Everything seems to be the end of the day, and will eventually prove to be just a process
Good friend N came to Beijing to work hard for two years. He wanted to be selected by the media company in Beijing because of a job search program. Since then, he has started life in the north.
It was June 2019, and with excitement and anticipation, he came to this strange city with joy. From the moment he got off the high-speed rail, he was a little scared. The crowd was crowded, and he was carrying a big bag and could not find the north and south. Looking at the strange station name, staring at the bright MRT road map on the screen, forcibly remembering one stop after another, for fear of sitting over the station. When the destination is out of the MRT station, it is already dark.
That was what he saw, the first night of Beijing.
The lights are bright, the vehicles are flowing, and there are towering buildings on both sides of the vertical and horizontal viaducts. The gorgeous shopping malls display a dazzling array of luxury goods. The huge car whispered in the ear, and the young brave and little clinging with youthful bangs rushed from the bottom of my heart when I was young.
He opened his mouth and smirked and thought, I finally came to Beijing, the capital, Beijing.
However, there is a long way to go from the MRT station to the basement where he rents. With six shopping bags on hand, two of them had broken handles in the middle, sweating in the hot summer, and found the door in a wolf, and walked into a small room in the basement where they could only stand next. I bought a green wallpaper online in advance, so that my friends in Beijing can help me with it. I think it will be very lively and warm, but it is not very useful.
There was no window, the room was dark and dull, standing on the bed, the head could almost lie on the ceiling, the tungsten light was not very bright, and the clothes were a problem. There is no internet signal on the mobile phone, and the phone can't get in and out. More than 40 people in the basement share a router, a bathroom, three bathrooms, and four faucets for washing and washing.
Frankly speaking, he did not graduate. He also felt very hard. One person ran from Sichuan to Beijing. He was alone, no relatives, no friends, and some were just a ten-square-meter basement room. Other students are eating, drinking, and graduating, but he has to learn to look at his face in the workplace. Other friends are doing stable work under the arrangement of their parents, but he has to work alone in a big city that is easy to be lonely.
Suffering is bitterness, loneliness is loneliness, but what is the solution?
Never stop, or the world will forget you.
I asked N, I am alone in Beijing, will not be tired of wanting to give up, the answer is obviously yes. In the morning, I went to work because of the rush to go out and fell to the ground. When I got home at night, I was still on the ground. Sometimes I went to the supermarket and smashed a few tens of kilograms of rice, and there were things full of hands. I don’t know how to move home. When I went to the mall for a few hours, I didn’t know what to buy. When I got home in the middle of the night, I found that the key was forgotten in the office. I was reluctant to spend money to find the master of the lock. I just sat outside the door for one night.
I think everyone has such a moment, loneliness, loneliness, frustration, disappointment, doubting themselves, helpless life, against the world. I know that you must live very tired, grievances more than your heart, suffer from cold eyes, do not believe that the wall is worn before. Although the head broke blood, but still scalp to fight.
Yeah, for so many years, you have been biting your teeth and not giving up, it’s too hard.
Fortunately, how much effort will pay will pay off, and how much will persist will result. Now he is already the project manager of several box-office movies with over 100 million yuan. He has changed his comfortable house and is still trying to talk about a love.
God knows how hard he has worked overtime. As long as he is awake, he will work hard to learn various skills, even those that are not in his field of work. When you have time, you will study new media and big data. When you get down, just open your brain and design a poster to pass the time. So now he will make pictures, take pictures, write copywriting, get activities, creative ideas can always be appreciated by the leaders, and the tasks that follow will always be executed perfectly.
I remembered last year when I advised him to change his house and not to live in a gloomy and humid basement. He answered me, and now he doesn't eat bitter, and he won't taste sugar in the future. The crowds in the world are crowded, and everyone wants to fight for a train that goes to a good day. When you are young, you don't have to take a chance. When you get old, you have no chance.
The world is wonderful, but it is cruel enough.
Feeling bitter, scared, and shrinking, it will be crowded out by this raging crowd.
I also remembered my good friend Y, with all the good expectations of love, and fell in love.
It was the winter of 2019. In order to end her long-distance relationship with her boyfriend, she gave up her job in Beijing and went to Shanghai with a five-hour train. When I arrived in Shanghai, I went to the company where my boyfriend was interviewed. The editor-in-chief does not make an interview for the executive. If the administrative interview is not on, he will try to edit it. If the editor does not interview, he will be the front desk. Finally, she successfully became a front desk for her boyfriend's company.
