Method of determining the goal

The goal is the starting point for our success and the measure of success. So how do you set a goal?

Find a place that you feel particularly comfortable, temporarily get out of your usual business, turn off the phone, and be as free from outside interference as possible. Take out the pen and paper and prepare to spend an hour researching what you want to do, enjoy, and create. This will be the most valuable hour of your life. You will learn how to set goals in this hour. You will outline the path of life you want. You will know where you are going and find where to get there. way.

The key issue in setting goals is not to impose any restrictions on your imagination! Don't worry about it, you just need to relax your body and spirit, ask what is most desired in your heart, and tell it bravely. This may be suppressed in your daily life for a long time. Extravagant things. It is somewhat difficult to do this. People's psychology has a self-protection mechanism that "can't get it" simply won't think about it, so as not to be hurt, and think "thinking and thinking." But if you break through this limitation and put what you really want in your heart as your goal, you will find that your heart, your brain, and even every cell in your body will be active in the process of trying to achieve it. Get up, it will inspire all your potential and make achievements that surprise you.

The core conditions of an effective goal are summarized in two: one is quantification and the other is time limit.

Quantization refers to the digitization of the number, that is, if a certain target can be described by numbers, it is necessary to write an accurate number. For example, the income situation you want to achieve in three can be quantified as specific figures such as 1.5 million yuan, 1 million yuan, and 500,000 yuan. The second refers to the morphological index, that is, if the determined target cannot be directly described by a certain number, it must be further decomposed, and its performance form is fully supplemented by the digital indicator. If you want to buy a set of houses, you should specify: how large, several rooms, several prices, specific location, housing orientation, surrounding environmental requirements.

The time limit refers to the goal you have determined. There must be a clear deadline, which can be specific to a certain month. A goal without a time limit is not a valid goal. You may find an excuse for procrastination for yourself, making the day of the goal a reality.

The program to set the goal:

First, list what you dream of, that is, what do you want to have? What do you want What do you want to be?

Now you sit down, take out the paper and the pen, and keep writing, at least 10 to 15 minutes. At this point, you should not consider how to achieve the goal, just write it down, without any restrictions, use abbreviations as much as possible, so that you can quickly move to the next goal. Remember, everything is in your grasp, understanding your goals is the primary condition for achieving your goals.

Everything we experience begins with the creation of our brains!

Therefore, you should create your ideal life in the way you want it most.

Consider your ideal life after your goals are fully realized: Who do you most want to live with? What do you like to do? How does this life begin? Where are you going? What kind of environment do you encounter? How do you feel at the end of such a happy day? Use paper to write down all of this in detail.

The second step is to revisit the list you listed and estimate the time required to reach these goals: 6 months, 1 year, 2 years, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years.

Need to pay attention to the distance of your goal. It has been found that the goals listed in their tables are related to what they want in front of them. Others have found that the realization of their biggest dreams will be far away, and they have envisioned a process of fully realizing their dreams. If all of your goals are short-term, then consider your potential and possibilities in the long run; if your goals are long-term, then you must first take some steps to move you toward this goal. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Understanding the first step is as important as understanding the last step.

The third step is to write down the things that you are most interested in and that will give you the most satisfaction, and then write down the reasons why you must complete these things.

The reason should be written concisely and clearly, telling you why you can definitely do these things, why these things are important to you. If you can find enough reasons, then you can make yourself do anything. The reason we are doing something is a more powerful stimulus than what we are pursuing. Robin’s first capacity development teacher, Jim Lang, often told him: "As long as you have enough reasons, you can do anything!"

The reason is the difference between being interested in doing something and being responsible for accomplishing something. There are many things we want in life, but we are only interested in them once, and we must be fully responsible for everything we want to accomplish. For example, if you want to be a rich man, this is just a goal, and your brain does not get more information from it. If you know why you want to be a rich man, what does it mean to get rich? Then it will make you more motivated and work towards this goal. Why is it more important than doing it, because if you find a good reason, you will find a way to do things!

After listing your main goals in the fourth step, test them to make your goals positive, clear, and harmless to others.

Is your goal described in a positive language? Are they very specific? Do they have clear steps? Describe what you will experience when you reach your goal? What do you see? Also pay attention to whether the goal is in your grasp. Are these goals beneficial to others? If you are not suitable for these conditions in some places, then change your goals to suit these conditions.

The fifth step also needs to list the various necessary conditions that you already have.

When you are organizing a project, you must first know which tools you have. In order to weave your wonderful dreams of the future, you must also know what conditions you have. Therefore, list the things that you have that will be used for you: quality, economic ability, education, time, energy, and so on.

The sixth step is to write down the most complete and skilled use of these conditions in your past to find out the most successful things in your life. Think about the best things you can do in your studies, business, sports, or family relationships. It can be a happy day for you and your children. When writing these few times, describe what you have done and what abilities and techniques you are using to make you successful.

The seventh step is to write out the factors that will prevent you from reaching your goal.

One way to overcome your own manufacturing of these limitations is to accurately understand what these constraints are. A comprehensive analysis to see what will hinder you from achieving your goals, is there no plan? Or is the plan not implemented?

The eighth step refines the goal

In order to achieve the goal of life development, it is necessary to quantify the target decomposition into a specific action plan, so that you know what you should do now, and make the goal have a realistic action basis.

