Only warmth and love let us live

If people live in the world, if they are not concerned, they will be like duckweed without roots, free to drift, lonely and helpless.

You said that these years have drifted away and have become accustomed to one's life. You eat alone, sleep alone, stop and go, and even talk to oneself and be alone, it is normal. You think that the heart is like hard ice, it is difficult to melt again. Until that day, I received a phone call from afar and said she was ill. On the brightly lit street, you are in tears with a phone call. She is your weakness.

Everyone has a weakness, and family is the soft underbelly of many people. When you come to this world, you will not be able to thank the distant Creator. The two vocabularies called "Dad" and "Mom" will occupy the mind and body. For you, these two vocabulary are alive. They are the soft arms that touch and hug you. They are afraid that you are hungry and thirsty. It is the careful way to take you to take you. It is to send you to look forward to your return. The eager eyes. They become your source of strength. They are the yardstick for correcting your behavior. They are the bottom line of dignity that cannot be violated at the bottom of the heart. They are the cruel world that warms your strength.

A friend is newly promoted as a mother. In a few months, she wants to see her. She always said, "I am busy, I have a little grindingman, I can’t leave." See you again, she made us really surprised. The scattered hair is in a mess, the sports shorts, and the face of Su Yan is full of thoughts. It is hard to imagine that she was once a delicate woman with high-heeled shoes and no makeup. We laughed and asked, "How do you feel after the upgrade? The image is a big change." She smiled and said, "Don't laugh at me, and one day you will have a deep understanding. A natural transformation." Less than two hours. She hurried away, only because she had children at home, and she was waiting to be fed.

A woman who is used to living alone is more nervous and even afraid of marriage and childbirth. It's hard to imagine a child who would only eat and drink Lazard all day, sleep hard, have no freedom, give up social circles, give up his body, and give up playing. However, one day, most of them will be promoted to motherhood, nature-like, accept this sudden and natural transformation, and grow into a complete woman.

Your sudden arrival has made a woman happy and looking forward to it. Pregnant in October, giving birth. You are out of her, but she is destined to leave you alone. When she was a child, she hoped that you would grow up healthily. When she grew up, she would look forward to your peace and happiness. Your circle is getting wider and wider, and the space left for her is getting narrower. And she is as always, and my heart is filled with you. Some people say that maternal love is a repeated disappointment. Outside the delivery room, the doctor took the crying baby. The husband and mother-in-law followed the child. Only she was waiting to ask the doctor. How is my child? Can everything be well? Only she, at this moment, is full of thoughts about your thoughtfulness. And you are exhausted, lying in the hospital bed, full of joy is the child's safe birth. In 1931, the 71-year-old grandmother Moses rushed to Bennington to take care of her daughter, Anna, who died of tuberculosis. After Anna’s unfortunate death, even though she had reached the age she needed to be taken care of, she still stayed to take care of her grandson. The daughter's love was transferred to her daughter's child.

A friend said that when the little life came, she didn’t sleep well for almost a night. It will not be until four or five months later that he can accompany him to sleep occasionally. When he was asleep, his body went to sleep and kicked you. You still didn't dare to move. When he was afraid of moving, he woke him up. I haven't been willing to let him touch it, even the mosquito prints are rare, but that day, he actually let him fall off the sofa, scared you to trembling, fortunately. Six months later, my mother-in-law brought him back to her hometown. Now, on the weekend, she will run back and forth. It’s not tired or fake, but you willingly. When his heartbreaking cry is finally taking a break, you are insomnia, you only want him to be good forever. It is not easy to raise children. Nowadays, I am more and more grateful to my parents. Instinctively, my love has been given to my children.

The world is so cruel, only warmth and love let us live. You finally grow up, face the world independently, and taste life is not easy. You have been wronged, suffered setbacks, experienced failures, hated this era, spit the city, and thought of giving up. But when you think of the ones who love you, think of the responsibilities and strengths they have because of you, you have regained power. Children who have bathed in love and warmth will not be too desperate. One day, they will eventually be fathers and mothers, and this love and warmth will be passed down from generation to generation.