Listen to the choice of the soul

How many choices do you have to make in your life, and how many regrets you have for your choice? Please listen to the choice of the soul. If you choose, don't hesitate, let alone regret it.

I have had such a confusion: When reason and emotion tend to have two opposite choices, how do you choose? If you choose reason, you may be able to live a better life, but it is difficult to get happiness from it; if you choose emotions, you may live harder, but you will get more happiness.

I am a timid person, and I will carefully choose the path of reason for fear of making the wrong choice to influence the future life. Even if I know that I will be unhappy, I know that I will regret it and force myself to continue. I can't bear the risk of self-willedness, so I can only choose the safest road, and then tell myself: as long as you pass this level, you can take less pressure and live a relaxed life. However, after another pass, I reached the original goal, but did not imagine the ease, but felt that life is even more sad.

When choosing a university major, many people suggested that I choose a popular major, or consider a teacher, a foreign language, etc. that is suitable for girls. But I know that my level is average, it is difficult to stand out in the popular profession, language skills and foreign language talent are not enough, it is difficult to beat others in the teacher and foreign language majors. Finally, I chose a relatively unpopular liberal arts major - the Department of Journalism. For four years in college, I have had easier time than other professional students. I have less practice and less practice. I don’t require individualism in teamwork. It is very suitable for me.

However, when I walked out of the school with a diploma, I suddenly didn't know where the future was going. The domestic news industry is highly competitive. I don’t have news units for this level of graduates, and I don’t think I am suitable for the news industry. At that moment, I regret it. If I chose another profession that is easier to find, then do I still need to worry so much now? But what I should blame is the one I have always had and I have not grasped the time to improve my competitiveness. What is the point of regretting now? Since things have reached this point, I can only find my direction as soon as possible, a goal that I can go all out without regret.

In the end, I did not ask relatives and friends to pull into a news unit, but chose a profession that I didn't match, but I liked it. When I made this choice, I asked myself very seriously what I wanted. The next second I got the answer from my heart. Although my current salary is not high, but I enjoy the present life very much, I don't care if other students are higher than me, whether they have a car or a house, and don't care about the gossip of relatives and friends, just want to live like this. Your own simple life no longer regrets the choice of the past.

I used to see a lot of inspirational articles like listening to the choice of the mind. At that time, I thought it was empty talk. Even if I follow the choice of the soul, I will still succumb to reality and make all kinds of helpless choices. Nowadays, I can understand the meaning of this sentence. The so-called listening to the soul is not arbitrary, reckless, but planning and making choices about my future after fully understanding my true thoughts.