Loneliness is a compulsory course in life.

Life can't be as good as you think, but it won't be as bad as you think. I feel that people are weak and beyond their imagination. Sometimes, I may be so weak that I burst into tears. Sometimes I find myself walking a long way with my teeth. - Maupassant

But at the beginning of such a sentence, I saw that Takagi Naoko’s "One Man Lives in the Fifth Year" was still in the country. At that time, I felt that such a life could not happen to me. I could not even have a meal with me. Endure the feeling of eating alone. So later, for a long time I have not been able to adapt to a person to eat, to travel alone, now think about it is nothing, the world is running so fast, no one will care if you are alone. So that a friend later asked me if I had social phobia. I smiled, but it wasn't. I just became lazy and lazy to run a relationship. As for friends, there are only a few. Some people are together every day, and they are not necessarily friends.

It seems that this is a long time, but I will forget the difficulties I started to encounter, and gradually become a bystander of my life, watching life calmly flowing. It is said that people are slowly growing up. Actually, people are growing up in an instant. It is like a sudden precipitation. Suddenly they don’t talk about love or don’t want to fall in love. A person’s life is single but not boring, even if it’s I still feel confused but I don't feel bored.

Last year, I was in a different city, carrying different schoolbags, keeping different hairstyles, walking different paths, thinking about different things, having different minds, and loving different people. . Who said that the change will take ten years.

There are quite a few cows around me, like the existence of God, I just envy that I wouldn’t become such a person anyway, until one day a schoolmaster chatted with me, I realized that he also couldn’t read the book. When I wrote a thesis and wrote that I wanted to hit the wall, we all forgot what kind of price they used to exchange for such a life. He said that if you want to achieve it, loneliness is your compulsory course. If you can't sink your heart, there is no way to achieve it, because that is definitely not an easy task. Loneliness can make you stronger. You must find your own life rhythm.

A friend likes to drink a little wine every day, watch a movie and go to sleep on time; the Englishman who lives next to him does not have a night when he sleeps. Sometimes he sleeps in the dark; a boy in the next building does not shine every day. I got up and running, and often I just planned to sleep at that time.

Recently, I am fascinated by a person walking around. I am not only traveling around the city, but I don’t spend too much time preparing for it. I will leave the bag and leave. I don't take the camera, I just have the interest to take a cell phone and take a photo. The music is something I can't lose when I go. Only music can make the seemingly long wait become a graceful journey. It seems that I am with the whole world. It doesn't matter, I just want to be a cloud with no name, and I don't know the name of the landscape.

As mentioned above, I could not imagine the feeling of eating alone. Similarly, I would not think about how a person would go to take a bus. Who knows that it didn't take long for me to get used to going to school by car. I was far from the school, so I didn't have many people when I got on the bus, sitting in the last few rows. Sometimes I look at the window and daze, thinking about everything but not knowing what I am thinking.

We all find our own pace of life, and then we can't extricate ourselves.

I haven't been to the bookstore for a long time, and I think that reading "a book every week" is too far away for me. Until one day I went to the bookstore with my friend, he was a person who would not stop buying books, and I bought a few books. When I came back home to watch Weibo, I felt that my heart was empty. I simply picked up the book and found out that I discovered it on that day. In fact, it is not so difficult to read a book every week. I suddenly read the book that day. After that, I feel that life like this is fulfilling.

Either reading, or traveling, body and soul, must have one on the road.

I told myself that reality does not allow you to delay, and delay will only make me more anxious, so at the beginning I set myself to take a bed for half an hour every day, and read dozens of pages of books, and soon became a habit. Sometimes I have to sigh that if I really do something, then this thing is not that difficult. When you really want to do something, the whole world will come to assist you. It is this feeling.

A friend who rode across the Sichuan-Tibet line said that as long as he leaves, he can arrive. If you don't leave, you can't go anywhere. If you can't sink your heart, you can't do anything. Departure is always the most meaningful thing to do. When a book is bought, it doesn't look like just a few pieces of paper. It doesn't look like a bunch of data in the open class. If you don't look at it, it doesn't make any sense. Instead, it increases anxiety and action is the most crucial.

You may also be like this. When you are eager to find someone to talk to, you have not talked about anything. So I found that some things can’t be told to others. Some things don’t have to be told. Some things have no way to tell others. Even if you tell someone, you will regret it right away. Then the best way is to calm down and really only calm yourself.

No one can avoid loneliness, and it is better to face it than to escape it. Loneliness is not such a bad thing. Compared with noisy, one's life seems to be more self-sufficient, but it can also become a kind of enjoyment. It may take at least a few, a few years or a few months to live alone, or how can you find your own rhythm to know what you want. This is your own thing, it is a part of you. When you listen to music, when you take the MRT, when a person walks on the road, it will flow out, making me think that the world exists in another form. I can hear myself clearly.

We all live in a world that is not so good. When the clouds are dark, we will sway, but the sun will come one day. When the sun shines on you, remember to open your own flowers. You are born with you. dream. Sometimes the dream is very far, sometimes the dream is very close, but it will always be realized. I think the best way for a person is to calm down, even if one lives, crosses one city after another, walks one street after another, looks up to another sky, witnesses once and again.

Even if the world is against me, as long as the heart is transparent, it can reflect hope.

There are too many people related to you, so it is better to be a person you want to do. Life is too short. Go crazy and love to go alone. Only you can really calm yourself. People are lonely, loneliness is not terrible, and terrible is fear of loneliness. Lonely is a compulsory course for children who want to pick up the stars. I am not afraid that I am not good at working hard. I am afraid that people who are better than me will work harder than me.