Appreciation of candidates in different states

Appreciation of candidates in different states

First, anxious and nervous children are sensitive and inferior, and are easily interfered by the external environment. In addition, there are certain deficiencies in the mastery of knowledge. For them, the primary stage is to make up for the knowledge loopholes through the help of teachers. At the same time, we must pay attention to the relaxed atmosphere of the family--do not ask more about the learning situation, do not deliberately emphasize the words do not matter; when the meal is a joke, talk about short parents or social news, if you can open the TV while eating, listen to eat, Appropriate comments; chat during the meal, ask the class what is funny, take the child out for a walk; when the child walks together, you can pat his head, rub his shoulder, give him some positive and easy hints .
A few days before the exam, you must not make new papers, but look at the papers and books you have done. Because there are likely to be new topics in the new papers, this will bring more anxiety to their fragile psychology. The test papers that have been done can enhance confidence. Don't worry about missing new questions. In fact, the types of questions are ever-changing, but the knowledge points and problem-solving methods are often the same. It’s good to know the new ones.
Have a cup of hot milk before going to bed at night.
Second, pride from the large-scale children such as smart, confident, and victorious; but often easy to careless, the test will always lose the points; the last moment likes to do the topic, ignoring the knowledge of the book; and the parents can’t listen . For them to return to the book in the final time, pay attention to the details. It can be used in a certain form to stimulate his enthusiasm and encourage him to actively check for vacancies. The following are the two cases I have tried, the effect is good, for reference only.
1. Stimulating the son of the law, today, together with our unit, I talked about the child's learning situation. I said that you are sure to get the first few questions. He didn't believe it and made me angry. What reason did I ask him? He said that you are careless, and the basic skills are not solid. If the problem is difficult, you are very powerful, but if the topic is simple, you must not test a certain... Oh, what effect will you try?
2, experts say to find other people posing as experts, analyze the test paper for the child, and then propose improvements for his shortcomings.
Third, the energy transfer type Due to the monotonous tension of learning, and the excessive use of the previous time, a few students appeared relaxed at the last moment, and energy began to shift. The most common of these is that the last moment has the appearance of early love; this can be handled with care. Pay attention to the following points during the process:
1. Indicate your attitude and don't blame.
First of all, it can be understood that it is completely normal. You can also talk about jokes, such as what you were in the past.
2. The key to analyzing the pros and cons is that this time is too inappropriate. Analyze, what if you continue? The decline in grades, not a good school, love may not be. Or if you didn't test, the other party was admitted, even if others don't dislike themselves, they will feel inferior after a long time. Or neither of them have been tested, continue to love, and even if they come together, the quality of life may not be as good as a better school. for example……
3, cold treatment suggests that the passion of first love can not be ignored, not to mention the children in this period of rebellious mentality is very strong. A better treatment suggestion is: cold treatment. It’s easier to make jokes: I think this kid is good, if there is such a wife in the future, it’s really good. But if you can't get into college, this love doesn't last long. On the other hand, if you are admitted, you can pursue love in a bright and honest way. If you are afraid of losing this feeling because you study hard, it means that it does not belong to you, it is not worth your price.
Many students will have the right choice after such analysis, but there are also children who are difficult to deal with. There was a male student who had a very good grade. When he was asked to help a girl, the two had feelings and their performance plummeted. Parents are anxious, teachers criticize education, and how to persuade is useless. I told him the story of his youth:
Once a beautiful boy gave me a note in the third year of high school, showing love. Also sent a photo. I was very excited at the time because he was the object that many girls liked. I was upset all day, I couldn’t listen to anything in class, and I didn’t feel at ease at night. Finally, I want to collect photos. Where? What if the pencil case is not safe and is turned over by someone else? The drawer was not safe and was seen by my sister. Unsafe under the bed, my mother may get a quilt. Tossing in the middle of the night, the photo was returned to him in the envelope the next day, and a few words were written, "It’s hard to say." I was so saddened by the back of his cheerfully whistling away. Secretly vowed in my heart, "When I go to college, no matter what he is, I must take the initiative to pursue him, love him, ask for his forgiveness and love." After a few days, this matter will be light. Later I went to college, he didn't. So many outstanding young people in front of me can choose, think of him, and forget the vows.
After listening to it, he didn't talk for a long time. Later, the teacher, I know.

Now he is a junior in Xi'an Jiaotong University.
4, early prevention of the last minute of learning makes people feel very monotonous, emotional things are very easy to happen, parents and teachers must pay attention to adjustment, prevent in advance. For example, have time to take your children out for a walk, organize simple sports activities, or watch TV properly. Parents can usually take time to go to school to pick up their children. They must reduce the chances of male and female students being alone. For example, go home together, make up classes with each other.