Girl, why don’t you stand up and struggle

At the university, we can often see fashionable and gorgeous female college students. They are very beautiful and attractive. I often see many girls go to karaoke, shopping, and crazy play; I often see a lot. Couples gather lovers to talk and laugh. This looks like a beautiful scene is really enviable, but I don't want them to happen to me, especially because I am a girl. Why emphasize this? Because what I see in the study room or library is more of a struggling boy.

When you are young, you should have a strong vision and perseverance. I saw people around me falling in love, seeing who went to KTV, and seeing who stayed in the dormitory for a few days online. So, you can't hold your breath, you doubt what it is for now, why others are comfortable and comfortable every day, and I have to be lonely and constantly struggle. Especially when you are still a girl?

The mother said that the happiest life of a woman is a life of rising life. The most tragic women I have ever lived in are those who were young and held in the palm of their hand. They failed to marry a good husband. After the youth passed away, the age went up, and they did not work hard at the golden age. After that, life will go all the way down, losing the biggest and only capital, but in the end of his life, he can no longer adapt to the situation and life that is not in the hands of everyone. In his 40s, he sold vegetables in the market, fluffy hair and dark yellow skin, burying his head in bargaining, and even never noticed that acquaintances passed by. What about youthful beauty? This woman is the worst woman I have ever seen.

Girls in their early twenties are undoubtedly the most beautiful and beautiful years. But most of the girls at this time are not clear about their own lives. We don't know what we want, what we are pursuing, how can we get happiness. Indeed, if you spend the most beautiful time in love, comfortable and comfortable every day, it will be one of the most beautiful memories, but after the good?

Beside you, the boy who is in his twenties and has nothing to do with childishness. If he chooses to struggle, then in time, your horizons will slowly separate. When the heat of love fades, he repeatedly shows good to mature female colleagues. Don’t marry him without conscience and enjoy your best years. After that, after not giving you happiness, after all, life is not maintained with moral condemnation and conscience.

If he chooses to play with you, then when people go to middle age, when you look back at life and compare with people at different levels, you should regret that you have dragged your lover, or you are listening to Shakespeare’s “true love makes people When you are up, you are wondering if there is true love between you? Then please don’t ask the husband’s brain to be incompetent when he is in financial difficulties. You have to know that you have at least half of the credit for this status quo.

Girls, whenever you have, have your own goals and efforts, do not take youth gamble tomorrow.

I have seen many girls, who have a lot of goals and pursuits before they fall in love, talk and behave in a generous atmosphere, and do not want to have all kinds of abilities. After I fell in love, I only saw a little girl who was also behind the boys. The three words were her boyfriend, and the whole life would be around him in advance. Maybe you will say that women should show weakness and be too strong, and boys will stay away from it. What I want to refute is that the premise of showing weakness is that you are strong, rather than relying more and more on frogs in the greenhouse of love. You are not a bird in the golden cage. When you are about to fly, you find that you are not adapted to the cruel world outside. Moreover, if a girl has a goal and a dream is called strong, then I want to say that such a boy is too weak, he wants to use the weakness of the girl to maintain his weak self-esteem.

In today's society, the status of women is still not very high, and there are few female politicians, especially in the state-level administrative leadership; in the work, women do very few executives. Why? Is society's prejudice against women? Not necessarily all. First of all, many girls themselves think that they should not be too hard, and doing big things is a matter for boys. They are bound by social prejudice, why can't they make a little change? Why are boys fighting and girls not? I want to say to the girls who are struggling: Don't doubt what the current efforts are for, don't envy those People who live comfortably and comfortably every day remember that they are willing to be lonely and keep fighting!