People, the easiest to get lost in socializing

Water is the easiest to disappear in the water; people are the easiest to disappear into the crowd.

A drop of water is clearly visible, but when it is integrated into the water, can you still find the drop of water? Similarly, a person with personality, angularity, hobbies, thoughts, emotions, and self, if you are eager to be someone else Acceptance, eagerness to gregarious, often destroys their own edges and corners, hides their own personality, and bans their inner voice. Mark Twain said: "Like all the people in the world, what I have exposed to the world is only the pruned, sprinkled perfume, and meticulously public opinions, and my private opinions are cautious and smart. The ground is covered."

People always like to accept people who are the same as themselves and reject people who are different from themselves. What kind of people are eager to be accepted by what kind of people.

However, the desire to be accepted by the crowd often leads us to sharpen our heads, distort our personality, suppress ourselves, and even do things that are against our hearts. Finally, although accepted by the crowd, the self disappeared.

It is a terrible thing to disappear from the crowd in the crowd. Everyone is telling lies, and if they say something that is against the heart, the result will lead to serious irrational behavior.

The biggest difference between people and people is that a person who walks on a country road does not care about other people's views and eyes, and does not have to consider his own posture and dress. The people in the social field care about what they leave to others. Impression, hide the true self and act in the way others like.

People need to socialize, but they don't need to turn their entire life into social. If we always care about everyone's feelings, thoughts, arguments and evaluations, then we will lose ourselves and disappear into the vast sea of ​​people.