Start to be a confident woman

"Magic mirror, magic mirror, please tell me who is the most beautiful woman in the world?"

"You are a short, fat, aging woman, certainly not you, so go off!"

Admit it, you must have asked the same question in front of the mirror like other women. Of course, the answer given by the mirror in the delusion is exactly the same.

Have you ever thought of giving yourself a final gift that will make you believe that no matter how old you are, how you are, or whether you have a background, are you a beautiful woman and present this in front of the world?

There is no more perfect time in life to learn to appreciate yourself. Do you want to be a truly extraordinary woman and be your own queen? What are you waiting for? Let us start on the road to becoming a queen from now on!

One: give up

Give up ideas and behaviors that are no longer viable in your previous life.

This is a simple but rather deceptive issue. Let us make up our minds and, from now on, give up the fear of being deeply loved by others. Say this out loud, you will find a fact that you have always been loved by people around you. You will also find that even if someone really doesn't see how good you are, it's just his personal opinion and won't affect your popularity. You will no longer force yourself to wear high heels that will make you cramp and cramps all day long for the image in the eyes of others. Life is so short, don't waste it in places that are not worth it.

Two: keep

What do you really like about yourself? Find out your strengths and keep going where you have worked in your previous life.

Maybe this is a very difficult problem for you, because many people may have told you that good girls should be modest and cautious, and should not pay too much attention to themselves. However, if you feel embarrassed even if you admit that you have something to be appreciated, it is too sad.

Three: Admit your beauty and strength

End the magical rule of the mirror.

In the past, when we looked at ourselves in the mirror, we often noticed only our own flaws. Remember that in the story of "Snow White", when the queen learned through the mirror that she was not the most beautiful woman in the world, what happened? It was simply falling into the sky. You have to believe that each of us is a unique piece of art – it is perfect in itself. Please look at the person in the mirror and make direct eye contact with her and tell her: "You are a beautiful, brave, valuable and perfect existence, so you are the Queen!" In the beginning, This approach may seem a bit weird, maybe you can't help but laugh, but if you can insist on speaking to yourself every time you go through a mirror, slowly, you will find that what you said has become a reality. You will never hear the harsh words that the stupid mirror said to you.

Four: pay attention to your language

What you say to yourself and what you say about yourself is very important.

When you did something wrong, did you hear a voice inside you saying, "You stupid, what are you thinking about?" Certainly. And maybe the "stupid" is better than the adjectives you use. The problem is, if you can't even be tolerated by a stranger, how can you endure the inner voice that you can't agree with? The following method may help you to get rid of your self-esteem. Self-criticism habits:

Set the timer and tell the heart that it always denies your voice. It has ten minutes to degrade you. Then wait for the ten minutes to pass. In the beginning, you may hear some very hurtful insults, but after a few minutes, it can't say anything new. When the timer sounds, a new rule is set for the negative voice: "From now on, if you can't say something good, then don't say anything, shut up! The Queen spoke!" In the middle, you will hear the sounds you have never heard before in your heart. That is the voice of self-affirmation. It allows you to regain the courage to sing, dance, and play. The voice that originally guided us was overwhelmed by the voices of negation, shame, desire, and fear. From now on, you can name this reappearing sound "Queen of the Queen." Please take this step boldly.

Five: build and nourish your friendship

No matter how many challenges and joys you will face in your life, let your friends around you share this with you.

Every woman needs at least one friend to be around her and observe her life. This way she can ask her friends from time to time: "How am I going?" You will get the most honest answer from your true friends. This friend never expects to get anything from you, they just hope that you can live happily ever after.

Six: Ceremony

At every milestone in our lives, there are rituals - our birthdays, graduation, marriage, and death. But there seems to be no clear ritual in the growth of women, telling us that we have entered another moment of life. Now let's work together to correct this.

To be a true queen, start with a party! For this party, no matter what the way is, it doesn't matter. This is your party, you have the right to arrange according to your preferences - German sausages with beer, or caviar with champagne. It’s up to you to decide.

However, there are three things you must do:

You must stand in front of the crowd and tell them in the loudest voice. From now on, you are the queen of your own life;

You have to say these words in front of your most trusted friends, and give them the opportunity to do so;

Have a happy meal.

Ok, the last point is not necessary, but if the Queen’s coronation is less than a cake, will it be a little less fun?