triumph when not forgetting the shape, not deforming when it is frustrated, and the two are the most valuable and rewarding. But I have different opinions. I think that for most people, it is most difficult to be frustrated and not deformed. Because our life has always been full of frustration and frustration, but it has always been less smug.

People's lives are unsatisfactory, and they look around. People around us seem to have difficulties. Some people are riddled with diseases and can't afford to be medically ill. Some people have no family to get rid of. There are few people who have gained a lot of work in the workplace for many years.

But have you carefully observed how everyone is facing life? Are people who are experiencing pains and pains frowning every day? the answer is negative.

You will see that although it is difficult, although hard, most people are facing with a smile. This smile is strong or self-contained. Everyone is trying to do their best. Even if they don't have the power to change their predicament, they are still kind and still willing to be considerate.

For every ordinary person, it is more realistic and more reliable to stay frustrated and not deformed than to counterattack life, and it is closer to human fireworks.

A year ago, there was a classmate who went out of school and went out to work. He managed to save some savings and get a good return. Unexpectedly, only half a month after the wedding, the bride’s portable family finances went shopping in the city and never went back. Even his parents disappeared without a trace. The classmates are honest and honest men. They have been looking for a few months, and they have no results.

You can still live, and you will have to survive. Simple people have their own simple philosophy of life. The students borrowed money to buy a second-hand van, began to rent in the local area, and traveled daily on the dozens of miles of mountain roads, and tried their best to earn money to support the family. When the guests were not long, he drove his parents to the mountains to relax. Although the days were as dull as water, they gradually became laughter.

He is the most ordinary rural guy. His culture is not high enough. When he is suffering, he does not have enough ability to reverse his life. He does not know how to turn beautifully. The best option he can make is to continue to be kind and continue to be filial, and continue to earn money to support his family and continue to live a good life.

Not every frustrated person can suddenly have the power to fight against life in a difficult situation. Such a legend exists only in the movies of the novel. Even if there is a successful example of counterattack, it is only 20% of that life. . For ordinary people, nothing can be more precious than frustration and no deformation.

Don't think that it's easy to keep yourself when you are frustrated. When you encounter a bumpy situation around us, you will be stunned by the cans.

After the classmates encountered the bride who had been deceived, there were similar bridges in the local area, but unfortunately, the same bridge did not have the same ending. The other guy in the story was deceived and made a fortune. Because of the stealing of the cable and imprisonment, the elderly parents outside the high wall have been more bleak for the rest of their lives.

Confucius said in the Analects of Confucius and Constitutional Questions, "Poverty and no grievances, rich and arrogant," and letting go of the perspective of rich and poor, I am willing to extend to be able to stay awake and keep sorrow in the difficult times of life. It's very difficult, but it's easy to be frivolous when it's smooth. After all, when a person's starting point is high and everything goes well, he is more willing to be tolerant and easier to be open-minded.

But if you open your eyes every day, it is a kind of narrow-hearted entanglement, all kinds of hard hatred, but you can also be kind to people, smile and enter into a meal, a meal, a meal, a meal, a simple heart and a strong The realm that restraint can do.

Although we are just ordinary people, we all have uncommon stories. Compared with those who do not know the true and false life and the gorgeous turn, our guards and self-sufficiency are the most extraordinary and most inspirational.

One day, the world will be rewarded for being precious because of our non-deformation. One day, we will be proud to say that although we don’t have much chance to try our best when we are willing to forget, at least, when we are frustrated, we have not changed.

There are so many people in the world who have broken cans, and you and I have not. This is a matter of pride and inspiration.