Pei Peifen

· Everyone may have a bad environment, a rough time, and a hard time at work. To put it more seriously, it can almost be said that before each of us was born into this world, we were destined to bear the fate of suffering through various difficulties.

· Although we are destined to rely on labor and work to maintain our own lives, although we are destined to have seven emotions to taste the various joys and sorrows of human beings, on the other hand, we have the opportunity to appreciate this. In the world of birds and flowers, we still have the wisdom to appreciate the true meaning of human suffering. We also have the mood to appreciate the preciousness of human love, kindness and compassion. All in all, our gains are worthwhile compared to the price we pay.

· I often compare life to a trip, and hard work and suffering are counted as travel expenses that we can't afford. In this journey, we can get a variety of colorful experiences. When we are in pain, we can be the wading mountains, the narrow roads, and the dangerous bridges that we are on the road. And when we were happy, it was that we arrived at the beautiful place, unloaded the clothes, washed away the dust, and enjoyed the stay. Just like traveling, you don't stay in a certain scenic area forever, but only after a while, you should take your bags and look for another good place.

· Therefore, we should take it for granted.

· When the business is going smoothly, the financial resources are rolling in, inexhaustible, inexhaustible, that is good.

· Once the risk is met and the adversity comes, it will have to go through a hard time of frugality. If the person who is not strong enough will come to adversity, it will inevitably end the trip and admit his failure early. —— 靳佩芬名句

· And if we are strong enough, we should understand that we are coming to experience these risks.

· It takes courage to be a decent traveler, and only those who have the courage to take the risk of travel can reach the victory of life, and then they can appreciate the “savings and dangers” that the average person can’t understand. Spring back" and so on. Therefore, when we are in adversity, we have to endure a forbearance, take a look, and come up with more courage and confidence; don’t just look at the hardships of the journey, but light up the light of hope and see what you want. Places to go.

· Every one of us has the pressure of the environment; but at this time, when you shed tears with sorrow, it is better to slowly work on your own conditions, and once the opportunity comes, you have enough conditions to cope. The situation is getting better.

· Many facts have led me to believe that a person's life needs can be reduced to a minimum, while maintaining the heart of Lotte. As long as you don't let yourself be ashamed, the environment can't take you.

· People who know how to travel are often not interested in flat, easy-to-reach places, but prefer to find those steep mountains, undeveloped forests, or islands without people. They think that the fun of travel is to overcome the difficulties on the way, that is, to reach places that others are not easy to reach, is to discover new good conditions. - Pei Feifen's quotation

· The same is true for people who know life. They often don't like to live a simple life, but have the courage to try some difficult, adventurous, but content, meaningful life. Because they know that when the difficulties are overcome and the dangers pass, they will taste some of the true flavor of life. They will truly understand the bitterness of life, the joy of music, the taste of poverty. How, the taste of falling out of love, and their greatest gain is often the joy of success.

· As the saying goes: "If you eat bitterly, you will be a person." The so-called "personal person" is not a general utilitarian idea; rather, he can be more open-minded in life than the average person, with a broad vision and It’s easy to get things done. If we lived in a greenhouse like a flower from an early age, we could only live in a greenhouse like a flower. The only thing we saw was that the temperature that we could adapt to was only a little bit. What do you mean?

· Whenever I feel depressed, or when I feel tired and tired, or occasionally bored with routine work, I am forced to go to the street to go and see.

· Maybe it was a hot day with a high fire, and the time was noon. At this time on the street, I will see some sweaty people, pulling the car or carrying the burden, rushing for life.

· I also saw one or two women dressed in shabby clothes, carrying children on their backs, holding one in their hands, and carrying the basket in the other hand, never knowing how far it is, not far from where they are. go with. - Pei Feifen's quotation

· Maybe it was a hurricane night, with few pedestrians, but there are still one or two lonely street vendors selling their customers on the bleak street corner. He was tired for a day and looked forward to a night, but he didn't necessarily get what he wanted.

· The girl at the fruit shop on the corner of the street is dragging her sour feet and using her rough hands to clean the skin and count the goods. She looked tired and hard-pressed, and she had to admit it; after she slept for four or five hours, she continued to be the same tired day, another day.

· These people, they work hard, nothing more than life.

· They lack more things than I do, and the weight of the life they bear is much heavier than mine.

