There is an effort called "shame" and then courage

One

Cousin said that it is difficult to tell the dream of screaming forever.

During the university, my cousin once lived a day of sleep, games, and take-away. Several buddies in the same room always sighed about learning uselessness. In the life of drunken dreams and unfettered college life, in addition to the increasing number of games and weight, the other indicators are regressive.

At the end of the year, the cousin informed the family about the three exams. Looking at the sons who have been at the top of the country since the beginning of the country, Dagu began to suffer bitterly, but his cousin always took the phrase "can get a degree certificate" to perfuse the response; later, the tears of tears can be immersed in the virtual world of the game. Cousin is still difficult to extricate himself.

The battle between the mother and the child was finally made at the beginning of the year.

"Learning is not the only way out, even if you don't learn me, you can mix up." Cousin put on his luggage, slammed the door and decided to go to the "Northern Shanghai" to sway his own world. Daxie also felt awkward, no longer blocked, and broke the tuition fee for his cousin.

That year, my cousin dropped out of school, and he only had more than 1,000 yuan in his credit card.

A person fluttering, his cousin came to the magic capital, it is said that this place that can help young people realize their dreams, seems to take advantage of his bright future. But in a basement that was less than ten square meters of water seepage, a few days of depression made the cousin feel collapsed. Like all young people who have just arrived, cousin delivers resumes during the day and splits a noodles into two at night. But he didn't even have a bachelor's degree, and even a decent restaurant refused him.

At that time, the cousin felt the deep helplessness and despair. In his own words, the vastness of the bustling could not accommodate his own foothold.

It was a dark time without a bath, no food, and frustration for a month. The ticket that he eventually returned home was a student who went to school in Beijing secretly helped him buy it.

two

After returning home, my cousin did not choose to repeat, but reported a Japanese class and applied to go to university.

Because of the previous experience, my cousin is no longer embarrassed, but after nearly a year of hard work, the high score passed the Japanese test, and I got a letter of acceptance from a Japanese university.

The days of going abroad are not easy. He often called me to tell the story of a foreign country: In addition to the class time, he played two odd jobs "work-study", got up at four o'clock in the morning, and then went door-to-door. Send newspapers, if the wind and the sun are good, if you catch up with the wind and rain, often you are drenched and drenched and keep the newspaper "safe"; a person in the night of a foreign land, often tired even if you do not want to eat, then faint I fell asleep, but sometimes I was hungry and suddenly woke up in the middle of the night. The bread crumbs "Laoganma" was his most common day and night, staring at the starry sky and the fields outside the window on a quiet and terrible night. It will be full of tears; although the language can be generally understood, but after all, it is not as familiar as the national language, and the long-term exchanges with the foreign partners are often unable to help, and occasionally will be rejected by the students...

But my cousin also said that this time, even if it is dead, he will die outside and can no longer humiliate his family. The life in Beijing made him remember, although the days of studying abroad are equally difficult, but after all, there is a foreseeable future.

In this way, five years later, my cousin can finally stand proudly on the 30-story high-rise building in Tokyo, overlooking the night scene, and finally can go back and forth between Japan and China's head office and branch offices.

Of course, his most grateful is still the month in which Beijing was displaced. During that time, he found his own position. Perhaps more accurately, the loud slap that reality gave him became his Adult gift.

three

Also inspirational, there is a cousin.

In the impression, the cousin is always a refined makeup, a capable style. After graduating from the undergraduate degree, the cousin was hired by a good private company. The threshold of the unit was not low, and the work was fairly good. She was the only undergraduate who was admitted that year.

At work, the cousin can't be said to be desperate: she used to return two days in advance without any notice from the company during the small holiday of the Spring Festival to carry out the relevant project budget; when she worked overtime until late at night, she had a street lamp in the rain. She walked for nearly 2 hours with a deep foot. When she arrived home, it was already half past two in the morning. On several occasions, because of the responsibilities of the superiors, she saved the time to go to work. I moved my "folding bed" to the office, carrying all kinds of toiletries and cosmetics in bottles and jars...?

Even so, after working for a year and a half, when faced with the transfer, the position that originally belonged to her still gave people a "top". The boss has left such an explanation: "Your efforts are obvious to all, and it is precisely because of the bright spots on your body that the company will make an exception to leave you with a bachelor degree. But if you give me a promotion at this time, I am afraid that Come to other colleagues for criticism. The next time you have a chance, it must be yours."

The cousin smiled and turned to the door. She never did it again. It wasn't that the company didn't have her promotion space in the future. The cousin just didn't want her degree to be taught. She said goodbye to her boss.

four

The cousin who resigned from her work did not receive the support of her family. Even the best girlfriends were puzzled by her choices: although the cause was dull, it was like a crowd of people, and there was a reason to fight for it; The salary is still considerable, not only can be self-sufficient, maybe one person can support the family afterwards; as for the academic qualifications, the undergraduate graduates in the society have to grasp a large number, and may not really need to raise their academic qualifications to raise their worth...

However, the iron-clad cousin chose to study.

The next day, she cut her long hair shawl for a few years, and became a flat head. Apart from reviewing at home, she rarely went out with a hat on several occasions; locked her ipad and laptop into it. The safe, and the key to the safe was mailed to the students who were far away from the sky; half of the funds in the bank card were given to the aunt, and half of them were dead... This year’s retreat, she vowed to go all out and break the boat .

Every day, my cousin still maintains a strict schedule, and still has a delicate makeup. She just stayed away from home. Even when I visited it occasionally, she just locked herself into the study room with a little chill. Prepare for the college entrance examination.

During the period, my cousin once called to cry to me. It was a few days before the exam. She said that she had carried too many other people's expectations and internal pressures in the past year. If it fails, the time of this year will not only be I have been squandered and I don’t know where to go in the future...

Fortunately, life did not live up to her efforts, the day when the results of the postgraduate examinations were announced, the cousin updated the only friend circle in the past year: "400 points, new students!"

Fives

The experience of my cousin and cousin is more like two bowls of chicken soup, but it is the story of our "generation of counterattack" that is actually happening around me.

The end of the story is nothing more than the ideal drama, but they recognize the gap, know the "shame" and then the courageous struggle, the effort actually exists in every detail of their lives. Today, my mother always tells him and her story with me who just graduated. I also hope to copy his "legend" with her through his own progress and efforts.

Perhaps everyone's results may not be as complete as cousin and cousin, but only after really seeing the gap and panic, such efforts will be more tenacious. The motivation for being uneasy about the status quo comes from the comparison between life and others, or the dissatisfaction in your own heart. With this "shame", you will really try to reverse your own world and strive to achieve your own ideals. the height of.

Life is not only in front of you, but also poetry and distance. In the midst of countless months of star-studded nights, there are countless young people like you and me who are still at the desk. If you are willing to live a dull life, let trivial things kill the passion of hard work, those so-called futures and dreams will end up like a beautiful bubble, gorgeous and broken.

Everyone will have a low self-esteem, or a fall, or a frustration, or a time of indifference. Such a "black hole" can only be filled by himself. Only by shame and bravery can the innocent black be transformed into a shadow behind him. At the foot.

After all, every journey that clenches the teeth is a precipitation of life, and the so-called maturity and sophistication is to constantly try, experience and grow.