Buy a house VS buy a dream

From the perspective of professional development, a house destroys a dream.

We tried to look through the success files of most of the entrepreneurs in China and found that they were all in the best time to start a business, choosing to start a business instead of buying a house.

In 1998, Ma Huateng five people scraped together 500,000, found Tencent did not buy a house; in 1998 Shi Yuzhu borrowed 500,000 from friends to engage in melatonin did not buy a house; in 1999, Ding Lei drifted in Guangzhou with 500,000 found Netease did not buy a house; 1999 Chen Tianqiao The stocks earned 500,000 yuan, and Shanda did not buy a house. In 1999, 18 people of Ma Yun teamed up 500,000, and registered Alibaba did not buy a house. Their success is not determined by buying a house.

Someone asked the musician Gao Xiaosong, why did he get married and rent a house, don't buy his own house? Gao Xiaosong replied: I don't buy a house, all the world is mine, I want to live where I live; when I buy a house, there is only one corner left. My sister didn't buy a house, but both of us traveled all over the world.

With their similar views, there is also the domestic housing industry, Wang Shi. At the beginning of 2008, when the domestic property market was initially adjusted, Wang Shi threw out the astonishing words: "For those young people who have no final career, and who have ambitions and ideals, renting a house before the age of 40 is good."

In my opinion, with today's housing prices, the exclusion of the rich second generation does not say that ordinary people buy a house to sell their dreams only in two cases: one is the parents of both parents to pay for funding, such people are basically the future and development is controlled by the parents. The second person sacrificed too many development opportunities, pawn dreams to achieve a house.

The average American is only 31 years old to buy a house. The German is 42 years old, the Belgian is 37 years old, the Hong Kong people are 32 years old, and the European population with independent housing accounts for 50%. The rest are renting.

I once saw two houses in Shenzhen in 2003 and Beijing in the end of 2006. The first time I was unable to pay, I was not willing to let my parents give me money. In 2006, I was able to pay a down payment of 400,000 because of a little savings. After watching the house that day, I was very excited to call my friend. Until a friend said to me, "Are you ready to settle down? If you buy a house, this life is basically settled. Your house will drive you to find someone to marry and have children... because that is in the house. The thing to do. Of course, that is actually very good."

I put down the phone and the excitement slowly faded. I made a decision in my heart. I don't want to live a "stable" life with a house. My life is not just this.

Over the years, every time I drove through the property, I deeply thanked me for the decision of the day. Because if I have a monthly income of more than 6,000 yuan a month, I am absolutely afraid to start thinking about how to start a business and start a new elite NEDP, so that I will miss the life I have most wanted in my life.

Looking back at this group of premature buyers: they have spent the next 10 years to change their work direction and entrepreneurial opportunities, and spent three times the annual salary, what do they buy back?

What they buy is actually a "security" in their hearts.

But can security really come from a house? This is the wall of thinking we want to tear down. In this society where housing prices and stocks are increasingly turbulent, can we safely come from an item in this society that has fallen from the state-owned system and accelerated into the information age? Even if the house can really be exchanged for security , then sell your dreams to change, is it really worth it?

In order to consume a sense of security, we have paid such a big price, pawn our own dreams, and pawn our own fastest-growing time.

We really should take a good look at what is behind this wall.