High school parents must read: The last three months of the college entrance examination

High school parents must read: The last three months of the college entrance examination

In the next three months, the children will have to enter the college entrance examination room to deal with the key to life. How to guide children through this critical period is a matter of great concern to every parent. The senior teacher of Xiamen Shuangshi Middle School and the former senior high school teacher Xu Xuxiu are here to communicate with the parents about the practice of him and his lover.
Xu Xunxiu’s daughter graduated from the Communication University of China with a second bachelor’s degree this summer. Her son is a third-year undergraduate student at Beijing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics. Teacher Xu Xunxi believes that in the last three months, as a parent, the three aspects of the child's life, mind and confidence are indispensable. I hope that the letter he wrote will inspire the seniors who have candidates to be inspired.
The first is the care of life. The third year students are in the period of development, the emotional hyperactivity period and the consumption period of the exam. The care for their lives should include four aspects: one is physical life, the other is environmental life, and the third is Nutritional life, the fourth is spiritual life.
We pay great attention to the child's physical hygiene. Every day, children's inner and outer clothes are required to be changed, and they are often replaced with pillows, bed covers and duvet covers, so that they can wear comfortably and sleep comfortably. Usually pay attention to observe the child's physiological changes, promptly give guidance and conditioning to ensure that their physiology does not go wrong.
For environmental life, we respect the child's growth experience, hobbies and realities. My daughter values ​​her own growth experience. My lover always changes her favorite toys and other supplies and her photos to arrange her room, so that she can appreciate her growth when she is tired. The oil is excited and happy. My son likes to listen to light music, and my lover will light music every day when he returns home, so that he can feel more comfortable when he returns home.
For a nutritious life, we never force the child to eat what to eat. A principle is to ensure that your child's nutrition during adolescence, respect the child's eating habits, try to meet the child's dietary requirements, and let them have fun.
As for spiritual life, we are taking advantage of the different realities of our children. My daughter likes fashion, her son likes current affairs, we cut down the healthy fashion content of daily newspapers and major domestic and international events, read them to children, and often accompany them to watch news broadcasts and exchange what they see and hear. Enlighten, to broaden their horizons, activate their thinking, adjust their emotions, and cultivate their sentiments.
Through the care of these four kinds of life, we ensure that our children's physical and mental health, so that they always maintain a high level of learning.
The second is the care of the soul. The children heard all the time in the school about the teacher's learning. They don't want to go home and hear the parents ask about it. Therefore, we never ask our children to learn problems, even if I am with my son for three years. However, this does not mean that we are not paying attention to the study of our children. We are mostly the care of the soul.
The care of the soul lies in the deep understanding of the child's learning experience. Once, my son came home and didn't even eat dinner. He hid in his room and sighed. After half an hour, he went to the bathroom. My lover and I inferred that there must be problems in my heart.
I quickly wrote a note on his desk: "Sighs can't solve any problem. The only way to solve the problem is to cheer up. Please ask your heart from the situation, okay?" He went from the bathroom. After I came out, I saw the note and thought about it. I shouted: "I am hungry!"
When he was eating, he was embarrassed to say: "It's unlucky, a physics problem can't be solved for more than an hour." His mother said to him: "You are not a saint, and the saint may not be able to solve every problem. It’s not so important to solve the problem. It’s important to solve the problem of being a human being.” I went on to say: “Although you spent more than an hour today to solve a physics problem, you have now solved a big problem. "The son laughed happily after listening.
Less than three months after the college entrance examination, my son fell asleep with a basketball, and could not walk for a month and a half. My colleagues and I took turns holding him. My son said to me melancholy: "I am not afraid of my feet, I am afraid of affecting learning." I said to him: "I am not afraid of your study, I am afraid of your feet..." We talked about each other And laugh.
