When you fail, please catch the rope that failed.

A person's mentality must be kept young, and will never be defeated. He is the most powerful enemy facing failure. He must not be afraid of failure and dare to meet the challenge. Psychological weakness can lead you to failure to meet even failures, so you can't face life.

Failure is like a rope, it can be an assistant for people to continue climbing, and it can also be a tool for self-confidence. By catching the rope of failure, you can fail.

In the course of his life, in the face of the rope of failure, some people regard it as a helper to inherit the higher and steeper peaks, but some people regard it as the end of the road to the world.

The intelligent and intelligent people think that failure is the mother of success. In the face of failure and frustration, they see desire, not discouragement, no sorrow, and heroic progress toward future success; however, weak and clumsy people are experiencing setbacks and When I was poor, I couldn’t see my hope, I couldn’t find my future, I felt that I could not retreat, so I didn’t want to live.

God gives us the gift of life, let us live naturally, natural aging, the death of the work, the whole process of perfect life, rather than self-destruction, shorten life.

Life itself is a process. Success and failure are just a few small pieces in the life process. If life is combined with victory or failure, life will lose its meaning.

Life is like visiting the scenic spot to this attraction. No matter the scenery is good, you have to go to the next attraction. It is impossible to stop here.

The road to life is long and long, and short and short. Occasional misfortune or frustration can only prove that a certain aspect of the deficiencies or insufficiently done at a certain time, can not prove that the whole process can not be done.

People who don't want to live think that it is much harder to find a reason to live than to find a reason for death. Therefore, there is only a motive for death, and there is no reason to live, so they choose to die. Those who believe that they live meaningfully have only living reasons, no thoughts of death, can see the value of living, and find a way out of life, so no matter how they fail, they cannot fight.

A person regards failure as a reason to stop life. What can be proved in addition to proving his weakness and ignorance? A person who dies or does not die is actually unrelated to failure. It is an expression of ignorance to die because of failure or frustration.

God has given life to people. When you come to this world, you should live well and live out meaning and live out value. If you want to live well and live worthwhile, you should find a reason to live for yourself, choose an absolutely better path, dare to answer all kinds of provocations, and be good at picking up the ropes of failure to continue climbing until you can reach the height. Even if it is a slap in the face, it is also very interesting.

Everyone is eager for success. But failure, failure is the mother of success. This is a cliché. However, there are probably few people who may have to accept the failure.

I also had many years ago, it is difficult to resolve the failure. That time I encountered an unexpected defeat, and the belief that the multi-year barrier was built and the complacency hit, and if there is a bottom of life, I will deny it, that time. One day, I received an email from a student at my class at the time. One of the words was like this: "You are the best teacher in our minds, and we want to inform you that you are not Almighty, you don't have to do everything, you can fail, you are just an ordinary person."

You can fail.

Such a good sentence, the road to break the sky, each of us, but only an ordinary person, no one has super powers, can avoid failure, all the way to success. Since failure is a must for people to live on the road, then accepting is the best gesture.

How to accept? The first thing to understand is why we are afraid of failure. Because it is painful, it is no doubt, but in fact, in the face of failure, the most painful thing is not failure itself, but the sense of helplessness, self-blame, and The suspicion that started to happen. In other words, the blow to failure is the origin of pain. To accept failure, we must start from the cultivation of the heart. Be aware that you are just an ordinary person and have the natural right to fail. Unable to let go of extra self-respect and pride will only make you fall into the mud of helplessness and self-blame, thus missing the opportunity to make yourself grow up by mistakes.

Failure is actually an opportunity. It strikes us and makes us fall from the heights of Pingchuan or the abyss, but at the same time, it allows us to review the mistakes we made on the road of marching with a humble position by virtue of this low status. The lack of ability. The more modest, the more things you see.

After receiving the failure, it is time to fight back against the failure. Learn from the failures, reflect on my own deficiencies, and then promote your own battle power, talent, and re-enter in a more perfect posture, return all the goods that failed to you, and the sense of satisfaction and achievement brought by the Jedi counterattack, It is too attractive.

One of my teachers told me a case in which a student is self-confident, hobbies in class, and never do homework after class, but the results have always been good. In a major test, the student actually failed. For this student who has always been proud of himself, this is undoubtedly a heavy blow, and he has fallen into an inextricable position. For a long time, he has no choice but to slow down. Fortunately, with the guidance of the teacher and the classmates, I finally got out of the state of depression, and started to work hard, and the learning achievements are also leaps and bounds. There are not a few excellent students who have grown up like this. They have experienced failures, accepted failures, and have grasped the deficiencies of their own consciousness and the opportunity to improve themselves. For them, failure is a good time. Evolution.

In the past, because of the student’s words, I said to myself from the bottom of the valley that after suffering this hardship, the current approach is not enough to be afraid of any problems. It is a person who has the power to fail, accepts failure with an ordinary heart, and walks out from failure. It is often more combative and more likely to succeed.

Inadvertently, the storm suddenly hit;

Without paying attention, the flowers are dying;

When not alert, the opponent won the championship;

In the face of all the unsatisfactory life in the life, what should we do? Simply sadness and suffering will never find a way to solve the problem. In fact, difficulties and setbacks are not really impossible to solve, but we have trapped ourselves and are trapped in our own hearts. Most people fail because they cannot overcome themselves and cannot overcome the fragility of their hearts. Often the small hardships and unsatisfactory enlargement, the results put a heavy embarrassment on their lives, or discouraged, or lingering, or fear of disappearing, or uncertain. Adhere to such a living mentality, even if it is to meet small problems and disappointment, it can only be fled. Think about it from another angle, it is a bit optimistic, one point is faint, one point is chic, cherish the original possession, re-examine life, adjust good manners, boldly rush out of the dark envelope, you will face another beautiful landscape!

Mentality determines life. It can be said that the pain and happiness of life, failure and success, anxiety and joy are all determined by our mentality. In the eyes of pain, failure, and worry, adjust your mindset in time so that you can turn your life into happiness, success, and happiness.

In the vast sea of ​​people, it is not easy to be a gentleman who can be discerned at a glance. It is even more difficult to be a normal person who sticks to his own way and is not tired of affirming his reputation. The mindset determines the life of Tao Yuanming from the world's mercenary is the picture, sad sentences, lived in the "Taoyuan" life of "leisure to see Nanshan", life is such a smooth and happy; Li Bai cursed the knees in the power of the powerful, issued "an energy to destroy the eyebrows I am not happy, the rhetoric of life, life is so romantic and unrestrained... The care of the possession, the mediocrity, the lack of luxury, seemingly simple, it is very difficult. It is not wise to be indifferent, not quiet or even far away. Only the "heart is like water" and "clearness and desire", the ability to hold the life of Eden, to create a great cause. The concept of human life depends not only on the amount of materials, but also on the moisture of the soul and the arrangement of the soul. Treating everything in a normal state of mind, treating everything in the world with a calming eye, can only live a life of openness, live a transcendental.

The mindset determines life, remember one sentence: the hand of parting pain, failure and sorrow can only be waved by yourself! With the rope of failure, continue to climb forward, success will be beckoning you not far away.