If you don't know the life of others, please don't blame it.

What kind of life does others have and what kind of path they take, others can never really understand. Therefore, no one is qualified to blame others for commenting, because without real experience, you can't understand everything.

Maybe you are smarter than others. The life of others may not be anything in your eyes, but you should not look at and accuse others in your own position. Don't say too much in everything, don't look too subjective. In fact, sometimes we should know how to look at the problem from another angle.

There is a fable saying that "a pig, a sheep and a cow are kept in the same corral. Once, the owner caught the pig, and the pig shouted, violently resisting. Sheep and cows hate Its name is screaming and angered and accused: "You are too exaggerated. He often comes to catch us. We don't yell. The pig replied: "Catching you and catching me is totally different. He catches you, just wants your hair and milk, but catching me, it is my life!" "The sheep and the cows listened and they kept silent."

This story shows that people with different positions and different environments are difficult to understand each other's feelings. If we are good at standing in the position of others, we can solve others from the bottom of our hearts, closer and more in line with the facts, and it is easier for people to have more compassion between them, making it easier for others to accept, so that people Misunderstandings and contradictions with people will be much less.

Every result of this world is not produced for no reason. Anyone who does anything has his reasons and reasons. Anyone’s life has unrecognized joys, sorrows and sorrows. Some people always like to blame others without asking questions indiscriminately, often because they don't figure out the reasons behind them. Before you blame others, be sure to fully understand the situation. If you are eager to blame and criticize without being indiscriminate, it is easy to cause harm to others.

Looking at another angle, you will find that it is not only you who are the protagonists of this world. Every thousand people have their own stories. Everyone is the protagonist in their own stories. Whether the story is unremarkable or twists and turns, everyone has experienced different stories, or sadness or happiness. Life is impermanent, whoever has tears and sorrow, we must learn to appreciate and grieve, learn to be kind to others.

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Don't blame others easily, because we don't have enough wisdom to know the joys and sorrows in other people's lives, and to truly understand the ups and downs of others. Everyone has different positions and different environments. It is difficult to understand each other's feelings. Therefore, don't arbitrarily blame criticism, otherwise it will cause harm to others.

A truly literate person who can use "compassion and tolerance" to achieve others is actually accomplishing himself. A person who knows how to be free from the "phenomenon" is the real person who knows how to cultivate himself. Think about us, the pain of the journey of experience, to know the suffering of others. Think about us, how many unseen sadness and suffering, we know that other people's lives actually have the same content, and they also experience ups and downs on the road of life. Think about how we walked through the rough, and we know how others have walked through the rough and the hardships. A true self-cultivating person should understand the use and harm of words. He knows not to look at the problem unilaterally from his own perspective, so that the harm between people will be much reduced.

One flower, one world, one leaf, one bodhi. In fact, it is not difficult to do this. To be kind to others and to be considerate of others, you can get inner peace in this secular world. There is a saying: "Happiness does not depend on wealth, rights and looks, but on how you get along with people around you." If you want to be a happy person, then start with being kind to others!