Four habits that will make you lose

Are you often confused and depressed because life is not developing according to your own will? Unfortunately, only a few people can make their dreams come true. What is the main difference between a successful person and a loser? Here are 4 bad habits that you may have fun to bury without success.

1. "After putting it, let's talk." Generally speaking, are you more active and more reactive? Successful people will take action. They control life instead of letting life control themselves. They are engrossed and will not hesitate to move forward to achieve their goals rather than half-heartedly. Two-minded and two-minded work can only get results that are half-finished. Many people are easy to act impulsively, and actions can be quick and fast. This is easy to do, but in order to succeed, you must focus on the front of the enjoyment, you must act every day, and the successful person always plans the next one before completing the current task. Only in this way can you keep on doing this. Aggressive momentum. It is a simple choice to concentrate on getting the best out of it. It is as simple as that. "If you want to distract you, you can always find enough reasons."

2. "I am so scared that..." Everyone has a sense of fear. Even if they are successful people, they are people, just like us, but they will not let fear prevent themselves from advancing. do you know? To succumb to fear can only make it stronger. This is because you give control to it and allow it to drag your hind legs. As a result, you have to think about success, so you must venture out of a comfortable and safe circle. . Successful people dare to take risks. They know that they may make mistakes, but they still firmly believe that the reward potential of adventure is far greater than the possibility of failure. Even if they fail, there are lessons to learn. The fear that makes you afraid to do what you want to do is called phobia, a mental illness. "The meaning of life is not to wait for the storm to pass, but to learn to sing and dance in the storm."

3. "I give up." Because giving up the dangers and giving up too early is a manifestation of self-destruction. At every stage of life, work and career, you have to face all kinds of challenges. The key is not to give up. If the first road doesn't work, look for other ways. Do you really think that you can think of it without facing it or overcoming various challenges? You find that on the way forward, you can't help but say "I worked hard, but can't do it" or "Can I not do it because of him?" Did you find that you just gave up in front of an obstacle and you met the next one? If you give up when you encounter obstacles, then you will never succeed. Persistence is a significant personality of successful people. “I didn’t fail, I just found 10,000 infeasible methods.”

4. “I want to succeed now!” It’s easy to feel impatient when you work hard but can’t see the effect, and patience is essential for success. Take a step forward and stick to it. After a while, you may success. The tendency to do everything in a hurry is a major challenge to achieving the goal. Even if you take the right action, you must remember to give yourself some time. Small steps lead to small results, and once the number is over, it is a big achievement. On the other hand, it is easy to make big strides, but it is also easy for you to lose balance and fall. Successful people encounter a variety of situations, but as long as they succumb to any of the above, success will soon become a bubble. Remember, as long as you concentrate, be brave, patient, and don't give up, success will definitely belong to you. “Patience is an integral part of success.”

If you really want to live a better life, the first thing you must do is to abandon "there is no way to do such a thing" and abandon "this is life" and take the inertia of self-defeating, otherwise life will not change. . If you believe that you are a loser, the people around you will think so, they are getting this idea from you and are convinced. When the confident person walks into the room, everyone can see his self-confidence. He is also convinced that he stands in front of everyone. When the loser enters the room, he acts like a loser because of jealousy. So others will transfer the same understanding to him.

Secondly, if you want to get rid of bad habits, you can't easily surrender to instinct. Although it is a bit painful to challenge the inertia of the instinct that is unique to the instinct, we can live up to the challenge. Only when the willing to succeed succeeds. Instinct, we can get the perfect unity of instinct and will, the same habit, it is natural. I once gave up, accepting the fact that I am an obese person, unable to restrain my instinct, and can't keep my mouth shut. Eight months ago, I had a precursor to stomach ulcers. I realized that losing weight is the first test of the will. What I want to change is the bad habit of eating and drinking. Looking at the slim woman in the mirror who smiled at me, I reflected a lot. Is it so difficult to lose 68 pounds? Difficult and difficult, it is difficult to make up your mind to change the bad habits of their losers. It is not difficult to have a will. You are like a radio station transmitting signals to people around you, whether your nickname is "loser, loser, loser" or "confidence, self-confidence, self-confidence", the response must be "please speak, please speak ,please say".

Finally, changing bad habits is the first step that no longer fails. Everything is difficult at first, and there is a ratio between the spacecraft and the gravitational force reaching the moon: 90% of the fuel has been used up in the first few kilometers, only the remaining 10% is used in the final journey; or it can be compared to the marathon Running, near the end of the end has been exhausted, it is difficult to step over others, this time used to play a decisive role, and relying on the efforts in front of it to show the effect. So the key to getting rid of bad habits is persistence after the start. Before you make up your mind, first ask yourself: “Why did I fail?” Asking this question is to start to realize that you can succeed, but now the failure is just a matter of concept. A deep review of the reasons for failure, and determination to change yourself, you will be able to succeed, everyone is like this.