The daughter is afraid that the blind mother will fall, insisting that her hands and mothers fall for more than 20 years.

On the 10th, Suzhou is still very hot and unbearable. After dinner, the heat was slightly dispersed. In the small alley of Suzhou Liuyuan New Village, a pair of mothers and daughters appeared in the people's field of vision in a "strange posture". The two walked slowly and walked gently and calmly. The Yangzi Evening News reporter saw that He Longzhen, who is 57 years old this year, walked backwards. From time to time, he looked sideways at the road ahead and clasped his old mother, Jin Zhaoyu, who was 95 years old. It turned out that Jin Zhaoxuan was blind. After eight months of birth, she lost her eyesight. In order to make her mother feel comfortable, He Longzhen has been walking with her mother in this position for more than 20 years.

A blind mother hard

Fateful fate, pulling three big children in the dark

He Longzhen’s old mother, Jin Zhaoxuan, was born in 1918. Like most families at that time, her family was poor and sisters. Her parents relied on helping people to help their livelihoods. Because of neglect of care, she was blind from illness eight months after she was born. I can't see the world.

Lost the light, Jin Zhaoxuan can only rely on a keen sense of hearing and smell, groping for cooking, washing and doing housework. After the introduction, Jin Zhaoyu married a foreigner who was pulling a rickshaw and gave birth to three children.

A blind mother, raising three children to grow up, can be imagined. However, Jin Zhaoyu’s fate is so high that he has finally pulled the child up. The husband in his 40s has had asthma and bronchitis, and he died early without timely treatment.

After the husband left, Jin Zhaoyu lived alone with three children. He Longzhen often listened to his mother's description of the time as "the day of Huanglian." Shortly after his father's death, He Longzhen's sister was sent to northern Jiangsu, and he and his younger brother also entered the factory to earn money to support their families.

Thanks to the support of the unit, the subsidies of the streets and their own efforts, the life of a family of four is slowly getting better. He Longzhen’s sister-in-law also became a family. Although the mother could not see, but worked hard, she did all the things she could do. He Longzhen told reporters that the three sisters can all suffer hardships, and they are very reasonable. The relationship is very harmonious and the mothers are not worried too much.

B daughter backfeeding

30 years of careful care, the old mother has a filial piety in front of the long illness hall

After their children became married, Jin Zhaoyu first lived with his eldest daughter for more than ten years. Later, he lived with his second daughter, He Longzhen, for more than 30 years.

As the age increases, the old mother is sick and sick, once bedridden, bad appetite, can not digest food, often diarrhea, He Longzhen pay attention to the dietary nutrition of the elderly in newspapers and television, carefully change the pattern every day, and start a small stove, give The old man makes soft and nutritious dishes.

In 2005, Jin Zhaozhen accidentally fell down the stairs, causing a fracture of the left thigh. He Longzhen and his sisters gave the old mother an operation and imported steel nails in a timely manner. After the old man was discharged from hospital, He Longzhen almost took care of the old mother, self-learning various nursing knowledge and helping the mother to do family rehabilitation. Under her careful care, the old mother recovered her health and was able to get out of bed.

The three rooms where the grandparents and grandchildren lived for four generations were the first to install the air conditioner in the room of the mother. In the past two years, Jin Zhaozhen had symptoms of brain atrophy. He Longzhen did not trust his mother to sleep alone. He placed a folding bed next to his mother’s bed to sleep, keeping an eye on his mother’s condition.

C love is passing

Holding the mother's hand for more than 20 years, filial piety passed to the children and grandchildren

In order to let the mother have a certain amount of activity every day, He Longzhen insisted on accompanying the old mother to go for a walk and exercise. This is also the favorite thing of Jin Zhaoyu. The weather is good, just in the alley and in the park. "My mother has never seen flowers and plants for a lifetime. It is a hundred times more hard than other mothers. I am the mother's eyes."

When he saw something outside, He Longzhen described it to his mother and took his mother's hand to feel it. When the weather was bad, He Longzhen took the mother to the big supermarket in a wheelchair, and then took the mother's hand around the shelf and circled around, letting her touch the goods and telling her about the goods.

In order to make the mother feel comfortable to walk, He Longzhen always insisted on holding the mother's hand with both hands and went backwards. In this way, the mother does not have to worry about hitting it when she walks forward. The mother and daughter have been walking in this position for more than 20 years.

He Longzhen's physical practice has also set a good example for the children. Not only the grandson of the old man asks for the warmth of his grandmother, but even his grandson will pour water on the tea every day to remind the elderly to take medicine, chat with the elderly and help the elderly to recite.