Life's dreams and passions

Recently, a consultant came to me. She said this at the beginning: I am 32 years old, a mother of a four-year-old girl, and graduated from a key university in 1999. Now I work with a husband in a large group company in Shanghai. He is doing technical management work. I am doing product development work. If everyone maintains the status quo, according to the current industry situation, it should be a life of a well-off level. When the house price is not expensive, I bought a house. The pressure on mortgage repayment is not very big. Now the house is already expensive, there are private cars, and there is no loan. Immediately my own patent will come out. It is estimated that the next promotion is No problem. So many people still envy me, but why am I still confused? Yes, there are cars in the house, promotion, why bother?

What she said later is the original: Yes, choosing your course is precisely because of my contradiction. Maybe it’s a sad thing that people have not had a fixed goal. Perhaps, the current work status is continued. Going on is a wise choice, I am really confused. But I can really feel that there is still a passion in my heart. Although this passion does not seem to be strong in the past few years, I am afraid that one day I really have no idea, I am asking for advice. professional! Passion, in some people's eyes, seems to be a less fashionable word, but it still affects our lives and reflects the value and happiness of our lives.

There is such a story: a pair of brothers travel back home, they carry a large bag of luggage. Their family lived on the 80th floor and came back and found that the building was out of power. So they climbed the stairs together. On the 20th floor, my brother told the younger brother that the bag was too heavy. We put it on the 20th floor. We climbed up and took it down tomorrow. The younger brother said: OK. So they put their bags on the 20th floor and continued to climb. On the forty floor, the younger brother began to complain, so he quarreled with his brother. They climbed and argued to climb to the 60th floor. My brother said to his brother: There are only 20 floors left. We should not quarrel, and climb it silently! So they went to each other and finally arrived at the door. My brother put on a very handsome posture and said: The younger brother opened the door. The younger brother said to his brother: Don't make trouble, the key is not with you. It turned out that they left the keys in the bag on the 20th floor.

The dream is the story of happiness. This story actually reflects our life. Many people lived under the expectation of family and teachers before the age of twenty, and they were under a lot of pressure; after leaving the age of 20, they began to rush and work hard; but after working for twenty years, I found that my work was unsatisfactory...

So I began to complain about the boss, complain about the company, complain about the society, and complain about the government. I have spent another twenty years in this complaint.

So I told myself that at the age of sixty, there was nothing to complain about, and I silently finished my old age. On the eve of the death of 80, I remembered that I had not done anything yet - it turned out that his 20-year-old dream had not yet been completed.

Therefore, I hope that you are now full of ideals, full of passion to do what you want to do, to realize your dreams. Life is only a few decades. Especially after experiencing so many encounters, it should be able to understand, dreams are happiness.

An undergraduate student who was graduating from a medical profession once asked me: I have studied medicine for five years, but I hate being a doctor. I like sales. What should I do? Did you give up the five-year major? Is this loss too big? I said to her: If you lose your life-long opportunity to work for a five-year loss, which loss is greater? If the choice of the past five years is involuntary, then the opportunity to re-select now comes, and the decision is in your hands. What should you do to be responsible for life? Don't lose your life's happiness for five years of misfortune!

The dream is the realization of value. Bernice Siegel once said this: I think that whether you win the grand prize or you know that you are about to tell others, you will do the same thing in the next 12 months, so that you It is a life that truly belongs to you. At this moment, you live meaningfully.

There is a pharmacy owner. When he was a child, his father went to Huangquan because he couldn’t get medicine. He vowed to open a pharmacy that was good and good. After becoming a boss, he did not change his original intentions, and he was not bullied, rich and poor. He is also self-taught, and he is dedicated to those who don't have money to see a doctor. Some pharmacists have seen this in their heads: a deceitful family is a party, and it is not a loss to blame! However, his business has become increasingly popular, overshadowing all those who are more cost-effective and smarter than him. Many things in the world are like this. When you deliberately chase, it flutters like a butterfly; when you go to the surface of the dust, for the sake of society, for others, when you concentrate on one thing, the unexpected gain I have been quietly greeting you.

Dreams are the source of motivation. If you are doing something that you are really interested in, or if you are planning to know that you are currently working hard to prepare for what you are really interested in in the future, to achieve greater success and happiness, and to fulfill your innermost desires. Everyone is full of passion for work. As the following story shows:

Three workers are building a wall. Someone came over and asked: What are you doing? The first person said with no anger: Didn't see it? Wall. The second person smiled and said: We are building a tall building. The third person is screaming at the song while he is doing it. His smile is very bright and happy: we are building a new city. Ten years later, the first person built a wall on another construction site; the second person sat in the office to draw drawings, he became an engineer; the third person was the boss of the first two.

Of course, the result of the boss is not important, nor is it that everyone must be the boss, but at least those who have a clear goal are hard and happy. Because he is building a wall, but his goal and vision is a new city - this is his real source of motivation.

What is your dream, where is your goal? Still not clear? It doesn't matter, as long as you start planning right away, it's not too late...