Happy life, relying on your own heart to operate

In life, there are always people who like to attribute their own misfortunes to the outside world: either blame their fate, complain about their bad luck, and have a long way to go; or complain that life is unfair, they don’t get a good card by nature - no illustrious Family background, no supernormal and intellectual, no beautiful appearance; or sighs and makes people feel uncomfortable, so that they have gone through the rough, and their lives are defeated.

In fact, there is no need for a person to blame others, not to sigh for unfair fate. Even if you get a good card by nature, this does not guarantee that your game will be smoother and smoother; this may not guarantee that you will win in the game of life. A good life game, you must rely on yourself to step by step, and strive to fight for; happy life, but also rely on their own heart to operate.

I have a girlfriend who is small and thin, looks plain, and has a normal family. The education is only a junior college degree, but she has made her life a wonderful place to live and manage her life. Her daughter is filial and optimistic, and her optimism is advancing. Her husband is very good-looking and has a successful career. She is more respectful and affectful to her. A successful man like his husband is working outside, and the beauty around him is like a cloud. It’s not a few people who are eager to show his enthusiasm and enthusiasm. And the successful people around him, some have "small three" and even "small four." More iron brothers advised him to open his mouth, to know how to enjoy life, not to always guard the yellow face of the family. In a complex environment, facing the temptation of all kinds of temptations, he always adheres to his own principles. Over the years, he has never been a step in the thunder, always treating her as a treasure in his hand.

We once joked my girlfriend and said, "Your husband is so good, be careful that the outside fox seduce your husband away." The girlfriend said confidently: "I am not very good, but I am also good at the kitchen, and the hall; Get the book incense, write an article; Shang Xiaojing Gaotang, can teach good children; how can he still?".

Indeed, as the girlfriend said, she is both a good wife and a good mother, and a person who is kind, hardworking, and optimistic and understands the business life. On weekdays, she is running a small family, working hard on the husband and wife, and paying more attention to building her own self-improvement. After the reorganization of the unit, she can live a leisurely and wide-minded wife, but she still manages a clothing store with her own strength, and her business is booming. Many people don't explain, "Your husband is so capable, your family is so good, why are you so hard?" But she said, "Being a woman must have her own goals and pursuits, and must not be in a superior environment. Lose yourself and forget to discover your value."

While pursuing the independence of the economy and personality, she pays more attention to both internal and external training. In addition to reading a book, it is a writing, and occasionally a small article is published in newspapers and magazines. Don't forget to absorb the nutrition of knowledge, and never forget to improve your inner quality. In such an impetuous era, many people indulge in eating, drinking, and enjoying, and are keen to chase the glitz of the world. How many people can sink to the heart and study hard, and think calmly? And she completely ignores the turmoil of the world, and is immersed in knowledge. ocean. Of course, while paying attention to self-cultivation, she also pays great attention to the external image, fashionable and decent dress, elegant manners, and courteous treatment of people, which enhances her personal image.

While she manages her own small family and manages herself, she does not forget to manage everyone. She has nothing to say about her parents and elders, and she is impeccable to her husband's family. The husband's family is in the countryside. It is not necessary to say that the elderly are visiting the holidays. On weekdays, they always take time to ask for help from the elderly. The elderly are ill-fated and take care of them. Her husband’s brothers and sisters have difficulties, and she is always duty-bound to help. Her relatives and friends made a lot of praise for her, and the neighbors were even more impressed with her.

She is passionate, her knowledge is good, her tolerance is open-minded, her gentle and wise, how can she not let her husband feel in her heart? Even if the woman outside is beautiful, the tenderness is like water, but in his eyes, it is nothing more than that. His wife's cold and warmth, intimately attached to the lungs? There is no worries in the family, he is able to work hard outside, so that his career is more prosperous; the family has a good help, which makes his career development even more powerful. Naturally, the happy life of their small family is that sesame blossoms are high.

In fact, from a secular point of view, my girlfriend has no inherent advantage, plain appearance, ordinary family, ordinary intelligence, but she relies on hardworking hands, wisdom and sensitive mind to manage her happy life.

In fact, no matter what the real life is, each of us should not blame everyone, don't always feel that the world owes it to you, don't always feel that others have lost you. Life is fair to everyone, good and bad, success and failure. Even if a very small number of people are fortunate enough to be lucky enough to get a good card, but if he is not good at business, the only thing he will face in the end will be the endgame of life; even if you are not lucky, you will get a bad card, but your life. The hand may not lose, as long as you try your best to adjust the situation and let it develop in a favorable direction, you can naturally win.

The poet Homer is a blind man. Helen is a trinity, dumb and awkward. It is worse than any of his cards, but they have not lost. As an ordinary person, you should not complain about unfair life, as long as you have enough patience, perseverance and perseverance to make progress together with the environment; as long as you give yourself enough room to grow and make yourself good enough, life will naturally You smile like a flower. In short, everyone in life should cultivate and improve themselves so that they have the ability to be happy. After all, a good life game, you must rely on yourself to step by step, and strive to fight for; happy life, rely on their own heart to operate.