It’s cloudy, the wind is up, but it’s not necessarily raining.

There are always so many things in this world. Just like the wind, it doesn't necessarily rain.

A teacher wrote "4" and "2" on the blackboard and asked the students the answer. If you answer "6", you will answer "2" and you will answer "8". No matter how answered, the teacher did not seem to hear the same, laughing and not talking. The students are puzzled, no matter how it is calculated, it seems that there are only three results. At this time, the teacher made a speech: "You only answer the questions according to your own intentions, thinking it is right. However, I have not had a question, is addition, subtraction, or division, do not understand the real purpose, how can I have the correct answer? What?” The students were speechless.

This mistake is obviously in the students, not the result of the calculation is not correct, plus, minus, multiply, and divide all four methods are right, but before the calculation, do not first figure out what method to use, just do what you want do. The premise is wrong and the result is wrong.

In life, this is also the most common, most common, and most likely mistake. Many people simply dismissed the reason without understanding the reason. If you don’t ask for the indulgence, you will conclude that it is, it should be, it must be, maybe, actually Not at all. In this way, it is impossible to communicate smoothly, which will inevitably affect communication, which may cause misunderstandings, create barriers, hurt feelings, and affect relationships. Producing such results may not be seen by yourself.

There is a kind of arrogance that does not listen. Listening is the greatest respect for people. If a person makes up his mind to tell you something, he will have no reservations and no one will be asked. It is a kind of trust to you, and it is a kind of release. In this way, the biggest wish is that the other party can listen in the state, and the greatest hope is to let the other party know what they mean. At this time, you may not want to listen, feel uninteresting, can not attract interest, and after he finished speaking, he subjectively and critically commented. In this way, the meaning may be incomplete and the intention may be misinterpreted. If the other party is guilty, it will be more melancholy. If it is hate, it will add a few points, which is especially difficult to understand. It is not that this matter was misjudged. It is not that this statement was misunderstood. It is not that this meaning is misunderstood. In fact, the other party only talked more about it, and there was no excessive demand. Patience, even if you don't explain it, is a comfort to others.

There is a kind of rudeness called interruption. I want to say that I always want to express my meaning completely and accurately, and only by listening to people clearly can we grasp the understanding accurately. Some people listen to it, but they interject from time to time, and even interrupted rudely. In this way, people have to interrupt, interrupted, meaning dismembered and fragmented, as a complete glass is broken and cannot be restored. I said that I was disturbed and didn’t know what to say. I didn’t know what to say, and I was confused by each other. In this context, because you don't understand the system, and you don't know how to evaluate it, why don't you mess up?

There is a kind of subjective call imposed. What people think, say, and do is done by everyone. Everything is like a car running on two roads. It is impossible to do what you think, say, and do. So only understanding can communicate. Some people may not, people do not think so, say so, do so, but use what they think, say, do. In this way, the facts are distorted, and they can't sit on a stool and can't communicate.

There is a kind of deviation called break. From the perspective of oneself, to infer other people's words and deeds. The door is shackled and it is easy to flatten people. Move the flowers and pick up the wood, and graft another person's business to this person. Capture the wind and catch the shadows, hear the way, add oil and vinegar, turn nothing into, turn small into big, come to the wind, add speculation, and try to figure out. In this way, it is easy to demonize the demon, to make the information inaccurate, and the situation is distorted.

As such, because the truth is unknown, it is easy to cause a lot of confusion. Originally, wind and rain are not necessarily accompanied, but "heard the wind is rain." Everyone who reuses has a background. Anyone who makes a result is a show. Anyone who is rich is a profiteer. Any ability is a good performance. Any good thing is a famous figure. Yes, there are these reasons, but there are also no related matters. There is no necessary connection between the two. Why not listen more, think about it, learn more and then draw conclusions, let the facts speak, not subjective imagination. If you say this, you can say something more, think about it, at least maintain the truth, reduce harm, and rapport, and will not dim your mood.

It is said that it is difficult for people to do it. How to behave is complicated, but it is very simple. And if you simplify the complicated problem, it is not difficult to say it. Sometimes troubles are self-seeking, listen to more, think about it, don't negate it easily, don't make conclusions, open communication channels, let people clear their words, talk about your words, talk about your views, this is not the case. Easy to get along?

How do you relate to people, how others will treat you. The attitude of others towards you is the reflection of your attitude towards others. Others are like a mirror, and you can see yourself from the mirror. Of course, this is a kind of cultivation, tolerance and understanding. Sometimes you just can't say or say less, maybe it's a better way to get along. It's important to be able to stand up and wait.