Give yourself a little courage and win the life you crave

In the autumn of 2019, my college time began. During my time at college, I did more than 30 jobs, including moderators, lecturers, and editors, and founded a company and a training school. In the seemingly busy fourth stage, when others were fascinated by postgraduate exams, graduation thesis, and busy internships, I started my travel career with my baggage. As described in the poem: Lu Manman is a long way to go, I will search for it. And my road to travel is my way of seeking.

I once had a Weibo friend who said to me: "Mr. Ogawa, how much I want to have a life like you, I want to do whatever I want, do not care about too many results, do what I want to do, and I am different. My parents want me to be admitted to graduate school. Actually, that is not what I want. What I want is to be a free backpacker like you."

After I saw it, I replied to her that evening: "Why don't you give yourself a little courage to pursue the life you have thought of?"

She simply returned a sentence: "I am afraid of losing my quiet life now."

I speak.

Most people in this world have had their dreams, and hope that one day they will be able to get rid of the constraints of reality and pursue the life they want, but how many people actually do it with their own practical actions? ? They are afraid, what if they fail to return to the beginning if they fail? Most people are always worried too much, can only be dragged forward by reality, and are not willing to let go and change their status quo.

In fact, there are more than one or two roads in life. There are many opportunities for us to face at the university level. It is a pity that some people seem to have been imprisoned for too long by the words "student", from kindergarten to national small, from middle school to high school, so that even the university still continues its previous life, and the heart is the strongest. Desire to be forgotten and abandoned.

After walking out of the university, I discovered that those things that I wanted to do but didn’t do and the dreams that I had always had, after all, became talks after a meal. I didn’t bravely take the first step and I was defeated by my heart. We often remind ourselves that we don’t forget our initial heart. But what's interesting is that under the framework of social rules, our initial intentions have been wiped out, and they have been eroded. Gradually, they have really forgotten what they really want.

Not long ago, in the Wangfujing Bookstore, Li Shanglong’s work “You just seem to work hard” was smashed. After reading it carefully, I know that Teacher Shang Long also had a complicated and rich life experience, but this did not hinder his positive attitude towards life and the perseverance of bravely pursuing his dreams.

Mr. Shang Long was admitted to a key military school in Beijing with an excellent score. In order to pursue his own life, he persuaded his parents to become an English teacher of New Oriental. Later he embarked on the direction of the director and set up his own movie. The studio has won a lot of praise in the industry. From the beginning to the end, Teacher Shang Long listened to his inner voice and pursued the life he had thought of. He was not intimidated by reality, but constantly adjusted himself and continued to advance toward his goal. He succeeded.

People outside the campus are rushing and tired. They worked hard for food and clothing, and they kept spinning like a gyro. Forgot the initial heart and the heart for the physical service. However, have you ever asked our heart – what is our true desire?

"Short is life, and long is hardship." Zhang Ailing's saying goes, people in this life, it is not easy to live. It is said that it is difficult for people to do and it is difficult to be a person. To be alive, to eat, to wear, to live; to live, to sweat, to shed tears, to bleed... It is indeed very tired to live. So, we are moving away from our original heart and away from ourselves.

Whenever people are quiet at night, I will have a strong resonance with my heart. My heart will tell me all the answers I want: What other dreams I have not completed? What will my contribution bring to me? If I fail, will I regret it? Will it back down? What kind of person do I want to be? What kind of picture will my future show? I constantly explore my inner world and often talk and communicate with my heart.

In Lin Shaobo's work "People in this life, to be worthy of yourself", there is a sentence that touches the heart of every reader: "It is not too late to do a long-lost self." However, many people still live their lives. In the continuation, I can’t find myself again.

Everyone is rich and colorful, and they are all beautiful landscapes. It's not that we don't have color in our hearts, but we rarely patience to clean the dust in our hearts. This makes us always see dirt and can't find colorful and beautiful pictures. If we are willing to change? Will our world be eclipsed?

From today, no longer bear the attention of others, do not care about the evaluation of others, live for yourself; from today, throw away the worries, face the sea, spring blossoms: from today, give yourself a little courage, do your own thing Love yourself the closest person; from today, laugh to yourself, show yourself, give yourself sunshine, give yourself confidence, and hold the key to happiness in your hands, in your heart, and in the deepest part of your soul.