More understanding, more encouragement

In the hot summer days, another group of students who have studied hard for ten years will usher in a choice of destiny. It is an ivory tower that has entered the world and is waiting for the next year to return, or to devote themselves to the red dust.

Everyone who enters the ivory tower is the heart of the parents, the baby of the relatives and friends.

Prepare a returning child and prove your worth in the coming year.

The children who are involved in the red dust are lost in their hearts, and their relatives and friends are indifferent.

In the face of the choice of fate, the inner heart of every child is difficult to calm down. No matter how he has rebelled against his parents and teachers, no matter how unhealthy he is, no matter how hard he is, no matter how hard he is, not how much he cares about the future, the children are only children, and their hearts are extremely fragile. They can no longer rely on the sharp criticism of the world's words, can withstand the indifference of the world, but they expect the parents' affirmation. Parents' unintentional eyes can be the driving force, or even the only motivation, for the child to move toward the next goal.

At one time, we also experienced one test after another in the life of the senior high school entrance examination and the joint entrance examination. We have also suffered such pains. Some pain, we have endured, there is no need for the child to suffer the pain we have experienced again.

There is such a story.

Afu studied hard and Afu admitted to college. At the same time, Afu knows that he is far away from his father's desired goal XX University. Afu did not have the confidence to report to XX University. Filling out can only be a waste of aspiration. In addition, there is no more meaning. Afford, can't get the praise of his father, but expect his father not to be disappointed!

He handed the college admission notice to his father, and his father sighed: "If you knew that you could not get into XX University, why should I send you to XX key middle school?" The sound of extra-picture is a big savings in ordinary middle schools. money.

Afu’s small promises were shattered.

Afu self-comfort, I am the first in the class, I am also a famous university, but what can be done, failure is a failure, if you fail, you will not find any reason.

A Qiang is a classmate of Afu. He was admitted to a general university. A Qiang’s father hosted a large-scale celebration feast for him. A strong ambition is full of enthusiasm. Afu is envious of Aqiang.

Afu lost, and at this point, left a memory for the world. Afu retreats again and again, and he silently recalls his father’s disappointment in the praise of his relatives and friends.

Afu walked silently along the established path of life, going to college, marrying his wife, and having children. Afu often used painkillers to escape the inner troubles. Afford’s emotional communication with his father has also diminished.

Afu is a microcosm of a million students. He has such a dazzling aura, but only a little bit of parental affirmation, which seems destined to Afu's long road of life.

No matter how good or mediocre a child is, it is a continuation of the life of the parents. No matter what kind of achievements they make, they need to give them affirmation and be their strongest backing.

More understanding, more encouragement, giving children a hope, but also giving them a hope.