At what moment did you grow up in an instant?

My girlfriend just came out of the month, I went to see her, her husband was busy with the side, or licking the child, or tea.

When her husband didn't trace the gap between the children and her children, she yelled at me: "Hey? Look at what you seem to be absent-minded today."

I groaned and replied: "I can't say it, I feel... your husband is a little weird, how can I blame the law, I can't say it..."

My girlfriend and her husband are classmates of the university. When she was mad at her boyfriend in front of her school, she specially selected the most honest and unpredictable person in the class and played with him.

Did not think, the brine point tofu, a thing to drop a thing, and finally was a left-handed diploma, right-hand marriage certificate, by an unintentional game, staged an unmarried pregnancy drama before boarding the ship.

The three-month dangerous period passed, followed by the wedding. At the wedding scene, my girlfriend was pulling us, and I was bitterly sad: "The two people are still a little baby. Now they still have to bring a small baby. I see how they do it. The work is still not fixed. No matter what. I will take the child, even she grew up with the babysitter..."

A few of our good friends looked at the groom who had just walked out of the campus and looked at the green, only to sigh with each other.

“Do you feel grown up?” The girlfriend squinted at me naughtyly.

"It really is!"

After a lapse of half a year, people are still that person, but how they look different: the voice is low, the walk is slow, the posture is quite good, and the boy’s scorpion is completely faded between the gestures, as if the pebbles in the sun after the ebb tide , gentle and appropriate.

My girlfriend smiled sweetly and said: "I just got married for a while, I was so disappointed with him. I feel that this is a husband. It is clearly a son. There is no rule in doing things. He said that he was still angry, and he played games all the time on the weekend. The baby was born, he was a temporary worker in the unit, and he did not want to have a good relationship with his superiors.

Later, I didn't have the energy to manage him. Just like this, I said that the man is childish. I know, suddenly it has changed like a person, the game is not playing, the book is also beginning to read, and I have just turned positive before, and I know how to talk to his parents, and I am also better than the university. it is good.

I was curious, and I asked him how suddenly he became so good. After questioning for a long time, I didn’t want to say it. Later, I pretended to be angry. He told me that in the delivery room, he was holding the baby who was still bloody, as if a burden had fallen on his shoulder. . He couldn't help but bend his waist, and when he straightened up, he felt like he was growing up, just like he woke up from a dream. ”

"So people, they all grew up in a flash." The girlfriend stretched out and smiled and summed up.

After one year of winter vacation, after the college student Xiao A came back, he actually changed like a person.

In the past, she was a typical "star family". Every month, she spent all her life in the first week. In the next few weeks, she began to hungry and ate.

She is still a typical night owl. Every night, she plays drama, plays games, reads novels until late at night, wakes up and continues. We never know when she slept, and she didn't know when she woke up. Anyway, she developed a habit and took turns to give her a takeaway after lunch every day.

On the first day of school, when we woke up one after another, when we were struggling with the bed, Xiao A came in and was more sobering than the biting cold wind.

"Come and come, one big lazy, eat breakfast!" We had big eyes and eyes, and we didn't return to God for a long time, until the breakfast was finished, and I thought it was a dream.

Who knows, it’s just a beginning, then the little A let us stun again and again: she not only goes to bed early, gets up and down, and every class sits in the front row, taking notes seriously and spending money. No longer big and big. On Women's Day and Father's Day, she also showed off the big gifts she saved for her parents.

Finally, under the confession of our "coercion and lure", Xiao A sighed: "I will tell you a story that is not a story..."

During the winter vacation, Xiao A followed her mother to buy the new year. The year is close, and people on the street come to the bus, which is a bit more busy than in the past.

The small A family is in an emerging third-tier city, and many transportation facilities are not perfect. Many crossroads do not even have traffic lights.

In the past few years, I have not paid much attention to it. In recent years, the economy has developed rapidly, and more and more people are buying cars.

As always, Xiao A was eager to rush forward and rushed forward until the end of the hand touched a rough, and both hands shook her.

Looking back, my mother smiled and said: "There are many cars, I am afraid."

"Yeah." Xiao A turned his head, pretending not to care, holding the mother's hand, carefully walking through the crossroads, eyes with tears.

"Across the street, I finally resisted the urge to cry and cry, and the front became clearer than ever. I feel that I have grown up all of a sudden, and I should be sensible. I can’t be so sloppy." Little A shyly Smiled, like the spring breeze, the flowers are bright.

In the summer of my sophomore year, I didn’t go home in the hottest days. I stayed in the dormitory all day, drove the air conditioner, chased the American TV series, and ate the takeaway. The days were not pleasant.

Suddenly one day I received a call from my father. He hesitated for a long time at the end of the phone. "...I am sorry for your mother and you, the factory at home is stunned. Can you see if you can apply for a scholarship with the school teacher? Tuition, living expenses, first ask the students to borrow a week, we will call you when we get together..."

"..." I groaned for a while before I reacted to what he said. "Hey! Dad, why am I doing it? After I’m 18 years old, my tuition and living expenses will be taken care of myself..."

I slammed my father and joked the phone with a slap in the face. I suddenly fell down and a round tear slammed on the floor.

After a while, the tears never flowed down again. I quickly contacted the counselor to apply for the bursary. I contacted several of my classmates to help recommend the part-time job, and planned the balance of the bank card and stood up.

A gust of wind suddenly blew, and at that moment I felt the back chilly, empty, and helpless, so I had to straighten my waist.

Next, I am working madly and saving me. I have never worried about money since I was young, and finally realized the feeling of splitting a penny into two flowers.

The most memorable thing is that there is still a week of temporary wages, and I have less than 50 yuan left in my body. Apart from the fare of returning from work, I can only eat the cheapest steamed buns for three meals a day.

Later, I was never picky, and I had the food I like the most - buns.

Later, on the birthday of my parents, I gave them a red envelope of 1,000 yuan each.

Later, he never reached out and asked his parents to pay a penny and took up nearly one-third of the debt of the family.

I always remember the moment I stood up, like the montage in the movie. The little girl in the previous frame was a little girl. When the next frame stood up, it was a quiet adult.

Growing up, often done in an instant.

Because it is helpless, because of responsibility, because of love...

Author: being happy, Jane, author of human life very, very long, so do not hurry; human life is very short very short, so we must continue to pursue.