Facing the flaws calmly, everyone is "Venus"

If you are giving you ten minutes now, let you find something perfect in the world, can you find it? Believe to give you forty minutes, or an hour, or a lifetime, I am afraid you still can't find a perfect thing.

There is no perfect thing in this world. Even Venus has the flaw of broken arm. Look at the people around you, as long as you look closely, we can always find some imperfections: appearance, character, experience... When a person knows how to admit his imperfections, and can face it calmly When he is flawed, he is not far from perfect.

Zhang Beibei is a very unfortunate woman, because at the age of J~&35, her husband died. The family insisted that she find another person who was interested, but she remained indifferent.

Finally, under the patient persuasion of family and friends, she also saw several subjects, but in the end there was no success. Because Zhang Beibei always meets with others when he meets with others, he always drags his own defects and discs out and exposes them, making some men "distracted."

When the number of friends fell on her, she plagued her words: "When I was young, I didn't pretend to be an object. Now I am so old. Why should we hide ourselves? If the other person can't accept my embarrassment, I live with him. How can you be happy?"

Later, Zhang Beibei also found a good intentional person. It is said that the other party is taking advantage of Zhang Beibei's undisguised and courageous recognition of defects. He thinks this person is very real.

Because Zhang Beibei informed his opponent of his defects without reservation, he exchanged a happy life. My friends said that there are real lives, and Zhang Beibei exchanged the defects for happiness.

Only those who can be kind to defects can feel happiness and create miracles again and again. Some people are too inferior to cover up their own defects. In fact, as long as these defects do not affect our health, there is no need to care too much.

An advertising company needs to hire a manager assistant. Xin Hao and Zhang Wei have gone through the interview and entered the final interview.

Xin Wei is a high school student at the Communication University and has two years of experience working in a large company. Zhang Wei is just a fresh graduate of an ordinary university.

At the time of the interview, Xin Xin was full of confidence in her, because she felt that she was the most suitable in terms of conditions and experience. But in the end she lost the opportunity.

The reason for her failure is very simple. The interviewer asked her what shortcomings she had. Xin Xin said: "My shortcoming is that I am not willing to be ordinary, I like innovative work, I like fresh things, and others like me."

Xin Xin’s words made the interviewer feel that there was not much credibility. The interviewer asked her again: “This job is very boring. I do the same thing every day. Why are you applying?”

Xin Xin thought about it and then replied: "I think this is a good opportunity. I think I can do it."

After the interview, she herself thought she might not get the job—hiddenly hiding her shortcomings would only make things worse.

The same question, when Zhang Wei answered the interviewer, he said without hesitation: "I have many shortcomings."

The interviewer nodded with satisfaction and then asked, "What about the advantages?" Zhang Xiao smiled and answered mischievously: "My advantage is because I have many shortcomings, so I am more cautious and careful when I work." I talked to her for a while, then said to her: "Tomorrow, you can come to the company to work."

I believe that no one in this world will believe that there is no shortcoming. For the interviewer, Xin Xin is a liar, so he can't make a liar to be the "manager assistant" position. In fact, it goes without saying that it is the manager assistant. No leader can Let a liar work under his own hands.

It can be said that Xin Xin failed because she did not dare to face up to her shortcomings. Therefore, in the face of defects, we should not cover up, but should dare to face it calmly. Understand that since the defect belongs to you, you should face it correctly. Be kind to defects and be kind to yourself. Maybe we can't make our appearance perfect, but we definitely have the ability to perfect our heart.