Can you unscrew the bottle cap, you are a good girl

How many people have been compromising for the hard years because they are afraid of being alone. How many people are worried about loneliness and are worried about anxiety. In fact, it is only necessary to use all the way to persist and work hard to turn yourself into what you want.

I chatted with my girlfriend, Sun Xiaoxian, to dry my mouth and grabbed a bottle of mineral water. I couldn't open it twice.

"Stupid you!" Sun Xiaoxian took over, and did not twist, suddenly furious: "The old lady still does not believe it!"

I saw her a fish jumped up in an angry way, put on a handcuffs, a bite of a tooth, and opened it with his hand: "Give! The old lady will come to you to talk, you have to wait for you to drink!"

I deliberately took the orchid finger and took the water bottle.

The next day, Sun Xiaoxian sent me a news on QQ. The content was that a girl carrying mineral water during the security check at Pudong Airport said that she could not open the bottle cap. The security guards helped her unscrew and the girl cried directly: I drink mineral water and my boyfriend is screwing the bottle. The water you drive has no taste of love!"

Sun Xiaoxian was almost vomited by this news: "Rely, I finally know why I can't get married. I not only screw the caps myself, but also volunteered to screw the caps to others!"

Hahaha. After a burst of laughter, I remembered another single girlfriend, Coco.

My acquaintance with Coco is entirely out of work.

At that time, I also worked as a human resource manager and wanted to open an English class in the company. So I contacted a well-known English training institution to discuss training cooperation.

Coco received me. The girl with long hair fluttering, eyebrows, and talkative, courteous and courteous, gave me a high impression.

But I am not a beautiful girl who is impulsive, I want high quality and low price.

One to two, more comparisons, the training fee was almost cut to the lowest. Throughout the process, Coco has always been pleasing to the eye, not humble, not as arrogant as some course consultants, nor as snobbish as individual sales.

The company's three English classes started smoothly. In order to keep everyone motivated and motivated to learn, Coco has always kept in touch with me and often advised me on how to improve my English learning.

One day after more than a month, Coco suddenly appeared in my office. I originally thought that it was still about the improvement of the curriculum, and routinely sat in the conference room with her face to face.

She spoke up and said, "Sister, I have to leave. I feel that I have to come over and say it to you. Thank you for your support."

I am a little surprised. I immediately committed an occupational disease and wanted to know why she left: "You are doing a good job, how do you leave?"

"We have some internal adjustments recently. I am not comfortable with myself, so I resigned. But you don't have to worry. It is my personal reason to leave. The quality of the teachers and the quality of the courses are no problem. I have already handed over the follow-up and service of the training courses. Later, Mr. Wang will come to you to dock with you. This is the next step. I will coordinate with you if you have any questions..." Coco carefully listed the progress adjustments and precautions to me. .

I have been in contact with a lot of training institutions. This line of staff is more frequent. It is rare to send a newsletter when leaving the company.

Do not blame and complain about the old club, this is a vegetarian.

People who go to tea are not cool, and they hand over the last class of posts. This is dedication.

Thank you in person, thank you, this is education.

These three points are enough to make me look at this girl.

There was no intersection at work, but we have become a girlfriend since then.

Coco's home is in Shanxi, and his family is superior. Compared with the hard work of wandering outside, she can make a slight compromise and listen to her parents' arrangements, return to her hometown, and accept a comfortable life and a life of worry-free life.

But Coco always insisted on persuading his parents. Their distress, worry, and marriage are all stones in their hearts. She does not escape, does not force, does not pity, nor narcissism. Before choosing to complete her parents' career, she chose to be a better self.

Coco once dreamed of being a fashion designer and wanted to apply to an art school, but in the real world, he read a foreign language major. After resigning, she has been trying to find opportunities and hope to find a combination of interest and career. At first, I didn't pay much attention to the idea of ​​this little woman. Later, I found out that she was building a dream like a little Yan Yan.

Without funds to open a store, she contacted the purchase channel on the Internet, selected mid-to-high-end women's clothing, multi-party comparison, personal selection, send pictures, starting from the small business of purchasing a little.

Not a professional origin, she went around to understand the training course, starting from the basics of the entry level, learning makeup, learning modeling, learning to mix, and slowly cultivate their own vision and taste.

Because of my work relationships and professional habits, I have followed many young girls. There are a lot of beautiful women who have beautiful dreams and dreams, but they are too few to do.

Some girls are self-proclaimed, habitual and proud, except for the basics of self-timer.

Some girls are lazy, blaming others for their problems, complaining about their work, and having a princess life but being used to being a princess.

Some girls are indefinite, and when they are angry, they will be stunned by the Hedong Griffin. If they hit the sun, they will become a slap in the face, and the clouds will become a dog.

In contrast, Coco is like a little sun full of positive energy –

She likes children, goes to welfare homes to visit orphans, brings food to children, and helps the administrators pick up rubbish.

She volunteered at a charity restaurant to pour water for the vulnerable groups who came to eat, brush bowls, sweep the floor, wipe the table, not afraid of being tired.

She loves to find the special coffee shop on the beach, to read the book and view the sun, the face and the mood are as beautiful as the sea waves flashing.

She insisted on participating in the professional English speech club every week, from the junior rookie to the host, the receptionist, participating in the regional competition, standing on the stage and talking about the words, falling and generous.

This summer, Coco took another big step toward her dreams - she founded a women's beauty salon, brought together beautiful girls around her, a weekly salon event... she was like a tireless little bee, delicate The body exudes a huge magnetic field.

I finally understood why I like this girl more and more. She has the same light and energy as the little sun, and there is also the quiet beauty and clearness of the stars and nights.

She chose to learn to add value to herself, fill her single time, and use her best morning light to match her youngest skin.

She is not without grievances, but never complains. Behind every understatement, you have your own best efforts.

Sometimes I can't help but ask her very gossip: "Is there any situation recently? Haven't you met the right one?"

She smiled slyly: "No, what should I do?"

Coco told me about her previous emotional experiences, and after all the pains and struggles, she finally got light. She put the pain on the soles of her feet, letting the old account turn over forever, not sinking, not blaming herself, not hating marriage, not tangled.

How many people have been compromising for the hard years because they are afraid of being alone. How many people are worried about loneliness and are worried about anxiety.

Love is such a simple, simple and silent thing, how can it be born in the urge of others and the burden of self?

Not anxious tomorrow, no regrets yesterday. Walking through the obstacles and passing through the gums, she waited for her own love independently, calmly and calmly.

Every time she meets Coco, she always carries a cup of water with it filled with warm water. I suddenly realized that after years of acquaintance, I never knew if she could unscrew the mineral water herself.

But I am sure that she will never screw like a girl - can not open the bottle, afraid that she is not strong enough to be independent and insecure; twisted to open the bottle, and worried that the woman is missing the feminine.

Coco is like a sunflower, always facing the sun, not doing unnecessary worry, not looking for it. It is only necessary to use all the way to persist and work hard to turn yourself into what you want. No worries, no complaints, no regrets.

I asked Sun Xiaoxian: Such a girl, who cares if she can screw the bottle?