You are really trying to do everything, or you can fight too little.

I heard too many people say, "I have tried everything...", and if I don't say whether this is an exaggeration, even if it is, then when I was touched by myself, have you ever thought about it? Is it enough?

In my opinion, most people say this sentence, just to comfort themselves, so as not to blame themselves. Everyone forgets when they are self-pity. It is more important to fight for everything.

My neighbor Wang Xiaojun has lost many battles in love, and he has suffered many battles. He can be painful. He asked me: "Sister, I have given everything for them. What can I do? The girls are not normal now." "I saw him face a bitter look, thought, got it, girls are really not with you, it is not normal."

As a person who has graduated for several years, Wang Xiaojun still eats and lives in his parents' home, playing games in the main business, sleeping in the sideline. My country’s watchman is a cement worker. He can earn more than one hundred yuan a day. He is good, and he has to ask his parents for a fare when they go out to take a taxi.

However, in order to like the girl, he is really willing to pay. He can do nothing all day, wait for girls to go to work at the door of girls' units; can queue for hours, help girls buy favorite sugar cakes; can spend only a dozen dollars in their pockets, give The girl bought a flower to please her.

When the girls left, he was always very painful and very wronged. He didn't understand. He paid everything and "worked hard". Why can't the girls like it?

I saw a sentence on the Internet, "Those who said that I can pay for everything for you, there is often nothing to pay." At that time, I thought of Wang Xiaojun, but I felt too mean...

But it makes a lot of sense!

You keep saying that you can do everything for your parents, but your parents are sick, you can't even get the money to buy medicine; you say you have to repay your grandmother all day long. When you need it, your body is weak. I can't do it even if she goes up and down the stairs; you have to put a knife on the buds who are daring, but when he gets lost, you can't get any idea; you want to be with someone who likes it. But you don't even have the ability to love... You are a poor person, a person who depends on others' lives, and what do you say "work hard"? You have no strength at all!

My good friend Xu quietly, well-known lazy woman, she fell in love with a handsome man in the department, and called him a male god. She broadcasts the latest news of the male god in the dormitory every day: "The male god went to the city A to participate in the competition." "The male god actually likes the brand of shoes." "The male god is good taste, ah, ah, it is me." People on the top!"

After a while, she ran with frustration and told us: "I use all my strength to love the goddess, but the male god has a girlfriend."

We were laughed at by her exaggerated expression - got it, Xu quietly, you have a favorite person, still eating a lot of junk food, watching a lot of cross-over drama, weekend face wash . When you are in the only public class time with the male god, you still want to skip class when you are absent from class. You are too joking.

Xu quietly protested: But I miss him all the time!

Yeah, you know that you are just thinking about him, where are you working hard! Are you really sure that you can make society progress by thinking alone?

I often see a talented player in the talent show. It’s obvious that the amateur is practicing the sound of the mobile phone, but she tears her eyes on the stage and says that she has done everything in the process of chasing her dreams. “I have a dream. ".

It’s not that you have to be able to get it if you think you are working hard, and you don’t think it’s worth the wrongs if you don’t think you’re working hard. Who has no dreams, I still dream of becoming an international superstar every day. I even spent a lot of time discussing that Leonardo finally got an Oscar, but is it useful?

A person who does not waste his time will step forward step by step for his own talents. He will formulate plans according to his own pursuits and implement them in a down-to-earth manner. In this process, he will be full and powerful, and then in his own dreams. In front of you, do your best to do your best, this is called to do your best.

Instead of being lazy and lazy every day, the body and the brain are equally lazy. Suddenly, with the goal you want to achieve or the problem you want to solve, you will spend a lot of energy on it for a while - this is all done, of course, in vain.

Don't frown and think that you are doing your best. First, let yourself be enriched and enriched, and then talk about the possibility of "doing everything"!