Life is not so difficult to get out of

I believe in destiny, but I will not be intermittently smug, and I will continue to eat and die.

There are two reasons for my life: First, I can't think of what will happen tomorrow, and the second is that there is too much uncertainty in life, which makes people unable to grasp. Therefore, I am more convinced of the lessons I brought to me yesterday and what I am going to do today.

Many chicken soup hands tell me that as long as you work hard, you will succeed. But in fact, there are many other factors besides trying to succeed, such as opportunities, such as someone appreciating, such as changes in your external environment, such as your continued efforts for 20 or 30 years, slowly taking time. Effort is fundamental, but without those external factors, your efforts are worthless.

A Jun is a teacher, working hard and meticulous. Good teaching plans have seen a lot, but I have never seen such a beautiful teaching plan, writing a stroke, can be used as a copybook; the main solution next to the teaching plan, as well as the attached experience and reflection; he gave the students the assignment The criticism is also a word.

It has always been this attitude since I started working in my twenties, but he is also an ordinary teacher when he retirees. I don't mention the reason for the system, but he said after retiring: I have worked hard all my life, and I have dreams when I was young, but the chances of time and time have not come to my head. This is not an example, not a partiality. Look at your surroundings, how many people in the industry circle? Most people are ordinary and unknown.

Don't mention being good at grasping opportunities, not saying that opportunities are all for those who are prepared. Who is chasing fame and fortune who will not try to prepare and look at the opportunity with hunger?

The friend is doing the wholesale business of wine, opened a facade, got up early and took a break, contacted the customer, and considered it carefully. He earned money? Earned. Ask him if he has achieved his or her expectations? He said that income is not directly proportional to his own contribution. Business is a matter of earning and earning, and many things are uncertain.

Speaking of this, it seems to be very pessimistic, people live in the world, since there are so many uncertainties, what is still mixed? Take one step and say one step, waiting for the fate of the arrangement. Anyway, if you work hard, you don't necessarily have a result.

In fact, I would like to say that life is too short, and there is not so much time to die by relying on things that do not see hope.

There is no way to re-recognize the mountains and heavy waters. The village is still alive, but I don’t believe that God will kill people with a stick. So many roads have to go black on a road? Is the life’s dilemma so difficult? ?

The gist of the solitary sword is not to look at the flaws of the other side, but to be temperate and not to stick to the inherent formula.

A child asked me: old man, I am suffocating in the unit, and repeating the same thing every day for nine to five, although I am doing my best, but life is like this. I said, do you have a hobby or want to do other things? He said that the work schedule is very dead, and there are still a lot of things to do after work, just want to do other things, and there is no time.

You have no worries about food and clothing, and euthanasia is a good choice. I say.

Since you see retirement at a glance, you are still trying to make such a result, and you don't want to make a change. Use one or the other excuse to enjoy the security that the cage brings to you. What good results are there in addition to waiting for death?

At work, although everything is clear, many things can't be grasped by myself. But there is always something that you can control, just like what you say to your child: Do you have a hobby or want to do something? He doesn't, and his formula has already trapped it.

Linghu rushed out of Zixia Shengong, jumped out of the swordsmanship that Yue Buqun taught him, and achieved himself in a more free and easy way. He has all kinds of difficulties, but he does not stick to the formula and can control himself. There are too many confusions in life. Sometimes, when you break your own stereotype, don't rigidify, change another mentality or lifestyle, the heavens and the earth will become another look.

Li Bai said that I will be useful when I am born. I would rather understand this sentence as having some outstanding advantages in everyone. If you don’t use your own strengths, is there any way?

The friend who made the wine business mentioned above, he has his own hobbies, likes calligraphy and painting, and spends his free time, often communicates with friends of the same hobby, accumulates little by little, and has more and more experience. For a long time, I also produced a good eye. It is famous in the collection of calligraphy and painting. Later, he gave the store to others and concentrated on the collection of paintings and calligraphy.

Later, we communicated. He said: I can't control a lot of things in the business field. In painting and calligraphy, I can fully control within my ability and have confidence in doing it. It is very happy to do something special in my heart.

Why are we not willing to lose what we have already gotten even in the midst of depression? Like chicken ribs, there is no meat, but it is reluctant to discard. After all, there is still a taste. Because of fear, no courage, more importantly, there is no confidence to control, no courage to pursue better development. So we would rather die in the middle of a dilemma than to do what we can control.

The mourning is greater than the death of the heart, as long as the heart is still there, and there is a heart that is unwilling to wait for death and is not willing to be slaughtered. There is a belief in controlling your own destiny, and exerting its own strengths and strengths will slowly come out in the dilemma.

Believe in destiny, but not passively waiting, I believe that God will not block all the roads. If you dare to jump out, if you have an eye, there is a pattern.

Zhang Wuji is a loser of martial arts and high strength. He is the conscience of the industry and has made great contributions to the development of Mingjiao. However, as far as his personality is concerned, he is not suitable for mixing in this circle, and he will die until the end, but still can't do Zhu Yuanzhang. Zhao Min is a wise man, taking him out of the dilemma, throwing away the troubles of the world, and moving away from the rivers and lakes.

There is no Zhao Min around us. There is no guide who guides me to move forward steadily, and more depends on myself.

Rely on your own vision and pattern.

If you work in a certain industry for a long time or in a unit for a long time, you will often be immersed in some habits, and you will slowly think that the world is so big. Or, if the field of vision is not broad, and how much can it be compared to the gains and losses in front of the eyes, how can there be an eye?

Yang Guo is in Guo Jing's home, as long as he can endure the dilemma of Guo Fu and others, he will live well. After all, Guo Jing and Huang Rong can teach him martial arts. Guo has so many relationships. It’s not impossible to mix and match.

However, he jumped out, he did not want to endure that kind of life, yearning for freedom and freedom, he knew his love and what he wanted, so his achievements even exceeded Guo Jing.

If the horizon is not high, and you can't jump out of the fence you have woven, you will never find another door. Only reading and experience can be used to enhance one's own vision in a bit by bit.

Still, I believe in destiny, I believe that there are too many uncontrollable things in the world. But I believe that when a door is closed, God will not close all the doors. The road is chosen by yourself, not by fate. There are always things that are in your hands, so why not make them the ultimate?