· Then those who are tired, bored, or depressed will be alleviated. As for the disappearance; at the same time, it may give birth to a new belief, which is caused by a feeling of fortune - that is, I should live up to this unique grace. —— 靳佩芬名言佳句

· Not exaggerating at all, because I made a comparison with the hard work of others, and found that I could not be satisfied with my own life and felt embarrassed.

· We will always see people who are hard, liveless, and burdened like camels.

· Just “life” has already made them exhausted.

· But they can still put hope on tomorrow or in the future.

· They only hope that one day they will not be so tired, they will be enough. —— 靳佩芬名言佳句

· And I therefore believe that if I am in their position, they must be exactly like them.

· When I was in a hurry and had to hike in the hot sun, my biggest hope was just a bus ticket.

· When I have only four hours of sleep and twenty hours of work a year, my biggest hope is that I will only sleep a day without interference.

· However, I also understand that whenever a person’s minimum aspirations are met, he must have a second wish;

· And there will be more and bigger wishes in the future. —— 靳佩芬名句

· No one thinks that there is no longer something missing in his own life, even if he retreats into a bad living environment, he will yearn for or miss this life; but he is worthy of satisfaction or even envied in his own life. In his life, he always feels poor and unsatisfactory.

· Of course, on the positive side, because we are often dissatisfied with our own status quo, we will come up with more intelligence and physical strength to seek greater progress, and we will have more creation and invention.

· Because whether we think we are hard enough, there are always people who are harder, harder, and even hopeless than we live, and they are there to live with hope and hope.

· Everyone can't help but get bored, bored, and unsatisfied. At this time, it is time for us to envision ourselves in a more hopeless, harder and more difficult situation.

· Happiness needs to be compared. It has no end, no standards, but just how you know about it and how you interpret it. —— 靳佩芬名言佳句

· A person who likes to read a book, if he hasn't approached the book for a long time, it must be because he is busy, or because his mind is scattered in other trivial things, so that he has no time or no mood to read. The busyness of these trivial life projects is the biggest reason for a person's superficial vulgarity. When the thoughts are superficial and vulgar, the words are naturally tasteless, and the face will be a pity.

· We can't survive without reality, but taking a small amount of time to read a book every day can keep us clear and flexible.

· The ancients said: "If you don't study for three days, you will feel that your words are boring and your face is awkward."

· In the ancient poems, "there is a clear question, and it is a source of water for the active head." Our thoughts need to be a source of living water, and a large part of this source of living water comes from reading. Reading useful books every day has a tonic effect on the spirit, and our words and demeanor are not "unsatisfactory" and "detestable".

· In order to allow us to use our short free time to read books, we may often put one or two books we plan to read in the most accessible places. For example, you are a civil servant who works eight hours a day. After dinner, after dinner, you will always have a little time to sit on the sofa or in the wicker chair. At this time, if your book is placed next to the coffee table, you don't have to get up. You can get it when you reach out. You are naturally willing to smoke and drink tea while reading a book. —— 靳佩芬名句

· Or you are a housewife, then you can put a book you want to see without time to look at. Most of the time that belongs to the housewife is to finish the lunch, clean up, and lie down for a nap. You can read while reading. Although you may only be able to read one or two pages, after a long period of time, your reading results will be considerable.

· Reading useful books can raise us from a trivial and chaotic reality to a more transcendental realm. We can look back on our busy indulgences from the perspective of a bystander, all the daily anxiety, worry, anger, compassion, and everything that is cited as a major event. The disturbances that you are involved in are not so worthy of your seriousness!

· Reading is a rest for those engaged in manual labor. Reading is a relief for those who use their brains to deal with affairs. When we are bored, reading can certainly relieve boredom; when we are suffering, reading can also make us forget.

· Books are a nutrient for human spirit. Without it, life must be flawed.

· Dr. Lin Yutang persuaded people to find “literary lover” in The Art of Life. He said: "There are so-called temperamental things in the world. Therefore, one must find a person who is close to his own temperament from ancient and modern writers." If you can often have the opportunity to borrow books from a writer who is close to his spiritual field. Chatting and talking, what he said is what you want to say, his joys, sorrows and sorrows are your joys and sorrows; and he gives you some revelation to let you know the world outside your own narrow world; then you can get like To the happiness of friends and friends. —— 靳佩芬名句

· If you are not a "busy person", then on a lonely rainy day, in the long afternoon, you can find a book you can best understand on a weekday holiday that cannot be dispatched. There will be a kind of " Such as the happiness of the old man.

