Don't underestimate yourself

He Ruixiu: I have the nature of escape, His Royal Highness.

Hamlet: I don't want your enemy to say you like this, so I don't want to hear you say this harsh words. I know that you are not an evader.

Hamlet's first act, second game

He Ruixiu is Hamlet's most intimate friend, not only young and promising, but also a scholar of learning, but his bad habit is to like self-depreciation. When He Ruixiu said this, Hamlet immediately refuted his statement. Hamlet wanted to show that He Ruixiu always degraded himself, which is unfair to him.

Sometimes we also have the same emotions as He Ruixiu. Even people with a calm personality will have a big emotional gap. Sometimes, if they don't know it, they will be self-conscious and look down on themselves. Even Shakespeare was discouraged: "Why is my poem no new? Is there any change?"

How you think about yourself more or less will affect other people's views on you. As for your description of your strengths and weaknesses, it determines the impression of others on you.

Our ultimate goal is to build a reliable image that is consistent from the inside out. To a certain extent, modesty is a virtue and acceptable to all. But once humility is over and self-depreciated, the consequences are as bad as bragging. If you still want others to protest against your modesty, it is even more impossible.

Some people have this bad habit, and you can detect it when you first meet them. They said, "I may not do this right, but..." or say: "Maybe my brain is not very good, but it seems to me..." They are hard to find this problem, obviously this habit It is already ingrained.

If everyone else says this to you, what do you think? Needless to say, anyone is very angry with this situation.

Keep in mind that there is no benefit to self-depreciation. Attractive people will never be worthy of their own worth. Otherwise, you are equal to adding burden to the people around you. They have to say something to encourage you. Worst of all, they still see some shortcomings that you have never seen before.

Don't be self-sufficient and become your own terrible enemy. Even if you are joking, don't look down on yourself.