From Beijing Qianlitun to Shanghai, I lost most of my salary, and the work was changed from the editor to the front desk, all for the so-called love. At that time, she had no friends in Shanghai. She only knew a female colleague who had a close relationship with her boyfriend. Others would only talk to her when they got the courier. Only the girl didn't dislike her, so they started to talk carefully, and she began to share her sweetness with her.
Y began to live happily with her boyfriend, and went to work together every day to work, and went to a supermarket to watch movies on weekends. The 28-year-old is like a young girl who is in love, and she is in a good mood every day. Her eyes are spring, her eyes are full of mountains, and she always sleeps very lightly at her lips, as if she had lost her sleep for a night.
She thought that the loved ones together are the full meaning of love and life, but not long after, she found that her boyfriend was derailed, and the object of derailment was her meticulousness.
In addition to her boyfriend, that is her only friend she met in Shanghai.
So like all the people who lost love, she began to cry, began to make trouble, mentally disordered, and the whole world collapsed.
But what is the use?
Choosing kindness means opening your chest. If you choose to have no reservations, it will be easier to bruise. I think that people who have moved their hearts in love will probably go through a period of tears of grievances and sadness.
Later, Y returned to Beijing, and no one sent her on the day of leaving Shanghai. She squatted on the big bag and stepped on the wet ground, and lost it. No one is sending, so you don't want to go back.
Later, I heard that she never fell in love again.
I am mostly a stupid girl who is so distressed. For the sake of love, I devote all my dedication to all the youth that a girl can give. They put their hearts out on the other half, but when they suffered a betrayal, they discovered that they were incomplete in their own disregard for each other.
Believe in love, believe in the long-lasting, I believe that true will be exchanged for cherish, believe in all sweet words and vows.
The result was defeated by love, defeated by time, defeated by disappointment, defeated by rhetoric and the cruel reality behind it.
But if you lose, you lose, you can't admit defeat, what can you do? I would rather you are a person who can accept failure at a time that is not smooth.
But you must not accept your life.
I hope that the gambling can lose, but if I lose this game, there is still the next game. If I miss this person, I can wait for a better person.
For those who don't love you, give the best wishes to him. Who knows the intersection at the corner, the next person we meet, will be beaten into our lives. Love needs to be cultivated. When one is alone, remember to work hard to cultivate yourself.
So even if you are alone, don't be afraid, two people are companions, one is brave. When you admit defeat to a person's world, don't accept your life. Do you have to work harder and live harder? Don't give up the best beliefs, don't look back, don't miss the past, don't blame yourself. It’s not the way to love, but you haven’t waited for the right person. Don’t doubt yourself. You have always been a good girl.
I hope that you and I can accept accidents, accept failures, accept unsatisfactory, and accept unpaid rewards. Accepting betrayal, accepting irreparable, accepting the cruelty of reality, accepting is not understood. But don't regret when you die, don't surrender, don't change your beliefs, kill and not fear, don't back down, don't lose yourself. I always believe that there will be good things happening. I believe that seriousness and goodness will have good luck. I believe that love and being loved will appear in the spring.
If you can't bear it, you will release it. If you can't accept it, you will refuse, learn to be silent, and learn to live a serious life. People who don't like it are far away, and the things they love are desperately chasing, not to please people who don't want to be pleased, not to live for others. Don't try to get along with the whole world, don't try to make everyone like you, don't believe that you are iron, not afraid of grievances, not afraid of harm.
May you not comfort others, may you know how to feel bad about yourself.
I have been alone for too many years and have forgotten how miserable I am. This book is for those who have never believed in love for a long time, those who believe in love but not love, those who work hard, those who are brave and fearless and who refuse to cry. I want to say that for so many years, you are really too hard.
You can care about all loneliness and loss, but don't be afraid of pain and frustration; you can accept all the results that are not fruitful today, but you must not give up those tomorrows that have not arrived; you can accept occasionally not so strong, but you must not lose your most powerful self. Everything that seems to be the end of the day will eventually prove to be just a process.
The 23-year-old lion male, grateful for the income, grateful for the loss, grateful parents, and the whole universe is quite me. May the world be peaceful, and the smog will no longer come. May you and I be brave and persistent. Good together, expecting, bad all-inclusive, little luck and 10,000 points of harm in life, love and being loved, gentle tribute, and sorrow.
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