· In particular, "there is a poetry and poetry from the belly", it can make people elegant, imposing, far better than the luxury of clothing or the pile of jade in the home, and it can make you enjoy the gloom, peace of mind, It’s more important than not to be profitable for the rest of the year.

· Some people in the world like to save money, some people like to collect antiques, some people like to collect stamps, and some people like to store the words in the books. I think this last storage is the most economical and safest storage. Because it is not afraid of theft, the second is not afraid of loss, and it is easy to carry and easy to use.

· Only when you bury your head, you can come out

· Many aspiring people ignore the fact that they can make more money, and they only want to make a blockbuster, instead of doing the work of burying their heads. When one day, he saw that he was late than him, and he had a considerable gain than his talent, and he was shocked to find that he had nothing on this field. This he realized that it was not that God did not give him ideals or volunteers, but that he only waited for the harvest, but forgot to plant. —— 靳佩芬名句

· I have a friend who often comes to me to talk to me in my spare time. He is studying law, but he is passionate about drama. He often wants to have the opportunity to jump on the screen and become a big star. However, I never saw him to try the opportunity to enter the movie world. So I asked him: "Why don't you try it?"

· He said: "I don't want to compete with the fledgling children. I am almost thirty years old. Even after I entered the exam, it was just a small supporting role. What do you mean? I have to wait for elbow. Waiting for a big company to find the protagonist of a certain film and my character is appropriate, I will be hired when I go, then it will be a blockbuster."

· But how many people can be lucky like this? Therefore, he had to wait for years, the oldest, and his wish is still a wish. Just because he refused to start from scratch, he never touched his ideal paradise.

· It’s useless to sigh anxiously about your unfulfilled wishes. To achieve your goals, you must start from scratch. The so-called "going high will be inferior, and the distance will be self-defeating"; just like climbing a mountain, you have to lower your head and climb hard and patiently. After you have worked hard and climbed up, you can see how many difficulties you have overcome and how many dangerous roads you have come.

· The ancients said: "Only by burying your head, you can be in the first place." If the seed does not struggle through the hard soil, it will stop at a dry seed and never grow into a big tree. —— 靳佩芬名言佳句

· Opportunity is a complex factor in the world of things that happens to be a gap between your operations.

· This gap is fleeting, so it's important to grasp the timing and you need to “capture” quickly, instead of sitting there waiting or delaying.

· Xiqiao said: "The opportunity will not come to your door again." This is not to say that it is large, but that it is also manipulated and pushed between everything, involuntarily.

· Waiting for the wait is the biggest reason for people's failure, so say: "The weak wait for the opportunity, the strong create the opportunity"; the so-called "creation opportunity" is only between the thousands of factors running, trying to add one thousand of their own The power of the hope to make the operation of "opportunity" a moment that is beneficial to oneself. The story of Dr. Lin Yutang can be said to be the best proof.

· 徘徊 望 is the enemy of our success. Many people have no confidence in the opportunity that has come to the front, and in a hesitation, let it pass gently. The opportunity is hard to come by. This is true, because even if it is willing to come back to your door, if you still haven't changed your grievances, it will still slip away. - Pei Feifen's quotation

· We often see the lost cockroach desperately flying into the glass window in the room, intending to go to the vast sky. It looked at the light that came in through the glass window and flew indefinitely, but it touched the glass every time. I had to struggle on it for a long time before I recovered my mind. Then it circled around the room, and then took courage and still flew toward the glass window. Of course, it still "bumps back."

· The door next to it is open, but because there is no light on it, it doesn't want to try that door.

· Pursuit of light is the nature of most living things. No matter how they suffer failure or frustration, they always struggle to fight toward the bright places. However, when we see the embarrassment that hits the wall, we can’t help but tell it: we sometimes can’t change it in order to achieve the goal. A direction that seems to be far away and less hopeful; otherwise, you have to go for a long time between trying and failing until you are completely stunned.

· Although the spirit of not returning can be admired, if we can see the target here, but the front is just a steep mountain wall, there is no path to climb, we have to change direction and detour.