Decomposing the target into a specific action plan, always adopting the "reverse method", that is, determining the conditions of the big target, decomposing the big target into small targets, decomposing from the high level to the lower level, and then based on the time limit. Push back to the present and know what you should do now:

Immediate action ← smaller goals ← small goals ← big goals

The process of decomposing a quantitative target into a specific action plan by "reverse pushing" is the opposite of the process of achieving the goal. The process of decomposing and quantifying big targets is counterclockwise and will be pushed back to the present. The process of achieving the goal is to advance in time, from now to the future.

This process can be done this way.

First, according to the conditions of the overall goal, the overall goal of life is decomposed into several long-term goals of 5 to 10 years, and then according to the conditions for the realization of long-term goals, it is decomposed into several medium-term goals of 2 to 3 years, and then continue Decomposed into a number of short-term goals of 6 months to 1 year, and then each short-term goal is decomposed into monthly targets, the monthly target is quantitatively decomposed into several weekly targets, and the weekly target becomes several daily targets. Finally, it is sequentially embodied as now. What to do.

No matter what the goal, no matter how big, each goal should be decomposed to what you should do now, so that your current actions are linked to your future wishes and dreams, so that the goal has a realistic basis for action, otherwise, your wishes It can now be concluded that it is unlikely to be achieved.

Third, the management of the target

You set your goals in life, which makes you a big step toward success. The next thing that needs to be done is to manage the goals.

A 1995 US government research report showed that only 12% of companies can truly achieve the desired goals, and the remaining 88% of companies have problems in the pursuit of goals. As for the average person, only about 5% can truly implement their own plans, achieve development expectations and achieve success. This ratio is really scary, why do most companies and individuals fail? Because they lack effective management of the target.

Only 5% of those who can truly implement their own plans, achieve development expectations and achieve success. You need to effectively manage your goals, break down your overall goals into easy-to-remember goals, imagine your goals as a pyramid, the top of the tower is your life goal, your goals and goals. Everything must point to your life goals.

The pyramid consists of five layers, the highest one being the highest and the most core. This layer contains the general goals of your life.

Each of the following layers is a smaller goal to achieve to achieve a larger target.

Do one real thing a day, do a new thing in January, do a big thing in one year, and do something meaningful in your life.

The more specific the target, the better the effect. The ancients, the gentleman, the three provinces every day. Do you often check your goals? On the one hand, we must check whether we have achieved the desired goals, and on the other hand, we must constantly motivate ourselves with our goals.

A study by Harvard University psychologist William James found that an uninspired person can only perform 20% to 30% of his or her abilities, and when he is motivated, his ability can reach 80%. Therefore, even if it is a perfect personality, it is difficult to achieve the goal of creating wealth because of the lack of motivation. Dr. Hill, who founded "Psychological Enrichment", revealed five self-motivated "golden" steps to make money:

You have to determine the number of wealth you want to have in your heart. If it is useless to say "I need a lot, a lot of money" in general terms, you must determine the specific amount of wealth you are eager to get.

Think about it really, what kind of effort and price you are willing to pay in exchange for the money you need, there is no work in the world.

Set the deadline, be sure to earn the money you want before this date. There is no timetable and there will never be a sense of urgency.

Formulate a realistic plan to achieve the ideal, and proceed immediately. You must get used to "action" and not just indulge in "dreams."

Write the above 4 points clearly, you can't rely on memory alone, you must be black and white. It's a good idea to read the contents of the plan aloud twice a day.

People have a tendency to have a feeling of venting once they achieve a goal, no longer work hard, and then enjoy it. Modern society provides a broader space for people's development in all aspects. Therefore, a proactive person should, and should not wait until a goal is achieved, then set a new goal, but should be full of goals in the heart, complete A goal, you know what the next goal is, where to go, not just the first goal.

Constantly setting new goals is a process of challenging ourselves and a process of continuous improvement. Constantly setting new goals is a process of challenging ourselves and a process of continuous improvement. If I was only satisfied with the goal of earning 500,000 yuan, I would not have to make progress on the scale of the elevator company. Therefore, achieving the goal is a gradual, growing process. A person needs to constantly set new goals for himself and constantly improve himself with the encouragement of new goals.

The goal is to be realistic. In terms of the amount of money earned, a person with an average annual income of 50,000 will increase his salary by 50,000 yuan if he sets himself in the new year. With a income of 100,000 yuan, then as a phased goal, this is realistic. If he didn't have any preparations in the early stage, he wanted to earn 1 million yuan in the new year. Then I think he is not talking about goals, but wants to get rich overnight. It is not a question of success, but he wants to With luck, such as buying lottery tickets. This possibility is too small, too small, it will kill people.

Therefore, my experience is that the goals set by people generally have a long-term goal, that is, there must be an overall and general goal in the heart. This vision is to be achieved in stages. The phased goals must be specific, clear, and operational. People can't expect to become billionaires at once, but when you achieve 10 million goals, hundreds of millions of goals are not fantasy and fantasy. Self-confidence is gradually established on the basis of this continuous realization of the staged goals.

Finally, it is recommended to outline the blueprint for life. The core of it is "I must succeed", and life is constantly moving from success to more brilliant success.

Set goals and write down your life plan every month;

Plan every day, you should make arrangements for the next day every night, and self-check the implementation of the plan for the day;

Persevere, can't be interrupted, even if you are in the bottom of your life or your career is not going well, don't stop.