This world never cares about your self-esteem

This world never cares about your self-esteem! Make your achievements first, then emphasize your feelings!

If you are also experiencing the low tide of your career, the following two stories may bring you some inspiration.

I hope that we can all go through these tempering and move on to the next step and live a better life.

Story 1: It’s a diamond, it always shines

A young man has not been able to find the ideal job. No matter how hard he tries, all the efforts seem to be in vain.

He deeply felt that he was uncomfortable and was very disappointed with the society.

Under the pain of despair, he came to the beach and planned to end his life.

At this point, there is just one old man who has passed by. The old man saw his mind and asked him why he had to go astray. He said that he could not get the recognition of others and society. No one appreciated and reused him. He felt that he was not needed by the society.

The old man didn’t say much, just picked up a grain of sand from the beach under his feet, let the young man look at it, then threw it on the ground and said to the young man: "Please throw the sand that I just thrown on the ground. pick it up."

"How is this possible!" said the young man.

The old man did not answer, then took out a crystal clear diamond from his pocket and threw it on the ground. Then he said to the young man, "Can you pick up this diamond?"

"Of course it can be!" said the young man.

"Do you understand the difference between these two things?" The old man followed: "You should know that you are not a diamond now, so you can't ask others to value you. If you want others to value, then you It is necessary to find a way to make yourself a diamond." After listening to the young man, he suddenly realized that he thanked the old man and quickly left the beach.

Many people complain that their fortunes are not good enough to always find a commendable job or not to be valued. However, if your resume does not have "characteristics" and performance is not "excellent", how can you blame others for not discovering you?

If you want to get reused by others, you have to stand out and make yourself an irreplaceable person.

Story 2: Instead of blaming the dark road, it is better to light yourself

A young man who has just arrived at work complained to his friends: "The boss has a prejudice against me and always is very picky about me. I say that my computer is playing poorly, and the copywriting idea is a mess. In short, nothing can be done."

"Do you think your boss is right?" asked the friend.

The young man said: "I feel that I am fully qualified for the job. It is the boss's eccentricity."

My friend suggested: "You don't have to complain now. Since the boss is so bad, why not be angry with him. Use his company's computer to learn, use his company's opportunity to improve your copywriting design ability, and then leave. Let him lose one I am sorry for a thousand miles."

After returning to the school, the friend went to school and finally entered the situation very quickly. He was particularly outstanding among his colleagues.

After half a year, my friend met the young man. The young man couldn’t help but say, "Why don’t you ask me if I am fired by the boss or fired the boss?"

"If you follow my advice, you should be entrusted with the task by the boss, and no longer complain," said the friend.

"You really think like a god!" the friend exclaimed. "After I went back, I worked harder and performed better. I wanted to leave, but the boss gave me the head of the department and I respected my opinion very much."

"This is the reward you should not complain about and keep working hard!" said friend.

People are not alive, but they want to be "fight", not to be "gas-filled", but rather to be "longer than"; not to "striking for a moment", but to "striving for a thousand years."

After reading these two stories, you may be able to give you extra inspiration.