What we want and what we can get

What we can't have is often what we didn't want to get; what we really obey is our own purpose and needs.

Winston Churchill once said: "Everyone has a special moment in his life, he is born for this. This special opportunity, if he can grasp, will enable him to complete his mission - a Only he has the ability to accomplish his mission. At this time, he will feel glory and greatness, this is his brilliant moment."

There is a story that says: When James was young, he had no other survival skills besides punching, but his punches were not good. Every time in the boxing ring, it is good luck not to be directly defeated by the opponent, so he can't make more money by earning a fist.

The economic crisis is coming, and the entire United States is in a state of great depression. There are not many savings of the James family of five, struggling to live on the death line. If James wants his wife and children to live, he must make money. For James, who has no other skills, the only ability to make money is to punch. In the end, this person who has lost many battles and left the boxing for many years decided to return to the boxing in order to keep his family alive. This time, James, who went to the boxing ring, seemed to be another person. Many opponents who have defeated him, this time they fell in front of him, James got a rich bonus and won the title of the champion.

At the press conference, someone asked James why this time would be so brave, and he was as good as he was when he was young? James said softly: "Because I know clearly what I want!" When asked what he wanted, he simply said a few words: "milk and bread."

At this moment, my heart is very touched. The simple words tell the truth of the cruelty and unpretentious struggle of real life: what we can't have is often what we didn't want to get; what we really obey is our own purpose and needs.

Like James, each of us may have lost and defeated and lost because we didn't know what we wanted. It’s just a simple matter of “bread and milk”. Have we ever been on the road to success for a long time? Knowing and not knowing are two very different concepts. It’s very different to know and know. Knowing what you want is an important factor in determining our lives.

Many times, knowing what you want, you know what you should do; if you don't know what you want, you may not even know what you want to do. Therefore, what we can't have is often what we didn't want to get. It is not what you want in this world, but what you get in and you do get what you want if you know what you want and want the right things.

Everyone has a chance to succeed, but not everyone can succeed. We have ideas, not necessarily ways; we have the ability, not necessarily the platform; we work hard, not necessarily have opportunities. In fact, all of this is less important than what you want. The important thing is that we can allow ourselves to crouch for a while, but we cannot allow cruel reality to castrate our ideas. The way of thinking determines the way out, the goal determines what we choose to do now, how we go every step of the way, what goals should be achieved at each stage, and what level of things should be done. After all the problems and details have been clarified, the stride will go forward. Remember, many times, it is not the road that determines us, but the feet and feet on the road.

Success - just take our steps and release our hearts!