At this juncture, the grandfather who loved him the most. We took him back to his hometown and mourned. When he arrived at his hometown and faced the body of his grandfather, he could not kneel because of a leg injury. On the day of his departure, he insisted on carrying a cane to his grandfather. We never thought that he would be able to walk down at the school.
After returning to Xiamen, he couldn't sleep for a few days. We know that he suffered from the pain in his legs, and he was under the pressure of preparing for the test. He also suffered the great pain of losing his grandfather, but we also know that at this time. Any words are pale. How to quickly cheer him up? The only way is to comfort the soul.
Still my lover knows my son! She finds out the little pillow that her son liked when he was a child, and found out all the gifts his grandfather gave him, and asked me to write a note to him: "Son, when you want grandpa, look at these. Gifts; when you can't sleep, hug this little pillow!" Really, the night, the son was watching these gifts, fell asleep in this small pillow.
The third is that the care of the child is growing and maturing, and the thoughts and mentality are inevitably repeated. This requires the care of confidence.
At the crucial stage of the physics competition, my son did not go up. One day, he returned home and asked us: "Do you want to stick to it?" I said: "I know myself the best, and I want to grasp my own things." Mom went on to say: "If you can't keep going, you must give up decisively. The only thing you can't give up is confidence!" He persisted and eventually won the second prize and was not eligible for the guarantee.
Soon after, the principal suggested that he should participate in the self-enrollment of Shanghai Jiaotong University. When I relayed the principal's concern to him, he replied without thinking: "I can't be frustrated again. I still have to pass the college entrance examination to a prestigious university." Having said that, he still has a series of reversals. After taking the first test after the physics competition, he only tested 182 people in the year. To this end, he called his sister: "I only have 182 years. I still have hope?" His sister told us the situation, we are not in a hurry, I think this time is still silent guidance.
We left a note on his desk: "No one can give you hope, hope is given by faith and faith. You can only win everything with a happy mood and tenacious will to win hope!" The second test, he took the test of 120 years, advanced 63, but the most advanced physics test, he was angry on the test paper wrote: "A person who won the second prize in the physics competition, test 80 Is it not shameful?"
In this regard, his mother enlightened him: "Son, you participated in the physics competition, rushed to catch other subjects, for a moment ignored the physical review, the results fell for a while, this is a very normal thing, not shameful." I told him : "It’s good to know why the results have fallen. If you can carefully plan each subject in the future, the results of each subject will naturally be better."
We are gratified that the third test, he tested 83, and advanced 37, but he still has concerns, and called his sister: "The time away from the college entrance examination is not much, I am only 83 now How can I get into a prestigious university?" After we got the information, we thought that the power we encouraged alone was not enough, so he asked his uncle to call him to encourage him, and put a letter from his grandfather to him during his lifetime. On the table.
His grandfather wrote in his letter: "In order to liberate the whole of China, we carry forward the spirit of going forward; in order to realize the dream of life, you must also carry forward the spirit of going forward. It is a magic weapon to overcome difficulties and overcome setbacks." We firmly believe He will enhance his confidence. We expected no mistakes. For the fourth time, he took 52 exams. However, he is still not confident enough: According to this ranking, how many provinces are listed? Can you really qualify for a prestigious university? He bluntly expressed his concern.
When the heat hits the iron, it is time for us to say, "My son, there is a miracle with confidence! You recall, in such a short period of time, you have overcome the leg injury, and endured the grief of losing grandfather, and marched 130. Name, isn't this a miracle? If you continue to stick to it, you can definitely move forward. How can you not take the reason of a famous university!"
In this way, until the moment the son moves toward the examination room, we encourage the son to be “cool, calm, full of confidence, and we believe in you!” We believe in the son, we are well-founded, based on the confidence we always give him. Confident, what miracles will appear. The miracle really happened. In the 2008 college entrance examination, he took 620 points and 31 years in the middle of the year. He was admitted to the China University of Aeronautics and Astronautics, Beijing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics, and he achieved his dream of life.