Look down at you and look at you with approval.

I remember that when I was six years old, a sudden high fever caused some damage to my language center, so that my Mandarin pronunciation has been in a flat tone in four scales, and I still have a strong local dialect when I speak up; I have a sense of direction, I can't tell the difference, I only know about going up and down, north and south, you talk, I am stupid?

I am stupid.

I tell you calmly, but I will not feel inferior, inferior to a dust in the red dust.

My childhood, unlike the children of today, surrounded by grandparents, grandparents, grandmothers, aunts, grandmothers, and other big family members, plus mom and dad bought a lot of toys, and then went to kindergarten at the age of three; In the ages, we only played with loess, clay figurines, mud guns, or playing on the river beach, fighting, tired, and sleeping on the loess. When I was eight years old, I went to school. Compared with my peers, people can count from one to one hundred. I can only count in ten, and often count the mistakes. So the children in the class call me stupid. .

Now think about it, I am most grateful to my mother. Although she doesn't have any knowledge, she often says: My stupid children, we don't compare with others. Let's learn with stupid methods. As long as we study hard, we will catch up with them one day. So she uses fine Thin sorghum bars, cut into segments, and then stringed with thin strings, you can move up and down or left and right, start with 10 numbers, then 20 numbers; I use it as a treasure, whenever the teacher asks me to go to the podium When I took out the addition or subtraction, or came home from school every day, I hung on the threshold and moved up and down. I can count to 100. I am very happy, then? Then everyone can think And know.

Recalling the scene at the time, I always feel very ridiculous, but my mother’s sentence makes me gradually understand that your own shortcomings can be compensated with diligence. One day, others will be biased because of your excellence. Head.

Where there are people in the world, there are always rivers and lakes; there are always prejudices in the rivers and lakes; sometimes, the prejudice of others is not terrible. The terrible thing is that they look down on themselves, they don’t work hard, and they blame others for being too good.

In the past few years, the unit came to an internship college student. The young man is smart and savvy. He is very experienced in doing things. There are few college students who are angry and proud. If others do not do anything, he will try his best to do it. It’s done beautifully and occasionally, and it’s occasionally bringing something delicious to share with everyone, often chatting to the leadership office or talking about your own ideas.

The good times didn't last long. Other colleagues in the office began to bite their ears privately. I found that everyone was eccentric about his vision. Finally, one day, the college student couldn't stand it, came to me, and all of his brains came out of his own fullness. Finally, I smiled and told him: Are you willing to live in the eyes of others, or continue to live in your favorite life?

Of course, his answer is definitely to live in the life that he likes; because each of us lives in the world, it is hard to support; no one can make everyone like it, to you, in thousands of ways, even if you are As a matter of my own way, as long as I work hard to do my own thing, in fact, good results will happen naturally.

This reminds me of Lin Zexu Tanglian: Heiner and Baichuan, there is tolerance; the wall is full of thousands of people, no desire is just; no one is perfect, we are just a civilian, although it does not reach the state of the saints, but no matter what, we should hold The mentality of "Hai Na Bai Chuan" to practice yourself, because life is a practice.

Gradually, I understand that when God opens a window to you, it will inevitably close another door; the fault that life gives you is not to let you complain, but to learn to accept and feel.

As long as you are willing to work hard, one day, others will be your excellent, look down on you seriously, and take a recognized look.