· In order to achieve the goal, it is sometimes the expression of wisdom to take the road of divergence from the ideal. In fact, there are few convenient direct routes on the way to life. —— 靳佩芬名句

· We often have to put our goals behind us, and patiently do the work of thorns and paving roads. We often have to try a lot of seemingly dark and hopeless roads before we find that we are closer to the goal.

· Don't be a brave man, don't be like a stubborn one. Please use your wisdom and patience! You can temporarily succumb to a career you don't like. You can temporarily deal with people you hate or scorn. You can temporarily walk into a dark culvert - as long as you don't forget to drill out from the other end, as long as you are always Knowing that all this is just a means, not your ultimate goal, you don't need to be discouraged and sad; you don't need to care about how people around you criticize or laugh at you.

· People who know how to circle and detour are often the first to climb the mountain.

· A movie "Sakura Love" that was once staged in Taipei. The heroine is a Japanese girl who wants to go to surgery to make double eyelids, which makes her American husband angry.

· The purpose of Japanese girls who want to make double eyelids is to make themselves like Americans. She thinks that "will make her husband think she is more lovely." But in fact, the American husband loves her original Eastern appearance; in other words, her husband loves her because she has a single eyelid, short stature, and straight hair. —— 靳佩芬名句

· This story is of course not only an exaggerated rendering in the drama, because in fact, many of us have had this feeling: the Chinese wife who is often chosen by American friends in Taiwan is not what our Chinese think. beautiful. On the contrary, they pick what we think is not beautiful. They often like to find some very petite and exquisite, the hair is completely Chinese original style, no flower roll, no nose, single eyelid, and the move also retains the intrinsic quiet lady in China. Therefore, it is often felt that the eyes of Americans are strange.

· Of course, according to the general "beauty" standard, the best is that Westerners have oriental beauty, or Orientals have Western beauty. So there are many Eurasian children, all very beautiful.

· But love is not necessarily the case. When a person has a love for a person, he or she often does not love the standard of the other person, but just falls in love with his characteristics. Otherwise, everyone is attacking a few standard beauty. If other people are not "standard", can't they find the object?

· Since it is impossible for everyone to conform to the "beauty" world standard, it is better to preserve their own characteristics by transforming themselves with unnatural methods.

· Save your own characteristics. A characteristic of a person may be her beauty. We don't have to want to be like a famous beauty. We should hope that we are most like ourselves. - Pei Feifen's quotation

· I remember a former American wife who took a photo at a photo studio in Shanghai and took it back. The cameraman repaired a sunken stamp on her lower jaw. Perhaps because the wife is studying art, she was very upset at the time and asked the photographer why she had repaired her. The cameraman of course explained that because it is so beautiful, she said: "Whether it is good to look good, it is something on my face, you should not fix it."

· Of course, people who study art can't help but be a bit quirky. However, this also shows that the "truth" in art is one of the conditions of beauty. If you make yourself different from yourself and lose the truth you deserve, then you can't talk about "beauty."

· If you love yourself and you want others to love you, then you don't have to imitate others, but you have to use your true colors to make it shine.

· "Sit and think about yourself, gossip about people." Although this sentence sounds pedantic, but when you think about it, it has a place worthy of our compliance.

· “Sit and think about yourself” is a kind of reflection. If we can often calm down, think of the place where we are negligent or owed when we are doing things or treating others, we naturally reduce the feeling of complaining about hatred or revenge against others; at the same time, we get some vigilance because we understand our mistakes. In the future, you will not commit the same mistake again. This is the true meaning of the predecessors who persuaded us to "sit and sit on ourselves." —— 靳佩芬名句

· Use the spirit of talking about the right and wrong of others to “consider yourself”, which can reduce the chances of offending people and correct their shortcomings at any time. It can be said that it is two birds with one stone.

· Someone said: "If we all know how others talk about us behind the scenes, I am afraid that even a friend will not be there." This is not a sentence that negates the friendship between people. On the contrary, it can tell us that behind us. Gossip is not necessary to seriously inquire and care.

· Be aware that people are behind the scenes, talking about your faults or shortcomings, and saying that it is against you, this is human nature. Even if he is your friend, occasionally speaking one or two times does not prove that he is not enough friends. If you don't know, this thing will be the same as it did not happen at all.

· If you are constantly worried about the conversations that are behind you, and you have to do everything you can, the person who delivers the message may exaggerate or distort things. In this way, this is an unintentional chat, it will become a very serious intentional slander, of course, will affect the feelings between friends.

