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Don't be so angry, this world does not owe you!


It is said that an engineer once asked his boss, Guo Taiming, very rudely. Why are you the richest man in Taiwan, and I am working for you to work overtime? Guo boss said that there are three differences between us. First, when I started my business. It is a gamble on all the family, if you are unsuccessful, you will be married. And you just send a resume to go to work, but you can leave at any time. The difference between me and you is entrepreneurship and employment. Second, I choose who to do with me every day, and who do you? In which department is assigned The difference between us is to choose and be chosen. Thirdly, I am thinking about how to create profits every day. Every decision can affect tens of thousands of families, and you only need to think about when to take care of your family. , so the difference between us is the lightness and weight of responsibility. Indeed, I have met several wealthy people recently. The last feeling is that he can't stand the crimes he has suffered. I can't afford the responsibility he has. I won't earn the money he earns.

One

My friend Li Liangcheng, willing to endure hardships, be kind, character and jealousy, often help people.

Liang Cheng has a distant relative in the country, and his family is not very good. Liang Cheng took the relatives who had just arrived in the country to support their children to go to school. The children also work very hard and learn very late every day. Worried that the child is too tired, Liang Cheng often advises the child to rest early.

A few days ago, the teacher called Liang Liang in the past and asked some very strange questions. His eyes were very weird, and he was a little bit flustered.

Liang Chengxin is thick and does not think much.

After two days, Liang Cheng checked the homework and accidentally saw an essay by the child, and suddenly stayed.

There are a few words in the composition, which probably means: Why is this society so unfair? Why do some people do nothing tonight, but eat spicy and spicy? For example, I am a big man, Li Liangcheng, who watches TV every day. It is shopping for shopping, but there is always money that can't be spent. Rich people are good, what to buy if you want to buy anything...

Liang Cheng was flustered at the time. He wanted to take the child over and yell at the child's ear: You are a mother and a dead child. Why do you say that you are not doing anything from day to night? What day to night? It’s your aunt! It’s just because your aunt doesn’t do anything all day long, just mix the days like this! You’re afraid that you’re tired of becoming a dog, you can’t see it...

I finally understood why the teacher’s eyes were so strange.

Liang Cheng can't say anything to the child, afraid of hurting the child. He talked to me about this and I was still stunned.

What I can't think of is that this kind of deformed mentality, I do not know why quietly invaded the child's heart.

two

When I was in Shenzhen, I was deeply impressed by the extremes of the people.

Once went out, see two security chats, just listen to a security saying: look at our community, open a good car, all fucking for the rich!

There is no logical relationship between driving a good car and being rich. I don’t know how this security relates the two. Before I could sort out his logic, I listened to another preservation: that is, poor and poor, rich and rich, too fucking and unfair. I am looking forward to a sport now. When I first sign up, I will not kill those rich people who are rich and innocent.

The preservation of the back, the muscles on the face are distorted, and the young eyes transmit hatred that I cannot understand. And this kind of hatred is completely non-logical, and fiction is based on distortion and delusion.

three

The other thing is that I have a friend. His son is very promising. My aunt doesn't care much. The children apply for overseas famous schools and are accepted. The friend was so excited that he screamed at the acquaintance and ate it all. In addition to the excitement, there was a long-time old friend between the seats. Suddenly, I hurriedly said: Foreign schools don’t look at the test scores at all. If you give money, you will be lucky. If you want to go to school, you will go to school.

The friend angrily argued: You are talking about the pheasant university, my son is a famous school, and the famous school is more strict. My son is a full scholarship!

The other party threw back one sentence: all the same, give up the money.

Your mother... I’m so angry that I want to beat people. But knowing that his son's performance is too good, has caused public outrage, what he can do is to immediately get up and pay for the leave, many years of old friendship, so far.

four

The above-mentioned several things have a common feature, which is to create hatred and even to modify the facts.

Li Liangcheng is not a local tyrant. It is really a dog every day. Since he took the children of relatives, he has sentenced him to several years of hard labor. I never expected that the child would not appreciate it at all. The reason why he insisted that he "does nothing at all in the day and night" is just to create an excuse for artificially creating injustice and to establish a basis for his own anger.

Now how does Li Liangcheng tell the child that this concept is distorted? I am afraid it is not an easy task, and it is not easy to reverse the effect.

In the residential area of ​​Shenzhen, I don’t know how many bad local tyrants are rich, but some of the people I know are sleeping late than dogs and tired like the cockroaches. One of the bosses was vomiting blood to the stomach in order to receive the order. There is also a fat local tyrant who was chased by the creditors at the lowest valley. He was flustered, and the wall of more than two meters high, he jumped over when he slammed...

If they know that someone hates them so much, they will burst into tears.

The last son of a friend who went to a famous overseas school is really wrong with him. Your son is too promising, which means unreasonable humiliation of other children. I closed the door and celebrated with a few close friends. I have to tell the world that others are full of sorrow and anger, and of course I have to repair you.

It’s just the reason for this repair, ignoring the facts and being too distorted.

Fives

It is not wrong to not work hard, not to work hard and cynical, so the brain is increasingly distorted. When you hate the efforts of others, you deliberately ignore the efforts of others, give yourself an excuse for not working hard, and count as human nature; but deliberately deceive yourself and think of yourself as an unjust victim, and thus let yourself live in grief In the mindset, this is tormenting myself.

Don't be so angry, the world doesn't owe you, and you don't owe anyone!

Everyone whose economic status is above you has a more bleak pay than you. They didn't take away anything from you. What you got was only proportional to your wisdom. It's really not the fault of others.

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