Failure will certainly yield something, success is to constantly surpass yourself

Failure will certainly yield something, success is to constantly surpass yourself

"You must be better than you think, but many people don't think so." Many outstanding people have great ambitions at a young age, and they want to be different. They still believe that they are the best, regardless of any hardships. of. Do you have such a belief that there is self-confidence that others can't beat? How strong is your persistence, how strong your confidence is, how long your path will be.

I have read such a story in a book by Freud:

John and Tom are the children of the two neighbors. They have been playing together since childhood. John is a smart child. He learns everything at a glance. He knows his strengths. Nature is also very proud. Tom's brain does not have John Lingguang, although he is very hardworking, but the results are difficult to enter the top ten. Compared with John, he often showed an inferiority in his heart. However, his mother always encouraged him: "If you always measure yourself with the results of others, you will only be a 'chaser' for life. The horse of Bruns is always whistling at the beginning, But the final destination is often a camel with patience and perseverance."

Smart John is a smart person. However, the performance of his life was flat and he did not achieve any major event. Tom, who is consciously stupid, has enriched himself in all aspects, surpassed himself a little bit, and ultimately achieved extraordinary performance. John was indignant and even depressed. After his soul flew to heaven, he questioned God: "My intelligence is far more than Tom. I should be more great than him, but why did you make him a great person in the world?" God smiled and said "Poor John, you can't figure it out until you die: I sent everyone to the world, and put the same thing in the '褡裢' of his life, except that I put your cleverness into the '褡裢In front of you, you are so complacent about seeing or touching your own cleverness, and even misunderstood your life! And Tom’s intelligence is behind the '褡裢', he can’t see his intelligence, always Looking up at the front, so he has been unconsciously moving forward in his life!"

In a Japanese fun competition show, there was a big food king competition, and there was a three-time female champion who looked at her. She looked at her competing partner with quite disdainful eyes because she thought they were not serious enough because they tried to maintain their strength. At the last level, her performance has been far ahead of all people, she still ignores the existence of others, eat at their own pace.

"I am challenging myself to the limit." She said the secret of her success.

Some people's frustration comes from "comparative heart." I am poorer than others; I am worse than others; I am worse than others; I am more than than... I know that the mentality is not good, but we still have to compare. If this is the case, we may wish to focus on the lens first, think about ourselves from small to large, and those who are not as good as you, and then think about your own mood at this time, you will be able to experience the mood of a loser.

Don't look around and look forward to the scenery on other people's roads, add your own troubles, and disturb your progress. When you look back, you should find that you missed the flowers that smiled at you on the way.

The British writer John Clays can be said to be one of the most prolific writers in the world. He has written 564 novels. If you count 10 books a year, he spent nearly five or six decades writing novels. With so many books, you might think that he is a writer with hundreds of battles, then you are wrong, he has been rejected 753 times!

Can you bear the frustration of 753 times?

Edison was a dull person in his childhood. He created 1,093 inventions. He is an invention king. You know how many times he failed. He failed 3,000 times. Therefore, as a master, he would say: ninety-nine points of effort, one point of genius.

American scholar Giskel said: "Success cannot be the door, but failure will certainly yield something." The sooner the failure is more beneficial to a person, so that you can gain great wisdom when you are young.

Taiwan’s famous cartoonist Zhu Deyong’s 25-year-old Red Turtle Island, “Shuang Xiang Gun”, “涩 》”, “Vinegar Sweeping” and other works are deeply loved in Taiwan; in the Mainland, his comics are also very popular. But when he was a child, he was a problem child and thought he was very stupid. After his teens, he found himself unresponsive to words but sensitive to graphics. So he painted at the school, returned to the house and painted, and the blank space on the book and homework was full; at the school, he was criticized by a teacher, and when he got home, he painted him and painted it. He "deadly" was very miserable. Later, the media discovered him and opened a comic column for him. He became an excellent cartoonist because he found his best combination.

One psychologist once said: "You must be better than you think, but many people don't think so." Many outstanding people have great ambitions at a young age, they want to be different, no matter what they encounter. Any tribulations still believe that you are the best. Do you have such a belief that there is self-confidence that others can't beat? How strong is your persistence, how strong your confidence is, how long your path will be.

Everyone should always remember this truth. Only a person who constantly surpasses himself is a truly intelligent person. Everyone has their own unique ambiguity and talents. Everyone has their own unique entry point to realize the value of life. You only need to develop yourself according to your own endowment, and constantly surpass the soul of the horse, you will not ignore the sun in your life, and not in the glory of others.

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