· I don't think it is too serious in this respect; if you like your friends, you should defend him or whitewash it in front of the person who is passing the message. Because this is the best way to exchange your confidence and your gossip. —— 靳佩芬名句

· The feelings between friends are not established in a short time. During the interaction with each other, regardless of minor grievances, proper elimination of minor misunderstandings, forgiveness of intentional or intentional mistakes, etc., are the best ways to consolidate and promote friendship. Many people cannot make a friend in their lifetime. It is because he is too careless. You know, how many people in the world have no shortcomings and no carelessness? If others are also concerned about our mistakes, will we not become isolated poor people?

· I have always liked the atmosphere of happiness and enthusiasm. Whether it is in the family, between the neighborhoods, between friends, between classmates and colleagues, if everyone meets, it is a group of enthusiasm, there is no prejudice in each other's hearts, there is no place to use things, hahaha, talking and laughing, how good! And this kind of happy atmosphere is caused by a generous and tolerant effort that everyone starts from.

· Hold a word of “forgiveness” on people, appreciate the benefits of others, remember the good of others, forget others' mistakes, forgive others' shortcomings, and not deliberately pick others. This will give you a kind of peace of mind.

· The old-fashioned family often has a lot of misunderstandings and suspicions. Often develop the habit of people who are so mean and mean.

· It is common for some people to speak without forgiveness. If you hurt me, I must retaliate against you three sentences and think that it is a great spiritual victory. But in fact, we know that no matter whether the dispute is big or small, there are disputes and opinions, and the heart will not be comfortable. Whether it is victory or defeat, it is always difficult to avoid considerable loss in spirit. As a result of striving for trivial matters, it will certainly turn into unintentional intentions and expand small things into major events. It will be even harder to get along with each other in the future. —— 靳佩芬名言佳句

· "Yiqi can be good", if you want to make your life happy and peaceful, don't forget the word "harmony".

· Qi is not weak, a person who knows how to use Qi and Qi, will become his invisible weapon; it can avoid being involved in the whirlpool of unhelpful arguments, actively overcome the enemy that is disadvantageous to him, and can go further Turn the enemy into a friend.

· Inertia is really something that is not easy to overcome.

· Not many people are not lazy, and those who are diligent are the power of some will to push him.

· We may wish to say: "The will is a force to overcome inertia." And the formation of this will depends on a goal worth pursuing. With this goal waiting for us to reach, we will feel that there is reason to launch ourselves. —— 靳佩芬名句

· As the saying goes: "People don't make a profit, who is going to get up early?" "Lee" is one of the purposes. People who like "profit" will naturally let themselves get up early in pursuit of "profit". Of course, not everyone in the world likes "profit". Even if everyone likes "profit", not everyone will regard "profit" as the most worthy goal.

· To overcome your own inertia, you must first establish an ideal goal for yourself.

· Ask yourself, what do you want? What is your favorite thing most yearning? You first find this answer for yourself in your heart.

· Maybe, you like to make a fortune. Maybe you like to make a piece of orchard for yourself after you have made a fortune. Maybe you plan to go abroad, maybe you want to take the college entrance exam, maybe you want to be a musician, painter, or writer. Then, after you have determined your goals, you will find that many projects in your life suddenly become meaningful, while others suddenly become unimportant.

· Of course, it’s just a big goal, sometimes it’s too far away, and it’s too abstract. - Pei Feifen's quotation

· We may wish to set a small goal after setting the big goal.

· The so-called saving money, of course, is open source on the one hand and throttling on the other. The open source approach is work, and the method of throttling is more hardworking and less wandering. After this small goal is established, you will start to think that you must get up early in the morning to avoid wasting your time on the bed. With this time, you can send newspapers, send milk, or replace the duties of domestic workers to organize the garden.

· For example, if you want to save money to buy an orchard for yourself, then you must first find the way to save money.

· So, you think it makes sense to get up early. In the past, you would feel that there is nothing to get up early, or you don't know where to start doing things. And when you have a goal, before you get up, you already know what to do after you get up, and you will be able to pull yourself out of bed and do things.

· Establishing goals is one way to help yourself overcome inertia. - Pei Feifen's quotation

· The road to success is very long. On this long road, if there is no encouragement, it is not easy to maintain long-term interest.

· If you want to achieve a little achievement in learning, then the only way you can achieve this goal is to study hard.