You can lose to others but you can't lose to yourself.

In the journey to a successful life, there will be thorns and difficulties. When you are on this journey, will you cringe because of difficulties? Will you give up on yourself because of setbacks? Success begins with self-confidence, which is well known, but not everyone can do it. . Question: When the arduous task is in front of you, can you bravely come forward with confidence? After many setbacks, can you still be unshakable about your ultimate goal? When everyone around you If you look down on you and think that you are a "waste" or "incompetent generation", can you still firmly believe that "is natural and useful?"

Shakespeare once said: "If we compare ourselves to the soil, then we must become something trampled by others." Many times, we always can't believe ourselves, always think that others are much stronger than us, one It is right to get things affirmed by others. We envy the talents, luck and achievements of others, and at the same time, we waste ourselves the most.

People can't do everything well, along the way, leaving footprints, can find the way to come. After this incident, Pan Xiaoting thought about it. She believes that it is much more important for people to win themselves than to win others.

In many cases, the biggest obstacle to a person's success is precisely himself. Therefore, you should try to learn to clear the thorns on the way. Selfishness, covetousness, arrogance and rudeness are all obstacles that prevent oneself from moving forward; sorrow, suspicion and fear are their greatest enemies. Therefore, you must always be alert to your own weaknesses, have the courage to conquer yourself, and will conquer all difficulties. If you are not defeated, then you are completely caught in the swamp of failure. At this point, you are not giving someone else, but yourself.

The most powerful enemy in life is yourself. The biggest challenge is to challenge yourself and be confident. Only with self-confidence, can we make it difficult to advance, and we can have the true qualities of a hero who is not shocked and fearless. It is hard to believe that a person who is not even sure about himself can be recognized by others. Only by truly believing in himself can he gain the trust of others and create a miracle in his own career.

At the moment when Ozawa is dancing with magical and dynamic hands, the soul of music is already standing in front of us.

In 1994, the famous conductor Ozawa Seiji returned to his birthplace in Shenyang. He decided to direct the Liaoning Symphony Orchestra to stage the "Dvorak's Ninth Symphony". On the first day, after rehearsing the fourth movement of Allegro, Ozawa’s face suddenly sank, frowning, and whispering to himself, how could this happen? How did the orchestra perform this way? Suddenly, he would bastard heavily After knocking on the music stand, we said that from tomorrow onwards, we will perform personal performance training. This is equivalent to saying that everyone needs to start from basic skills training. This is by no means a master-level conductor.

At this time, the local officials waiting in the drill hall had to discuss with him the arrangements for receiving and banquets. Xiao Ze declined. He said that I have only one purpose here, that is, to give the people of Shenyang a satisfactory symphony. I don't want to see anyone who has nothing to do with the concert. Thereafter, train for 6 hours a day. On the afternoon of the third day, Xiao Ze was too tired. He first commanded on the floor. Later, he simply squatted on the floor and the sweat on his face swayed on the score and the floor. He corrected the first violinist again and again, but it was still difficult to pass.

Looking at the hair that the master was soaked in sweat, the tiredness of his face, the first violinist was very uncomfortable, first tears, sobbing, then crying. "Master, sorry, you choose someone else, I can't."

The people present thought that the master would get angry, but he said very calmly, you are only a little bit. Please come again. When she pulled it again, the master nodded and said, "Thank you, please come again, okay?" In this way, when the first violinist passed the customs, she was already crying.

The master took a breath and took a towel and smiled and said: "You can do it, no one has any reason to discourage..." In addition to talent, Ozawa has more diligence. Japanese composer Wu Manche once lived in Xiaoze apartment for a period of time and witnessed the diligence of the master. He said: "Every day at four o'clock in the morning, the light is on in Ozawa's house. He started reading the score. I really didn't expect him to be So hard work."

It turned out that Ozawa developed the habit of morning reading from his youth and has persisted to this day. "I am one of the earliest people in the world to get up. When the sun rises, I often read a score or book for at least two hours," Ozawa said.

It doesn't matter which kind of person you think you are. What matters is whether you are sure of yourself. How others defeat you is not the point. The point is whether you lose to yourself before others defeat you! Only by always believing in yourself In order to overcome all the weaknesses in the depths of the soul, it is always in an invincible position.

We live in a society where competition is so fierce, fighting with the sky, fighting with others, everyone wants to win and get ahead. However, after many failures, we really understand that the powerful enemy that ultimately wounded us is deeply hidden in our own hearts. The only person in the world who can really defeat you is yourself. The biggest enemy of man is himself, to exert his greatest potential, to win himself, and naturally win others, so it is more important to defeat yourself than to defeat others. Conquer yourself, you will overcome everything!