What kind of people are not gregarious

What kind of experience is it that is not gregarious? Just like a lily flower growing in a rose flower, it is like a group of white people mixed with a black man.

My disunity, from childhood, is very obvious. When people around me are still watching cartoons, I have already started reading Sanmao, Xu Zhimo, and Zhang Ailing. I didn't like to watch cartoons, but I knew the importance of reading at that time. But premature emotional reading has made me a sentimental, sensitive and suspicious person. For example, during the Games, the students jumped together with a long rope, but I couldn’t speak for an unexpected fall. I am too sensitive, so I don't like people because there is more friction in the crowd, but I don't like the friction.

Because of this, I rarely attend birthday parties, class reunions, I can push and push, over time, I was labeled as high, indifferent, so I am not very good at communication, and not very good at expressing my heart.

These high and indifferent labels have created a certain distance between me and everyone, but also because these distances give me more time to do what I like to do. I like to read books, so I can use other people's tea parties, shopping time to read the text I like, and because they are not gregarious, so I don't have to worry about whether my dress will be slightly different from others.

Perhaps because you are no longer gregarious, you don't have to pay attention to other people's opinions and visions. You don't have to care about other people's malicious evaluation and slander. What I am doing is based on morality and legal provisions, does not touch people's moral values, does not violate the provisions of the law, and my disunity does not mean that I am a person who can only do bad things. I am willing to correct, the mistakes I made, and then, make myself better. Because they are not gregarious, they do not represent heterogeneous, they are not gregarious, and they are not so-called three views and distortions.

What is it that is not gregarious? My understanding is probably like this. Not gregarious is another practice. Where did I come from? Most of the people who are not around me are elites from all walks of life. They are dressed in fashion, calm and cautious. They have different wisdom and courage than ordinary people. They shine in their fields. These unsocial people, It is called a good person. They have different visions and insights from others, and it is these differences that make them stand out among the mediocre people and become the best in their respective fields.

So I just want to tell you that not gregarious doesn't mean it's a different kind of class. It doesn't mean that you are not good. In fact, being unsocial is sometimes another kind of excellence.

When you have unique insights and opinions, when you have amazing talents, don't be afraid of other people's eyes. Don't be afraid of other people's misunderstandings, go after your own heart, don't be blinded by the world, interfere with your eyes. In your direction, you have to be brave and chase your own heart.

Sometimes your heart will tell you where to go, where is the most correct direction, so let go of those concerns and worries, go ahead, there will be more beautiful scenery waiting for you!

Finally, I want to tell the children who are trying to make a good, change, and change because they are not gregarious. How many grievances and sadness you have suffered in this process, I can understand and understand. However, don't let yourself be unhappy, unhappy, and listen to your heart because of all kinds of things. It will tell you the right direction. Believe it, you are not bad. Because really good people are mostly unsocial!